ok, I just read where u posted that the guy works with you and your parents...it may change a little, but I would still give it a try..this is where we miss out on someone or some thing..you should at least let it be known that you are interested,trust me,guys can pick up on those type of things..don't be too pushy, because for me, that's a turn off, then you dont want him to feel as if you are coming too strong..if he is interested back, he will give you time of day..going back to working for your parents though, it may get a little awkward, especially if you both have disagreements and arguments..but overall, I would really show signs and lead up to say something to

ok, I just read where u posted that the guy works with you and your parents...it may change a little, but I would still give it a try..this is where we miss out on someone or some thing..you should at least let it be known that you are interested,trust me,guys can pick up on those type of things..don't be too pushy, because for me, that's a turn off, then you dont want him to feel as if you are coming too strong..if he is interested back, he will give you time of day..going back to working for your parents though, it may get a little awkward, especially if you both have disagreements and arguments..but overall, I would really show signs and lead up to say something to

Okay, all silliness aside.

You know your job is safe, but is his job safe messing around with the boss' daughter. If you really like him you wouldn't want to jeopardize his income on a fling. You seem to want him to chase you.

morningsong said:

Okay, all silliness aside.

You know your job is safe, but is his job safe messing around with the boss' daughter. If you really like him you wouldn't want to jeopardize his income on a fling. You seem to want him to chase you.

Agreed. I think it would be different if she met him beforehand and THEN he started to work there but since it's not like that, I would stay away from him. Maybe she could flirt with him in other ways (i.e. love letters from a pseudonym)

SeventeenDayze said:

morningsong said:

Okay, all silliness aside.

You know your job is safe, but is his job safe messing around with the boss' daughter. If you really like him you wouldn't want to jeopardize his income on a fling. You seem to want him to chase you.

Agreed. I think it would be different if she met him beforehand and THEN he started to work there but since it's not like that, I would stay away from him. Maybe she could flirt with him in other ways (i.e. love letters from a pseudonym)

here we go

Honey, trouble too often comes looking for us. Don't go looking for it. Leave this dude alone. Way too risky. You'll meet someone else that you'll become enthralled with and you won't even think about the dude at work. Now, if he leaves to work somewhere else and you still have feelings for him, then go for it. Until then, leave him be. A dude dating the boss' daughter is usually a dude who isn't very bright, lacks common sense and he's asking for trouble.

Dating someone you work with, breaking up with them and having to look at them 5 frickin' days a week is torture. I've been there and will NEVER do it again.

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kitbradley said:

Honey, trouble too often comes looking for us. Don't go looking for it. Leave this dude alone. Way too risky. You'll meet someone else that you'll become enthralled with and you won't even think about the dude at work. Now, if he leaves to work somewhere else and you still have feelings for him, then go for it. Until then, leave him be. A dude dating the boss' daughter is usually a dude who isn't very bright, lacks common sense and he's asking for trouble.

Dating someone you work with, breaking up with them and having to look at them 5 frickin' days a week is torture. I've been there and will NEVER do it again.

[Edited 4/3/13 7:16am]