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Reply #30 posted 03/11/03 4:45pm

ian

biggrin Let's just keep having the same conversations over and over biggrin
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Reply #31 posted 03/11/03 4:45pm

jessyMD32781

ian said:

Yeah I think I've answered this a few times before...

Well, I've only ever dated Japanese women, all my girlfriends throughout my life (a long, depressing trail of broken hearts and bitterness haha) have been Japanese and my wife is too. Clearly, I do have a preference there... but I do like other kinds of women too of course. All sorts are cool really... I've seen plenty of beautiful white women, and black women, and every other shade that could turn my head in an instant smile

The only thing is I do prefer dating women from a different cultural background to myself... don't get me wrong, Irish women are brilliant, really great... but I find that cross-cultural dating is nice because you can't form too many assumptions about each other, and you have to get to know each other properly based on what they seem to be, rather than what you think they might be like.

You know the way... dating someone from your hometown means that person might immediately from the first meeting have lots of preconceived notions of who you are, where you're from, what you are like, what you earn etc... it is liberating to avoid all that bullshit and get to know someone properly.

ok, so you find women who aren't Japanese attractive but would you or have you ever considered forming a romantic relationship with a woman who wasn't Japanese?
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Reply #32 posted 03/11/03 4:46pm

sawatdiikhrap

ian said:

biggrin Let's just keep having the same conversations over and over biggrin



I swear your response to this last time was almost exactly the same, and I wrote ditto too.

Strange.

U must get deja vu all the time working around here.
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Reply #33 posted 03/11/03 4:51pm

ian

jessyMD32781 said:

ian said:

Yeah I think I've answered this a few times before...

Well, I've only ever dated Japanese women, all my girlfriends throughout my life (a long, depressing trail of broken hearts and bitterness haha) have been Japanese and my wife is too. Clearly, I do have a preference there... but I do like other kinds of women too of course. All sorts are cool really... I've seen plenty of beautiful white women, and black women, and every other shade that could turn my head in an instant smile

The only thing is I do prefer dating women from a different cultural background to myself... don't get me wrong, Irish women are brilliant, really great... but I find that cross-cultural dating is nice because you can't form too many assumptions about each other, and you have to get to know each other properly based on what they seem to be, rather than what you think they might be like.

You know the way... dating someone from your hometown means that person might immediately from the first meeting have lots of preconceived notions of who you are, where you're from, what you are like, what you earn etc... it is liberating to avoid all that bullshit and get to know someone properly.

ok, so you find women who aren't Japanese attractive but would you or have you ever considered forming a romantic relationship with a woman who wasn't Japanese?


Oh certainly, I'd consider it if I wasn't married, definitely. It just hasn't worked out like that to date... didn't meet the right girl or whatever.

Don't get me wrong... there are downsides to international marriages too... although I speak decent enough Japanese, the language barrier can be a problem at times. Visa issues, immigration hassles at airports, all that crap can be a real pain in the arse. My wife's English isn't great, so she isn't really very employable (which is fine with me, but if we were in Japan she'd probably be happier..,).

If our marriage fell apart and I found myself single again, I'd definitely consider dating someone who is a native speaker of English smile The main reason is that we could both live and work happily in the same country without either of us feeling lonely or isolated or whatever, and we wouldn't get frustrated when we couldn't make ourselves understood sometimes etc because of language or cultural barriers.
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Reply #34 posted 03/11/03 5:01pm

ian

ian said:

If our marriage fell apart and I found myself single again


On reflection, given the amount of time I put into the Org, and playing videogames (whether for work or for pleasure) this may not be that unlikely haha. Ah well, at least the Org loves me, right?! Right!?!
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Reply #35 posted 03/11/03 5:02pm

EvilWhiteMale

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Pussy is pussy, no matter what the color of the body.
"You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "

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Reply #36 posted 03/11/03 5:06pm

jessyMD32781

ian said:

jessyMD32781 said:

ian said:

Yeah I think I've answered this a few times before...

Well, I've only ever dated Japanese women, all my girlfriends throughout my life (a long, depressing trail of broken hearts and bitterness haha) have been Japanese and my wife is too. Clearly, I do have a preference there... but I do like other kinds of women too of course. All sorts are cool really... I've seen plenty of beautiful white women, and black women, and every other shade that could turn my head in an instant smile

The only thing is I do prefer dating women from a different cultural background to myself... don't get me wrong, Irish women are brilliant, really great... but I find that cross-cultural dating is nice because you can't form too many assumptions about each other, and you have to get to know each other properly based on what they seem to be, rather than what you think they might be like.

You know the way... dating someone from your hometown means that person might immediately from the first meeting have lots of preconceived notions of who you are, where you're from, what you are like, what you earn etc... it is liberating to avoid all that bullshit and get to know someone properly.

ok, so you find women who aren't Japanese attractive but would you or have you ever considered forming a romantic relationship with a woman who wasn't Japanese?


Oh certainly, I'd consider it if I wasn't married, definitely. It just hasn't worked out like that to date... didn't meet the right girl or whatever.

Don't get me wrong... there are downsides to international marriages too... although I speak decent enough Japanese, the language barrier can be a problem at times. Visa issues, immigration hassles at airports, all that crap can be a real pain in the arse. My wife's English isn't great, so she isn't really very employable (which is fine with me, but if we were in Japan she'd probably be happier..,).

If our marriage fell apart and I found myself single again, I'd definitely consider dating someone who is a native speaker of English smile The main reason is that we could both live and work happily in the same country without either of us feeling lonely or isolated or whatever, and we wouldn't get frustrated when we couldn't make ourselves understood sometimes etc because of language or cultural barriers.

cool smile
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Reply #37 posted 03/11/03 5:12pm

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Well, this one time I dated a goat. Fuzzy Nuts was his name. Until my so-called "friend" Daniel Ogg stole Fuzzy away from me.

Now I just date a rabid Russian.
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Reply #38 posted 03/11/03 5:14pm

althom

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My wife is Italian...so yeah!
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Reply #39 posted 03/11/03 7:04pm

bkw

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BattierBeMyDaddy said:

Well, this one time I dated a goat. Fuzzy Nuts was his name. Until my so-called "friend" Daniel Ogg stole Fuzzy away from me.

Now I just date a rabid Russian.

Yeah, a rabid Russian girl. razz
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Reply #40 posted 03/11/03 8:16pm

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yes my husband is white and I am black. He is methodist and I am baptist, I am 5 years older than him also.
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We all should know that diversity makes for a rich tapestry, and we must understand that all the threads of the tapestry are equal in value no matter what their color.
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Reply #41 posted 03/11/03 11:11pm

Christopher

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yes...why? because i can.
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Reply #42 posted 03/11/03 11:12pm

MostBeautifulG
rlNTheWorld

yes I have...

I have dated

An Arab
A Mexican
A Redneck
Too many loosers
and lots of white boys
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Reply #43 posted 03/11/03 11:15pm

Christopher

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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

yes I have...

I have dated

An Arab
A Mexican
A Redneck
Too many loosers
and lots of white boys



ever dated a "A.michael hall" ?
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Reply #44 posted 03/11/03 11:17pm

MostBeautifulG
rlNTheWorld

Christopher said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

yes I have...

I have dated

An Arab
A Mexican
A Redneck
Too many loosers
and lots of white boys



ever dated a "A.michael hall" ?



No maybe I should try him out sometime lol
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Reply #45 posted 03/11/03 11:18pm

Christopher

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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

Christopher said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

yes I have...

I have dated

An Arab
A Mexican
A Redneck
Too many loosers
and lots of white boys



ever dated a "A.michael hall" ?



No maybe I should try him out sometime lol



yay!!...my avatar is most excited!
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Reply #46 posted 03/11/03 11:19pm

MostBeautifulG
rlNTheWorld

Christopher said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

Christopher said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

yes I have...

I have dated

An Arab
A Mexican
A Redneck
Too many loosers
and lots of white boys



ever dated a "A.michael hall" ?



No maybe I should try him out sometime lol



yay!!...my avatar is most excited!


lol
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Reply #47 posted 03/12/03 5:06am

CalhounSq

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Nope, not yet...
heart prince I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it prince heart
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Reply #48 posted 03/12/03 5:33am

silkyspread

EvilWhiteMale said:

Pussy is pussy, no matter what the color of the body.


Your showing your crudeness now... But i wouldn't of expected anything less from you!
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Reply #49 posted 03/12/03 5:35am

silkyspread

Ohhh and my answer is yes... smilesmile
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