How do you avoid the trap?

Friendzone them first.

Byron said:

Friendzone them first.

Won't that make it worst? It could lead to the worst situation.....being 'brotherzoned'

Pr1nceQuik said:

Byron said:

Friendzone them first.

Won't that make it worst? It could lead to the worst situation.....being 'brotherzoned'

I actually have no clue ...I've never been "Friendzoned", so not sure how you end up there or how you avoid it.

I just gave that advice thinking maybe a woman will wonder why you don't want her as anything but a friend and it will intrigue her?...Maybe? lol

Is it like being "bro'ed"?

Either a girl is attracted to you or she's not. There's not really much you can do to change her opinion of you in that way.

If she wants to be your friend, consider yourself lucky and enjoy your friendship. Good friends can be hard to come by.

keep it pimpin,

find 'em

fuck 'em

leave 'em alone...

KingBAD said:

keep it pimpin,

find 'em

fuck 'em

leave 'em alone...

I guess it's not like being "bro'ed" after all.

KingBAD said:

keep it pimpin,

find 'em

fuck 'em

leave 'em alone...

That doesn't apply to women you like. Maybe sluts, yeah.

Byron said:

Pr1nceQuik said:

Won't that make it worst? It could lead to the worst situation.....being 'brotherzoned'

I actually have no clue ...I've never been "Friendzoned", so not sure how you end up there or how you avoid it.

I just gave that advice thinking maybe a woman will wonder why you don't want her as anything but a friend and it will intrigue her?...Maybe? lol

You're lucky my dude. It sucks....especially when you really like the woman.

Pr1nceQuik said:

KingBAD said:

keep it pimpin,

find 'em

fuck 'em

leave 'em alone...

That doesn't apply to women you like. Maybe sluts, yeah.

see, there you go passin judgement on them ho's

like i said KEEP IT PIMPIN!!!

shit, i ain't ever been in the FRIENDZONE

can't think of one time that i been close...

i never even met a slut before, whut do they do???

keep it pimpin or don't cry over spilt milk.

a taxi is a taxi...

in england taxis are benzes, bentleys, and rolls

all really classy cars, but they still taxis.

you can't catch one, get another or wait

'til they hard up for a fare.

KEEP IT PIMPIN!!!

then you don't have to worry about trivial things like bein FRIENDZONED

or suffering the indignitiies of tryin to find some-one else that been there...

"we don't love them ho's, and it's like that" snoop dogg.

p.s.

you got a pic of DJ QWIK as an avatar

you like his music???

"truth is they" was horny, i was hungry, so we laid on the bed and made sandwiches" dj quik.

If you want more and she only considers you a friend, get out. No reason to spend time in a one sided relationship. It will drive you nuts.

Pr1nceQuik said:

Byron said:

I actually have no clue ...I've never been "Friendzoned", so not sure how you end up there or how you avoid it.

I just gave that advice thinking maybe a woman will wonder why you don't want her as anything but a friend and it will intrigue her?...Maybe? lol

You're lucky my dude. It sucks....especially when you really like the woman.

Yeah, I imagine it does lol...

With me, I can find a woman incredibly attractive but not necessarily want a relationship with her (for whatever reason)...so being friends is actually very fulfilling. From what I've always gathered, guys in the friendzone are usually there as a means to an end. In other words, they're only being "friends" in order to get something from the woman. They feel if they hold on long enough, it'll happen. So the friendship isn't really based on sincere feelings. I truly enjoy being friends with females, without wanting or needing them to be anything else or to give anything else. If they find themselves wanting more from me, well, I won't exactly be insulted lol.

Byron said:

CarrieMpls said:

Either a girl is attracted to you or she's not. There's not really much you can do to change her opinion of you in that way.

If she wants to be your friend, consider yourself lucky and enjoy your friendship. Good friends can be hard to come by.

exactly!

ZombieKitten said:

Byron said:

Yeah, I imagine it does lol...

With me, I can find a woman incredibly attractive but not necessarily want a relationship with her (for whatever reason)...so being friends is actually very fulfilling. From what I've always gathered, guys in the friendzone are usually there as a means to an end. In other words, they're only being "friends" in order to get something from the woman. They feel if they hold on long enough, it'll happen. So the friendship isn't really based on sincere feelings. I truly enjoy being friends with females, without wanting or needing them to be anything else or to give anything else. If they find themselves wanting more from me, well, I won't exactly be insulted lol.

I think that's sad. All the while they whine about how women don't appreciate "nice" guys and really they aren't being a friend at all are they. I like man friends better than woman friends for reasons like I am more a tomboy and I have very few female friends that even get me. I've sat at the women end of the table at birthday parties and I just don't know how to talk like them. I'd rather be at he other end quoting Seinfeld and telling dirty jokes. Plus a man friend is ok with being more occasional and less intense - won't give you silent treatment if you don't call every week or such rubbish. I know this is all completely irrelevant to the thread

I swear you and I were separated at birth lol

Most of my friends and friendly acquaintances are and have been female. I don't really have a lot of friends to begin with, though, but the few that I have always tend to be women.

When I "sat at the men's end of the table" so to speak, the convo that takes place isn't anything I'm ever inetested in. It was literally about NASCAR, car engines, sports and talking disrespectfully about women. Some of the sports I could get into, but the rest? Hell, no. And every woman was called a "bitch", no matter what. Seriously, you won't believe how disrespectfully guys talk about women when they're just around other guys (or at least I couldn't believe it).

Eventually I'd end up drifting away from them and joining the "womenfolk" lol...then again, in my family the women talk about Seinfeld episodes and tell dirty jokes ...

Byron said:

Pr1nceQuik said:

KingBAD said:

keep it pimpin,

find 'em

fuck 'em

leave 'em alone...

That doesn't apply to women you like. Maybe sluts, yeah.

Maybe she doesn't want to be romantically involved with a guy that has this really outdated, lame attitude.

Or maybe she doesn't want to be involved with a guy that fucks girls he doesn't "like".

I've always turned the friend into more.

That's if I invested the time and she was worth it.

JustErin said:

Pr1nceQuik said:

That doesn't apply to women you like. Maybe sluts, yeah.

Maybe she doesn't want to be romantically involved with a guy that has this really outdated, lame attitude.

Or maybe she doesn't want to be involved with a guy that fucks girls he doesn't "like".

??? which one would that be?

was it the 'slut' thing, or the one where

"it ain't too bad they way you usin me,

cause i am sho nuff usin you,

to do the thang you do." bill whithers

to be truthful i don't know why she dumpin on him.

however i do know how to avoid it.

if quiet be kept, she prolly dumpin cause he won't fuck.

i wasn't there, i just don't know

Byron said:

Friendzone them first.

Correct.

KingBAD said:

JustErin said:

Maybe she doesn't want to be romantically involved with a guy that has this really outdated, lame attitude.

Or maybe she doesn't want to be involved with a guy that fucks girls he doesn't "like".

??? which one would that be?

was it the 'slut' thing, or the one where

"it ain't too bad they way you usin me,

cause i am sho nuff usin you,

to do the thang you do." bill whithers

to be truthful i don't know why she dumpin on him.

however i do know how to avoid it.

if quiet be kept, she prolly dumpin cause he won't fuck.

i wasn't there, i just don't know

I'm quoting you and responding just to let you know that I don't read your responses because I don't understand them.

CarrieMpls said:

Either a girl is attracted to you or she's not. There's not really much you can do to change her opinion of you in that way.

If she complains that

"all the good guys are taken"

while you're in the friendzone,

consider de-zoning.

[Edited 6/18/13 14:53pm]

Pr1nceQuik said:

Byron said:

I actually have no clue ...I've never been "Friendzoned", so not sure how you end up there or how you avoid it.

I just gave that advice thinking maybe a woman will wonder why you don't want her as anything but a friend and it will intrigue her?...Maybe? lol

You're lucky my dude. It sucks....especially when you really like the woman.

What's going on?


How long do you know her?

Do you regularly hang out together?


Are you in love with her?


Do you both share similar values in life, or is she just your MTV phantasy?

Cinny said:

ZombieKitten said:

Cinny said:

If she complains that

"all the good guys are taken"

while you're in the friendzone,

consider de-zoning.

[Edited 6/18/13 14:53pm]

Well yeah, if your ultimate (and only goal) is to get in her pants, do her a favour and remove yourself from her life, you are not a friend.

So how does one "avoid the trap". It's Byron's advice co-signed by Novabreaker.

lrn36 said:

HAHAHA! So rude but funny

ZombieKitten said:

Cinny said:

If she complains that

"all the good guys are taken"

while you're in the friendzone,

consider de-zoning.

[Edited 6/18/13 14:53pm]

Well yeah, if your ultimate (and only goal) is to get in her pants, do her a favour and remove yourself from her life, you are not a friend.

Exactly.

Pr1nceQuik is not her friend. He's just another imposter trying to have sex with her, under the pretence of being her friend.



What else is new?

dJJ said:

ZombieKitten said:

Cinny said: Well yeah, if your ultimate (and only goal) is to get in her pants, do her a favour and remove yourself from her life, you are not a friend.

Exactly.

Pr1nceQuik is not her friend. He's just another imposter trying to have sex with her, under the pretence of being her friend.



What else is new?

As if y'all don't go for that! The question is.. how come it is not working for him?