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Does age really matter? Listen,recently I've been talking to this guy who's a little bit younger then me. He's 18 and I'm 23. This will be his last year of high school and this situation had me thinking... while he's going to be a freshmen, I'll be going into my Junior of college (if I decide to reply for fall semester). I really like this guy, he's real mature for his age and drops alot knowldege on things I never even heard of, but I do feel guilty cuz of our age difference and I can't help but to feel so much older then he is...
I've been having alot of man problems as y'all know  . but the young guy is the guy who makes me feel like, love really does exsist and if I just be a little bit more patient, I can have true love also. I don't have to go through all that like I have to with all my past experiences, this is one of the reason why I like him so much... I just can't seem to get over the age thing, I ask myself Why can't I find a guy just like him but a little bit older then I am?
So it had me seriously thinking about this day old question... does age really matter, I need help y'all seriously ?  | |
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If the pickins is slim for ya. Get what you can :LOL:
If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with. | |
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*I'd say go for it. Don't let age smash a good relationship..18 and 23..eh..no biggie. As long as ur happy together!* -_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_
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Believe me, at your age, it might matter, but in 10 years (assuming you last that long) a measly 5 years will mean considerably less.
Unless legality is an issue, I say age is often neither here nor there. It's your connection and compatibility to the person that counts. Are you two evenly yoked? Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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Age aint nothin but a number! | |
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no, got for it. | |
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Lammastide said: Are you two evenly yoked?
I'd say Yes 
Only problem is I'm holding back :Sad: | |
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If he doesn't annoy you, go for it.
I dated a girl about 21 when I was 29, and she tortured me to death with her immaturity...it was definitely a compatibility issue. The number itself doesn't prevent you, but the baggage that results (or if there is none) is where the trouble would (or would not) appear. Fear is the mind-killer. | |
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Age doesn't matter! My wife is 7 years older than me, no big deal. As long as it's all legal... it's fine | |
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DigitalLisa said: Lammastide said: Are you two evenly yoked?
I'd say Yes
Only problem is I'm holding back :Sad: For what? A 23-year-old guy who is no good? You better get yo' love, girl! Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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The only thing is though... most 18 year old males have a lot of shagging they want to get done before they're gonna consider getting married or settling down or whatever. If you are looking to get more serious, that could be a point of conflict. | |
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ian said: The only thing is though... most 18 year old males have a lot of shagging they want to get done before they're gonna consider getting married or settling down or whatever. If you are looking to get more serious, that could be a point of conflict.
Yeah I know... But I wouldn't look at this as a bad thing  Forget Viagra it's coming naturally baby | |
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DigitalLisa said: ian said: The only thing is though... most 18 year old males have a lot of shagging they want to get done before they're gonna consider getting married or settling down or whatever. If you are looking to get more serious, that could be a point of conflict.
Yeah I know... But I wouldn't look at this as a bad thing Forget Viagra it's coming naturally baby Well, I think Ian was suggesting he'd be doing the shagging with assorted women [This message was edited Tue Mar 11 16:49:08 PST 2003 by Lammastide] Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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Lammastide said: DigitalLisa said: ian said: The only thing is though... most 18 year old males have a lot of shagging they want to get done before they're gonna consider getting married or settling down or whatever. If you are looking to get more serious, that could be a point of conflict.
Yeah I know... But I wouldn't look at this as a bad thing Forget Viagra it's coming naturally baby Well, I think Ian was suggesting he'd be doing the shagging with assorted women [This message was edited Tue Mar 11 16:49:08 PST 2003 by Lammastide] Yup... this is what I refer to as the "Skittles Theory". As a young man, you really cannot just assume that your favourite flavour of Skittle is orange if the only flavour you've tasted is orange. You really need to taste lemon, and lime, and blackcurrent, and even strawberry if you are saucy enough, and then make an educated decision as to which flavour agrees with you the best. There's no actual evidence for this theory, but it is a scientific fact. | |
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ian said: Lammastide said: DigitalLisa said: ian said: The only thing is though... most 18 year old males have a lot of shagging they want to get done before they're gonna consider getting married or settling down or whatever. If you are looking to get more serious, that could be a point of conflict.
Yeah I know... But I wouldn't look at this as a bad thing Forget Viagra it's coming naturally baby Well, I think Ian was suggesting he'd be doing the shagging with assorted women [This message was edited Tue Mar 11 16:49:08 PST 2003 by Lammastide] Yup... this is what I refer to as the "Skittles Theory". As a young man, you really cannot just assume that your favourite flavour of Skittle is orange if the only flavour you've tasted is orange. You really need to taste lemon, and lime, and blackcurrent, and even strawberry if you are saucy enough, and then make an educated decision as to which flavour agrees with you the best. There's no actual evidence for this theory, but it is a scientific fact. Not unless ur in2 butter fingers if u know what I mean | |
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Age don't matter when you know you got that Special Someone that can dot your I's&Cross your T's.Legal&good to go is all that matters IMHO. mistermaxxx | |
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