no, really, I mean it

been there, done that

nowadays, I find the random act of penetration (coitus) incredibly repetitive, obvious and predictable, like a "well, let's get over with it" thing

nowadays I prefer a great, extended foreplay and a great, extended conversation after the coitus

or perhaps I'm in bad shape or something (my erections are NOT what they used to be); or am I semi-depressed?? should I visit a doctor? is the same happening (has happened?) to you?

discuss

Sport does wonders for your libido.



Plus a lack of sleep and being overworked (at least for me). I seldomly take greater pleasure in fucking than after a 10-hour-shift in the studio with only two hours of sleep the night before, with my body already shivering from exhaustion.

Damn, I feel sorry for your erection problem, Joe. All my woman has to do is touch me, & I get hard.



But, maybe......just maybe.....it's the easy sex you've been having. It may be too easy for you to get it. So, if you had a bit of a challenge [& a mighty fine one @ that], it could spark some excitement for you sexually, & the erections would come far FAR easier.



Try to find someone who could really be a challenge to get in the bed, & see what happens....

Maybe you are getting tired of easy unattched fucking.

I don't think we can tell you if you are depressed or not. Do you feel depressed? When is the last time
you have gone for a check-up?

There are times when I want to fuck more and there are times when I want to fuck less. I think
it is natural, to some extent.

Oh dear. This is sad. Not even 30, not even married, and tired of sex.

This, I think is how people wake up one day and ask, "How the hell did I get to this place in my life?"

I know. I've been there. Maybe it's simply over-rated. Maybe, as life goes on, you just get busy doing other things. So long as it's not a gallon of ice cream... or you become the proud father of multiple cats... and don't live in your parents' basement, perhaps there is nothing wrong with it. Just take a break, focus on Number One (you), and when you are "ready" for it... it will happen. (And I hear it's like riding a bicycle!)

see a shrink

discover the prostate.

Yeah, I'm tired of that kind of sex too.

Have been for a while, actually.


Am an absolute fan of the big works, seduction, play, music, challenging eachothers' senses.

The whole dick in - dick out - dick in - dick splashes sperm is boring.

Maybe you're done with lust and are ready for love.

When you are in love with your partner, you will NEVER get tired of sex. I promise!

ok, so

-I need to get back into shape

-I need to find love

-I need to rediscover my prostate

sounds like a list of projects for 2014, lol

RodeoSchro said:

Maybe you're done with lust and are ready for love.

When you are in love with your partner, you will NEVER get tired of sex. I promise!

I hope to be there again someday

ZombieKitten said:

Congratulations! You're ready for marriage.

JoeTyler said:

ok, so

-I need to get back into shape

-I need to find love

-I need to rediscover my prostate

sounds like a list of projects for 2014, lol

Naw, you don't need to find love. You'll fall in love or not. I don't think it's something you can find just like that.


Share your prostate quest with us, please. I'd like to become an expert on that too. I heard that kind of specialism is a valuable asset.


You'r out of shape? Last photo you posted showed a sexy body. Was that photo shopped? Post a pic again, please.

ZombieKitten said:

Congratulations! You're ready for marriage.

ZombieKitten said:

Congratulations! You're ready for marriage.

I don't see the problem

You said:

nowadays I prefer a great, extended foreplay and a great, extended conversation after the coitus

.

That's sex, that sound like if this is 1 particular person that you are into the full spectrum of sex.

You don't need toys and prostate iritations.

.

Foreplay is sex, That word shouldn't even be used unless it's in connection with 'hook ups'

OldFriends4Sale said:

I don't see the problem

You said:

nowadays I prefer a great, extended foreplay and a great, extended conversation after the coitus

.

That's sex, that sound like if this is 1 particular person that you are into the full spectrum of sex.

You don't need toys and prostate iritations.

.

Foreplay is sex, That word shouldn't even be used unless it's in connection with 'hook ups'

ok, but what if that 1 particular person also wants to play with my penis? and WHAT IF my penis doesn't feel like working?

but I agree with the "too much easy & unnattached sex" comments, way too much during the last six months...

I don't understand the problem either.

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Honestly, there are a lot bigger problems & issues on the planet. Maybe focus on those for awhile & see if your erection comes back. In other words, take your mind off your "problem" and concentrate on something else for awhile.

*

When and if you find someone you really care about (rather than just want to bang), your sex life may improve.

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Good luck!

JoeTyler said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

I don't see the problem

You said:

nowadays I prefer a great, extended foreplay and a great, extended conversation after the coitus

.

That's sex, that sound like if this is 1 particular person that you are into the full spectrum of sex.

You don't need toys and prostate iritations.

.

Foreplay is sex, That word shouldn't even be used unless it's in connection with 'hook ups'

ok, but what if that 1 particular person also wants to play with my penis? and WHAT IF my penis doesn't feel like working?

but I agree with the "too much easy & unnattached sex" comments, way too much during the last six months...

Just fuck 'm.


Or I'll help you as soon as I'm in your neighbourhood.

My guy had issues with his erections, turns out he only needed to take in more B vitatins, B12 to be exact.

As far as what you typed... you don't have a problem. I guess its time to find love.

ZombieKitten said:

Congratulations! You're ready for marriage.

ZombieKitten said:

Congratulations! You're ready for marriage.

Haha!

JoeTyler said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

I don't see the problem

You said:

nowadays I prefer a great, extended foreplay and a great, extended conversation after the coitus

.

That's sex, that sound like if this is 1 particular person that you are into the full spectrum of sex.

You don't need toys and prostate iritations.

.

Foreplay is sex, That word shouldn't even be used unless it's in connection with 'hook ups'

ok, but what if that 1 particular person also wants to play with my penis? and WHAT IF my penis doesn't feel like working?

but I agree with the "too much easy & unnattached sex" comments, way too much during the last six months...

probably just need vitamins, healthy stuff that increases natural blood flow

Or you play with partner instead

There is a lot of pleasure in giving pleasure

.

a lot of hook up sex can lead to lack of stimulation

Hardly. I've had it less than 10 times in the last 26 months.

Fauxie said:

Hardly. I've had it less than 10 times in the last 26 months.

That will definitely help the ol' libido!

Fauxie said:

Hardly. I've had it less than 10 times in the last 26 months.

You've been with Dan 10 times in the last 26 months?