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new boyfriend curious questions....help? So i have been dating a guy for three months now and these things In particular raises my eyebrow...what should i do? Or not do? Ok hes really hot ..39 ..really built and i wanna sleep with Him but we still have not had sex. He says he wants to make sure im Not a cockhopper and that i am "the one". Good lord no guy Ever made me wait this long. Im losing my mind but i have been a good boy. Second, he has a dog with his ex. They been broken up for a year And he picks up the dog weekly to spend the night or walk her. He says he doea jot feel sexually Or emotionally attracted to him anymore after their five year relationship. I also left my ex in Jan and feel the same about him. I dunno..could this guy be genuine? Im scared what u think? Straight Jacket Funk Affair
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Would you feel any different if it was a child he was picking up? Your just feeling insecure... Just because they still have the dog that brings him in contact with the ex doesnt mean they are sleeping together... Unless, like Miss fee said, your "real" gut is telling you different, not the voice in your head.... People can be civil with their exes without screwing them... ~~~~~ Oh that voice...incredible....there should be a musical instrument called George Michael... ~~~~~ | |
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Well, three months is a bit of a stretch, but maybe this guy wants to take his time and really get to know you before jumping your bones. But if you're feeling something isn't right, then heed your instincts and tread litghtly. He might be hinding something. | |
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What's the issue here?
Just give eachother some time and see where it goes.
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Thanks guys!!
yeah I don't exactly feel anything. I just never dealt with this kind of circumstance before so don't know how to understand it. Im letting go however of the built up wall and just embracing it. Guess it's better than children.
The dog actually really likes me and when i come over sleeps on my legs. Never met the ex before but don't think I need to. Dont think he need to meet mine either although we have tons of mutual friends
Thanks I have calmed down really.... Straight Jacket Funk Affair
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More power to you Izzy! I couldn't do it! | |
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LOL!!! Defenitley mind over matter Straight Jacket Funk Affair
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He needs to put out, like, yesterday. | |
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Yknow, you might be hoppin to the next anyway if he remains that cagey. Would "the one" really resist for that long (even in the olden days of this sort of thinking, I am sure waiting was impossible for truly attracted partners)? | |
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Dude don't even know what im doing to keep myself out of trouble. Straight Jacket Funk Affair
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Well we finally had an orgasm together but intercourse he been sending messages and giving signals but stops me when its time. Im an aggressive sexual partner so taming myself is quite hard and I almost feel for bait about 4 times already.