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What's her motive?? I work in transportation & in September of 2012 my schedule changed which meant different faces. There was this one young lady who began to get on & I thought she was extremely attractive!! She always spoke everyday "Good Morning". One day she was taking her son to school & was clearly running late. They crossed in front of my vehicle while I was stopped & she was looking very hard. I smiled & as she now walked parallel to my vehicle she was still staring & we made eye contact again, leaving us both smiling.
The " Good Mornings" continued through October. Then one day the "Good Mornings" changed to "hey baby" This went on for 2-3 weeks. All the while I never attempted to pursue her in any way as I wasn't sure of her intentions!! Then it was now "Good Morning boo-boo". One evening she got on out of our normal morning timeframe, but this time she was with a gentleman. She spoke but it was just "hello". They sat down & he put his arm around her.
She then continued to ride, but if the scheduled vehicle in front of me ran late, I could see her from a block away get on my leader's vehicle. She would still get on periodically. If she sat in the back of my vehicle she always made her way to the front to say "goodbye" even if my vehicle was crowded!!
Then one Saturday I was coming my primary care physician which is on the same block she would get on & who do I see waiting for mass transit. She looked in the car but didn't know it was me, so I rolled down the window & asked her if she wanted a ride. She was gonna get in, but said "that's okay one is only 2 blocks away". I looked in the rearview mirror & saw the bus coming. Not wanting to be thirsty i said "okay, see you Monday".
There were times she would board & see other females standing up front talking to me from time to time. I went to school & grew up in that very same neighborhood so I knew a some of my passengers. When she would see other females standing up front her body-language instantly changed. Although she spoke normally including the "Boo-Boo" title, she seemed annoyed/jealous!! I now took this as she was interested in me. One Sunday I over-indulged in alcohol & didn't feel safe going to work that Monday so I called-off. I went to her stop & waited for her & she came down the street like clock-work. I called her & said "c'mon I'm driving you to work. She hesitated & said "that's okay plus my brother is right there, I'm gonna ride the bus with him". I pulled off & went about my day. She doesn't ride on Tuesday cause of her off day, so I didn't see her.
She then didn't ride at all that week & felt like I was totally out of line for popping up like that. Fast foward to the next week & she didn't begin riding til that Thursday. I was so embarrased, but she didn't waver in her actions at all. She came up front to talk as her stop approached. She asked me "how have I been"? I replied & apologized for coming to her stop out of the blue & asked her was she upset for me popping up & she shook her firmly as if to say not at all.
One day she came up front earlier than normal & was just standing there, I asked her "when can we hang out" & she smiled & pointed to her ring finger. I pointed to mine & replied "we're both in the same catergory. ( I am not happy at home!!!!!) She blushed & got off. I then backed off thinking I just played myself.
We still talked in a limited capacity daily but I could see something was bothering her. When i asked, she told me one of here grandparents was sick with cancer & was dying. Two & halfs weeks came & went and I'm calling myself names believing I scared her off. Then one day, she re-appears. She got on & kissed me on the cheek. My vehicle was crowed that day & she told me her Grandfather had died & she went back home to bury him.
She said she missed me & she didn't get to see me on Valentine's Day. I told her I had something for her in my car. She said "I'll see you Wednesday" She boarded & I gave her the card with something small inside. I also included my number but didn't write it in the card cause I'm really not certain of here status. I went on vacation & she texted me to say Thank You for the card but I didn't know, cause on my apps caught the text. I texted her back four days after her initial text & said that I was in cardiac arrest & waiting for rescue. i was joking but highly elated that she text me. No reponse form my text at all.
When i returned to work the following week & she got on & greeted me as usual. She went & sat down but came up front laughing at my text & said it was cute. She also said she didn't know how to respond to it. I said i was gonna text you the other day but didn't think it was appropiate. She said "you can text me anytime"!!
She began texting me everyday now, but the texts never said anything out of the way. They mostly always read " have a good & blessed day" I would text her back with the same response along her lines. One day we were going back & forth & told told her I was always scared of working that line cause of the passenger loads. She replied "bet you like it now". I replied, I do especially her stop. She repsonded with "U better".
That was the only thing out of the ordinary I ever got from her. I asked to have a drink with me after work & she said "can't today, but maybe another day". I am not going to chase her, cause that's not something I've ever been into & i'm not about to start!!!
A couple of weeks back I had an issue with a piercing that almost prevented from making it to work. I was able to fix the situation, but it left me in some pain that day. A friend whom I grew with & went to school with, boarded & noticed my facial expression. I told her what happened & she gave advice, but also stated "see trying to loook cute for that girl at 72nd Street". I said how did you know there was something there. She said i see evrything that goes on. I said, you didn't see it on my end & replied, "no it's her, she flirts with you".
When I mentioned to my friend that someone noticed, she laughed hard. She then text me the usual have a great & blessed day but also said " I could see how she got her idea, but some people confuse friendly with flirt". OUCH! Was that an underlying message to me? I responded in a way to not offend her. She continued to get on everyday but the texts now ceased altogether. I still acted normal but she noticed my body-language & I noticed hers as well. The next week she began texting me everday again, except weekends when I'm off. i would say goodbye when she got off but wouldn't text her at all & i've only texted her maybe 3-4 times initially.
She mentioned last week that she went to this restaurant over the weekend which has a rep for being expensive. i asked her when was she taking me & she replied "I'll think about it".
I'm getting tired of this game & i'm wondering what's her motive please help it hurts!!!! [Edited 4/21/13 12:59pm] | |
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I'm more curious about your intentions.
Why would you choose that one option that you are certain to end bad for at least 1 of the involved people?
You could be a real man, and be responsible for your marriage.
99% of my posts are ironic. Maybe this post sides with the other 1%. | |
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be kind, be a friend, not a bully. | |
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