Approach it like it's the last meal you'll ever have.

Revel in it.

Slave2daGroove said:

Once had a girlfriend afew years ago and while I cared for her, she wouldn't let me bring this act into the bedroom. She was kind of uptight so I thought she just never had it done the right way. After a few glasses of wine, I went there, trying to make her beaver a believer. You would of thought I was trying the back door, she hopped up quick and then we had lubed sex. I was suprised and saddened as it's part of sex for me. Actually, it's the beginning of sex for me, getting her "in the mood" with the tongue.

What did I do? What would YOU do? Seriously, what would you do?

People are different, if she tries and is not enjoying it and not willing to try it again the only thing you can do is hope that she might change her mind sometime later. For me as a woman giving a blowjob is way hotter than getting licked . I don't refuse it as I appreciate the man being into it but it makes me sad in a way that the guy's efforts no matter how good he is doing it are not appreciated more so to speak.

LadyCasanova said:

Slave2daGroove said:

Once had a girlfriend afew years ago and while I cared for her, she wouldn't let me bring this act into the bedroom. She was kind of uptight so I thought she just never had it done the right way. After a few glasses of wine, I went there, trying to make her beaver a believer. You would of thought I was trying the back door, she hopped up quick and then we had lubed sex. I was suprised and saddened as it's part of sex for me. Actually, it's the beginning of sex for me, getting her "in the mood" with the tongue.

What did I do? What would YOU do? Seriously, what would you do?

I would have a conversation with my partner about why they have the limit that they have

and express what the act represents for me/ how it plays a role in my sexual needs.

Ultimately, I would accept my partners limits and continue to enjoy the relationship without

trying to push my needs onto them or make them do something they didn't want to do.

If, for whatever reason, I felt that I could not be satisfied without what my partner is

unable/ unwilling to provide I would have a hard long look at why I needed those things and

what I was willing to sacrifice for the relationship.

If the desire is a deal breaker than I would end things and seek out a partner who was

more compatible.

Maybe she will change her mind, maybe she wont. I think it is better to assume that if she says
never, she means never.

Just my

[Edited 11/13/13 3:48am]

Had the conversation, did not push my needs, then she turned out to be completely CRAZY. I won't get into it but it was the end of the relationship. Seeking out a partner who is sexually compatable is a weird thing because I've never put that first, being compatable as people has always been more important. Sex then happens and you find out how they are sexually after you've figured out that you get along as people. It just seems like a double edge sword. If you start with sex, then you're one of those people who care more about sex then who the person is, if not then you find out that you get along great but sexually you're not.

Humans are complicated...let's get back to what the thread's about

Slave2daGroove said:

BobGeorge909 said:

Slave2daGroove said:

Once had a girlfriend afew years ago and while I cared for her, she wouldn't let me bring this act into the bedroom. She was kind of uptight so I thought she just never had it done the right way. After a few glasses of wine, I went there, trying to make her beaver a believer. You would of thought I was trying the back door, she hopped up quick and then we had lubed sex. I was suprised and saddened as it's part of sex for me. Actually, it's the beginning of sex for me, getting her "in the mood" with the tongue.

What did I do? What would YOU do? Seriously, what would you do?

As classic a line as ever. This bisexual girl I know keeps ringing me up cuz her girlfriend doesn't have a handle on this 'task'. I used the quotes cuz I don't see it as a task at all...she tells me tho that her lesbian g/f sees it as one . I suppose made her beaver a believer. Gawd...I love that line. [Edited 11/14/13 19:21pm]

Thank you, thank you very much!

I wasn't sure if this thing was on, the crowds a little uptight around this vag thread...

apparently this guy knows a thing or two...