great...

EmeraldSkies said:

great... ever told a guy you like him,and have him tell you he just isn't ready for a serious relationship? I know he would be the best friend I could have,but still feeling like I want something more with him than just sex when we are around each other is killing me.

I have had people tell me,some of the best relationships are ones where the people started out as just friends,but the thought of waiting,and knowing that it just feels right with him is very frustrating.

is this the guy you work with?

MoBetterBliss said:

is this the guy you work with?

yeah. I actually wasn't the one to tell him,another employee did,and he showed up at my house the next morning to talk to me. At first I couldn't look at him cause I was a little embarassed with how he found out,but he turned me to face him,and at the same time pulled me into a hug where one hand was around my back while he used his other hand to gently press my head to his chest.

lotta friendzonin goin on 'round here.

KingBAD said:

lotta friendzonin goin on 'round here.

so how do I get out of the friend zone? I know from past things he has said that if I let him,he would probably have sex with me,but I really want more than just a physical relationship,and right now that seems to be all he is wanting.

EmeraldSkies said:

KingBAD said:

lotta friendzonin goin on 'round here.

so how do I get out of the friend zone? I know from past things he has said that if I let him,he would probably have sex with me,but I really want more than just a physical relationship,and right now that seems to be all he is wanting.

i really ain't the one to ask, i believe in free expression.

i remember when everybody was under the impression

that "the way to a man's heart was through his stomache"

but then for that one would have to cook for them which

went out of style for many women.

now it seems that playin on a ballanced playin field is frowned upon.

IF this person would take one step for sex, they may take the next step.

you could also just say "fuck it" and find whut you need/want, it's prolly someone you've already 'friendzoned' yourself... one just never knows about such things.

my question is;

why would you wanna fuck with anyone that you didn't wanna fuck,

knowing that that's where it's gonna go anyway? fuck/make love/ whutever you wanna call it.

i'm jsut not the person to ask about things like this.

my spiritual plain is narrow and lightly traveled.

EmeraldSkies said:

KingBAD said:

lotta friendzonin goin on 'round here.

so how do I get out of the friend zone? I know from past things he has said that if I let him,he would probably have sex with me,but I really want more than just a physical relationship,and right now that seems to be all he is wanting.

He's clearly told you up front what he wants and all that he's expecting between you and him. You've said that you want more, he doesn't. Believe him and move on. You said a few posts up that you don't know if you could handle just being his friend while being around him, well then it's time to distance yourself from him for a while until you can handle it. Be glad that you know this early on now rather than later.

KingBAD said:

EmeraldSkies said:

so how do I get out of the friend zone? I know from past things he has said that if I let him,he would probably have sex with me,but I really want more than just a physical relationship,and right now that seems to be all he is wanting.

you could also just say "fuck it" and find whut you need/want, it's prolly someone you've already 'friendzoned' yourself... one just never knows about such things.

Couldn't agree more.

Looks like it's time for the guy to look for a new job. Boss's kid can't keep their feelings in check.

EmeraldSkies said:

KingBAD said:

lotta friendzonin goin on 'round here.

so how do I get out of the friend zone? I know from past things he has said that if I let him,he would probably have sex with me,but I really want more than just a physical relationship,and right now that seems to be all he is wanting.

Move along. If you know that he isn't interested in a relationship past the sex, and you want MORE than that, then move along - don't set yourself up for the disappointment.

Find someone who wants what you want.

EmeraldSkies said:

great...

You don't see it now, but this is a good thing. Trust.