Fauxie said:

Sorry, maybe I wasn't clear. Right now I'm 9,000km away from my wife. If I get to thinking about it, sure, when I'm next with the missus I'll probably almost kill her but since I know I won't be with her for at least 4 more months I've just shut down that part of my mind. I was in prison for 14 months and did the same thing. I love sex, I love my wife and I love sex with my wife, but my being able to return to being with my wife is not 100% certain just yet so there are other things more important to me right now. I miss other aspects of our relationship more than sex.

We're on the same page now Man...You've acknowledged the mistakes you made. You seem to be ready to do right by everyone including yourself. Regardless of your current situation continue to set short & longterm Goals. You have to have a plan in order to know where you're going...

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And to answer this Threads Question...In my 36yrs I think the longest I've gone without any sexual contact was 1-month or less while in my 20's...I had Fun in my 20's so any down time would been good....I've had 1 long-term Friend with benefits for 10yrs..We don't hound each other, don't get upset if 1 of us has to cancel a Hook-up, We don't just show up to each others crib for Sex unannounced, if we're single we'll hang out 1 on 1, We dont hang out together in a circle a friends, She doesnt meet my Love interests & vice-versa...When and if she gets Married the whole thing is a wrap.

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2 1/2 years

About 10 years or more. I don't really miss it that much though. As you get older, the libido begins to fade, but I guess it really depends on the individual.

imago said:

JoeyC said:

I had to check Kiasheri's profile to she if she was a man or woman. She's a woman so i guess the question is for me.

I'm hiding behind a computer screen so i can be honest....Its a good size length but its also kinda skinny.

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The reason why I asked is I remember you starting a thread many years ago about it being large, uncut, and proudly hanging or something like that.

And, one thing I noticed from hung men is that they are much more confident than other men, or more apt to get laid. So the long abstinance is unusual from my point of view, and I would imagine is of your own volitian. Hung guys get it when they want it. (for the most part)

I'm doing some hard thinking right about now and i can't say for sure that it was me who posted those comments. Ive only been posting since Sept 2011, and my jank is chopped so it might have been someone else who made them. If within the past 19 or so months i did say something like that i was either joking or lying....I'm curious now, can a person check their old posts on here ?



As for why i haven't had sex in so long. There's a few reasons.

I kinda learned about sex at a young age and as i got older i got involved in the party scene, so Ive had a decent amount of sex partners. I guess you could say i had a mild sex addiction.

Anyway by the time i hit my mid 30's i started to want something different than just sleeping with random people so i made a conscious decision to abstain from sex. For the first 4 years or so of abstinence i still had a strong desire for sex but because i kinda isolated myself from the people, places and things that made random sex possible, it wasn't as easy to get laid. As time went on and as i got more comfortable with living alone and not having any drama or hassles from people, or responsibility for another persons well being, i started to miss sex and human companionship less and less. I got set in my routine and became complacent and time just flew by.


Now that I'm in my mid 40's my sex drive isn't as strong as it used to be and i also have some health problems that probably lessen my libido so i don't trip off sex as much as i used to. I would like to find someone that rekindles the passion but it would probably have to be the whole package(love, dedicated girlfriend/ marriage) and not just be about sex.

Ive been there, done that and its old.

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JoeyC said:

imago said:

The reason why I asked is I remember you starting a thread many years ago about it being large, uncut, and proudly hanging or something like that.

And, one thing I noticed from hung men is that they are much more confident than other men, or more apt to get laid. So the long abstinance is unusual from my point of view, and I would imagine is of your own volitian. Hung guys get it when they want it. (for the most part)

I'm doing some hard thinking right about now and i can't say for sure that it was me who posted those comments. Ive only been posting since Sept 2011, and my jank is chopped so it might have been someone else who made them. If within the past 19 or so months i did say something like that i was either joking or lying....I'm curious now, can a person check their old posts on here ?



As for why i haven't had sex in so long. There's a few reasons.

I kinda learned about sex at a young age and as i got older i got involved in the party scene, so Ive had a decent amount of sex partners. I guess you could say i had a mild sex addiction.

Anyway by the time i hit my mid 30's i started to want something different than just sleeping with random people so i made a conscious decision to abstain from sex. For the first 4 years or so of abstinence i still had a strong desire for sex but because i kinda isolated myself from the people, places and things that made random sex possible, it wasn't as easy to get laid. As time went on and as i got more comfortable with living alone and not having any drama or hassles from people, or responsibility for another persons well being, i started to miss sex and human companionship less and less. I got set in my routine and became complacent and time just flew by.


Now that I'm in my mid 40's my sex drive isn't as strong as it used to be and i also have some health problems that probably lessen my libido so i don't trip off sex as much as i used to. I would like to find someone that rekindles the passion but it would probably have to be the whole package(love, dedicated girlfriend/ marriage) and not just be about sex.

Ive been there, done that and its old.

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OMG, You're not JoeyCoCo ?!?!?!


From England? I thought you were him.

He's hung and uncut (yes, I was just looking for an excuse to post those words again.)

imago said:

JoeyC said:

I'm doing some hard thinking right about now and i can't say for sure that it was me who posted those comments. Ive only been posting since Sept 2011, and my jank is chopped so it might have been someone else who made them. If within the past 19 or so months i did say something like that i was either joking or lying....I'm curious now, can a person check their old posts on here ?



As for why i haven't had sex in so long. There's a few reasons.

I kinda learned about sex at a young age and as i got older i got involved in the party scene, so Ive had a decent amount of sex partners. I guess you could say i had a mild sex addiction.

Anyway by the time i hit my mid 30's i started to want something different than just sleeping with random people so i made a conscious decision to abstain from sex. For the first 4 years or so of abstinence i still had a strong desire for sex but because i kinda isolated myself from the people, places and things that made random sex possible, it wasn't as easy to get laid. As time went on and as i got more comfortable with living alone and not having any drama or hassles from people, or responsibility for another persons well being, i started to miss sex and human companionship less and less. I got set in my routine and became complacent and time just flew by.


Now that I'm in my mid 40's my sex drive isn't as strong as it used to be and i also have some health problems that probably lessen my libido so i don't trip off sex as much as i used to. I would like to find someone that rekindles the passion but it would probably have to be the whole package(love, dedicated girlfriend/ marriage) and not just be about sex.

Ive been there, done that and its old.

[Edited 5/28/13 23:50pm]

OMG, You're not JoeyCoCo ?!?!?!


From England? I thought you were him.

He's hung and uncut (yes, I was just looking for an excuse to post those words again.)

There was a Joey C before me ?? Damn, i thought i was unique.

My first name is Joey so i figured i should go with JoeyC(coco). I'm not from England though. I'm a California boy.

3 years.

nearly two years

JoeTyler said:

nearly two years

im surprised Joe

Considering that my sex life started relatively recently, a couple of years ago, and I had only one partner in my life, with whom we have had a long relationship, I did not have sex since we broke up - March, 3 months now.
and the most amazing thing is that I do not want to , but I started dating another guy recently. I think we will soon broke if I did not give in to him. adulthood - is a hemorrhoid, it was better to be a baby.

Looks right now that it could be a while longer yet before I'm 'with' my wife. I can wait though.

Way too long. Waaaaaay too long lol

Not quite a decade since the last time but damn near it.

Been about 2 years now.

Probably two to three months.

Fauxie said:

PurpleJedi said:

Been about 2 years now.

Geesh when are you finally going to have Imago bottom for you? the org has been waiting for years.

A month.

BlackAdder7 said:

Fauxie said:

Sorry, maybe I wasn't clear. Right now I'm 9,000km away from my wife. If I get to thinking about it, sure, when I'm next with the missus I'll probably almost kill her but since I know I won't be with her for at least 4 more months I've just shut down that part of my mind. I was in prison for 14 months and did the same thing. I love sex, I love my wife and I love sex with my wife, but my being able to return to being with my wife is not 100% certain just yet so there are other things more important to me right now. I miss other aspects of our relationship more than sex.

You were in prison for 14 months with no sex? You never dropped the soap? Good god man!

I decided against paying a couple of packs of cigarettes to have sex with a ladyboy behind the washing lines.

PurpleJedi said:

Been about 2 years now.

I now this is a bit opportunistic of me under the circumstances, and wouldn't be your first option, but with the lights down really dim, I would feel like a really delicate, muscular, bulky, hairy woman who sometimes belches.


Just think it over.

28 years

Fauxie said:

BlackAdder7 said:

Fauxie said: You were in prison for 14 months with no sex? You never dropped the soap? Good god man!

I decided against paying a couple of packs of cigarettes to have sex with a ladyboy behind the washing lines.

It really is sweet of Imago to do so much volunteer work for the prisons

imago said:

PurpleJedi said:

Been about 2 years now.

I now this is a bit opportunistic of me under the circumstances, and wouldn't be your first option, but with the lights down really dim, I would feel like a really delicate, muscular, bulky, hairy woman who sometimes belches.


Just think it over.

PurpleJedi it would be shameful of you to turn him down, I say go for it now and regret it later!

One year and counting

Gunsnhalen said:

PurpleJedi said:

Been about 2 years now.

Geesh when are you finally going to have Imago bottom for you? the org has been waiting for years.

DysregulatedToxicity said:

imago said:

I now this is a bit opportunistic of me under the circumstances, and wouldn't be your first option, but with the lights down really dim, I would feel like a really delicate, muscular, bulky, hairy woman who sometimes belches.


Just think it over.

PurpleJedi it would be shameful of you to turn him down, I say go for it now and regret it later!

LadyCasanova said:

Fauxie said:

I decided against paying a couple of packs of cigarettes to have sex with a ladyboy behind the washing lines.

It really is sweet of Imago to do so much volunteer work for the prisons