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My brother in hospital My brother fell and now he's moved to the 2n hospital today. [Edited 8/22/13 2:55am] 99% of my posts are ironic. Maybe this post sides with the other 1%. | |
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Go see your brother. It will make you feel better. | |
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Agreed.
Crying or going to the hospital won't make things worse.
Hope your brother has a speedy recovery
Go see your brother
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I'm sorry to hear this, dJJ.
Usually injuries of this kind are what they consider to be "closed" injuries and are generally "slight" injuries. They usually cause some hematoma (bruising and swelling, essentially), and pain.
It probably hurts him quite a bit, more than it is dangerous.
I was in an auto accident a year ago and lacerated my spleen and the pain was awful. My injury was complicated by the fact that I'm on blood thinners (and spleens carry a huge resevoir of blood). But any injury like that, causes a lot of pain, but often heals on its own. He'll be in the hospital for a few days while they monitor him, probably, and then he'll have to really take it easy when he gets home for several weeks. By the way, when I lacerated my spleen, it was essentially a crack in the spleen, but various doctors described it as "torn", "ripped", "broke". It depends upon the doctor how he chooses to describe injuries like that and usually they make it sound much worse than it is with their choice of wording.
I would go to the hospital tomorrow (give them tonight to get his pain under control), and remind him what sisters are there for.
I'll keep him in my prayers (and you, too). | |
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:hug:Hang in there. [Edited 8/21/13 21:35pm] No More Haters on the Internet. | |
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Go see your brother!!
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Yep. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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So I thanked him for that.
And it will be good to be there. [Edited 8/22/13 4:09am] 99% of my posts are ironic. Maybe this post sides with the other 1%. | |
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Heres a hug from me..................lifes shit but at least your brothers alive..
your dad maybe doesnt know how to cope with emotions...its a man thing..
God bless you and your brother.
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dJJ, I knew you were probably panicking about what was going on with him. And those kinds of things are VERY scary, especially when it's someone we love so much. My kids were in the car with me when we were in the accident, none of us appeared to be hurt very much. I had a slight pain in my side, but thought it was probably from the air bags. We went to urgent care and I made them check out my children first before I would even let them touch me, my daughter especially because she has a lot of health issues, and kidney problems, so I was worried about her the most. They sent us all home and it wasn't until we got home that the pain began to really hit me (urgent care thought I probably just had some bruising, nothing to worry about). Anyway, it all worked out okay. And it will with your brother, too.
I'm glad you confronted your dad and it sounds like whatever you said to him really hit home, since he didn't bring it up any more. Nor does it sound like he was mad at you about it. He probably realized the truth of it and just accepted it. And it's good that he kept you updated about your brother. I'm glad the morphine is working for him, to keep his pain managed. It didn't work for me. They had me on the maximum dosage and the pain was still unbearable. They ended up putting me on fentanyl and, eventually, dilaudid. It was the last one that finally helped. So, if the morphine is helping, his pain not be as severe as I was afraid it might be, but that isn't to say that he's not in a lot of pain, but that it is manageable.
Please let us know how he is when you get back from the hospital. And how you are, too. | |
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PEOPLE get the energy that other people give... with that bein said, do what you feel is good.
as far as your pops, he may be lookin out for you too. (i'm a pops) it may seem more than you can bare at the time. i wouldn't want the fear and worry in my face to send that message to a loved one. dependin on the severity, i wanna first see them while they sleep so i can guarantee composer (self) when they wake.
this is the 'acceptable lie', when my actions cover my emotions.
take care luv
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you are NOT... STOP ME IF YOU HEARD THIS BEFORE... | |
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hugs to all of you. you should go see him if you want to. i hope he gets better soon. | |
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Saw him today! First, he was extremely grumpy.
Somehow, Dutch medics don't belief in heavy painkillers. And fortunately he tested him, and then he was send to the hospital.
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dJJ, I am SO happy to hear that he is on the road to recovery! And I'm glad I could help in some small way!!!
I knew you were worried, could tell by the tone of your writing, and you just needed to know that it was going to be okay. I didn't go into all of the details about what I went through, because of that (the bleeding, ICU, etc.,) because it really wasn't important because in my situation there was an extenuating circumstance (being on blood thinners and bleeding don't quite go well together and let's just say in my situation, the outlook got quite grim - but I'm alive and well and still here to dance the night away with my two left feet).
But it sounds like you had a very wonderful visit with your brother. And it really sounds like the two of you have a fantastic relationship, and that is priceless.
Yes, keeping him inactive is going to be very difficult. As soon as I was released from the hospital, I went straight back to work. In two weeks I was starting a new job and had so much that I needed to finish up with my old job before starting the new one ... It took me longer to heal than I would have if I had listened to the doctor. Remind your brother of that. The more he tries to do (too soon), the longer it will be before he is back to 100% himself.
I'm VERY relieved and happy for you dJJ (and your brother). | |
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glad he is recovering! | |
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Give your brother my best wishes. I am happy you went to see him and he is recovering. I hope he can find something to occupy him while he is confined to bed. Maybe he would like some music or audiobooks? Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise. | |
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He said he would read some books...
Just to make sure that he complies with the docters definition of 'bedrest' and not his own definition. 99% of my posts are ironic. Maybe this post sides with the other 1%. | |
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for his recovery & his staying still....
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LOL - If he is like you, you might be required to have your brothers and yourself have to strap him down with duct tape. (I've a feeling you can be pretty stubborn, too, when you want to be. ) | |
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you're not allowed to go to the hospital to see your brother??
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I am glad your are going to see your brother, I am so sorry he is in the hospital. Speedy healing to him, your family is in my prayers. | |
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Is it not possible for him and his wife to go on a cruise and the family to step in and help with the kids, ensuring they continue in school?
Your brother sounds like one of the good guys left in the world, no vices, loyal, taking care of himself through engaging in sports (exercise). You could really appeal to that side of him. Remind him that if he wants to get back to engaging in his sports, he has to rest NOW, otherwise it will take him longer before he get back to doing the things he loves. A little sacrifice now will bring him greater reward in the near future. | |
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