You are playing the victim and stoking the fires at the same time. It's like saying how bad the devil is then asking him to shove his pitchfork where your sun don't shine! 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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I really don't see how you think I like all this drama? lol....well, I told you guys early on that I was a scumbag, so what's new? Trolls be gone! | |
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If you didn't like it, you wouldn't keep feeding it.
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AND it would be brought to real completion 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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" I´d rather be a stank ass hoe because I´m not stupid. Oh my goodness! I got more drugs! I´m always funny dude...I´m hilarious! Are we gonna smoke?" | |
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i'm going back to my original impression. you're definitely making this up for attention and wrote this ^^^ yourself. good angle tho. everybody loves an unrepetant apostate (clearly ). Fret not that you frighten or offend. Invite the world to dance and marvel at who joins. | |
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What am I allegedly "making up"? This is what's happening in my life but it seems like since some of you all watch paint dry in between sunrise and sunset, you think the whole world is the same. Sheesh....
I am NOT keeping up the drama because I am the main one trying to resolve it and he's not trying to, so what does that make him? He's the drama king if you ask me! Trolls be gone! | |
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You don't really love this guy.
You're just admiring what he represents to you. A good guy, who's religious, has a job, and has a stable marriage.
You don't really know this guy, so whatever feelings you have for him are pure lust and superficial.
You're really upset that this guy is not paying attention to you because he probably doesn't want to put his mariage in jeopardy or his reputation at stake. You probably envy his wife because she has something you don't have.
I bet if he ever said "fuck it" and fucked you senseless, you wouldn't be happy and you'd kick him to the curb because the thrill of the hunt is gone. He'd lose everything and you'd lose nothing. Also, you'll never be fully comfortable because the man cheated on his woman for you. Your turn would be waiting just around the corner.
Find yourself a new object of lust and move on. You've gotten plenty of sound advice that you refuse to heed but choose to moan on and on about him and publish your lust letters to stir up more drama.
The salvation of man is through love and in love. - Dr. V. Frankl
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Okay, so I left the church and haven't fucked this guy at all and so what am I doing that's not following you alls advice? Trolls be gone! | |
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THIS THREAD
2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Well, I own up to the love letter thing though....it's my only outlet at this time, LOL Trolls be gone! | |
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"at.
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time."
Are you saying you wrote a loveletter NOW? 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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There's a thin line between love and hate, and sometimes that line is microscopic. I don't think he's an angel whatsoever and what he did really hurt me a lot. I know I was wrong for getting revenge but he's still being a coward because of all this nonsense but it will be interesting to see if he punished at all by the denomination and it seems unlikely but who knows. I have been hearing things from others around town that make me think he is in a bit of hot water still... Trolls be gone! | |
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no... there's not | |
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Okay, bring me up to speed so that I can understand.
What exactly did he do again to have provoke revenge?
I'm overworked, I cannot keep up with all these damned threads, and trying to follow the story is giving me a headache. | |
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Ottie, I am trying to figure out what the revenge is.
It could not possibly be the lawsuit because if he defamed her as she said, that was the right thing to do. | |
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Money post right there. We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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Well according to seventeen she took revenge on the pastor by filing a lawsuit for Defamation of Character against her.
If I'm not mistaken she is also going after the leadership of her denomination as well for allegedly covering up for him....but covering up for what? How are they covering up?
What did he say and to whom about her and to what degree did it impact her life that a lawsuit was necessary? Are there witnesses? How far has this suit gotten? Has it been proven that there are true and authentic grounds for this suit? Who will be called to prove the accusations against pastor?
This is all too damned fuzzy, too many questions unanswered and puzzle pieces missing.
And it certainly makes no sense that for all these legal entanglements the person who filed this suit and is further persuing action against the heads of the church actually wants to get on good terms with this pastor dude who she's had a crush on all along.
Things don't add up. And don't get me started on the whole Christian angle and the stand that a Christian woman is supposed to take for marriage, praying and standing in the Word of God for the strength of all marriages, and being adult enough to excercise self-control over feelings of coveting that or whom which does not belong to them. I know everybody up in here ain't Christian, but for those of us who are...it's all pretty clear in the text where lines are supposed to be drawn where marriage and coveting is concerned, so I don't even know why this thread started and has gone on even THIS long. Just sayin' [Edited 3/15/13 10:45am] | |
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I read the OP's original post and a few select responses by orgers that I find tend to make the most sense in general.
As with all the other threads this person makes, the stories always come off as the drama being in her mind only. The outcome is always victims of this person's obsession and delusion trying to distance themselves from her. | |
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Some people have too much time on their hands... "Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination and life to everything." --Plato
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Ms. Ottie I believe this whole thing is made up.
There's no lawyer who would take a case like this because unless there's some evidentiary support to her claim, she has no case. Lawyer would lose and not get paid.
There's no settlement for scorn.
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If you want to believe the whole thing is made up, go right ahead. Trolls be gone! | |
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He talked a lot of shit about to me to the folks in church to the point where folks thought I was his whore. It made since why all of a sudden I was being treated differently...The "revenge" part, to use a term from betting, is I see you "X" gossip and raise you "Y"...so basically I dished out some more bullshit about him and made sure it was humiliating and spread far. It was horrible. Trolls be gone! | |
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See previous post that I just wrote. That should clear things up.
Dude was talking shit about me, I was hearing it, tried to confront him on it, he ran away/used avoidance. Got frustrated hearing folks telling me I shouldn't be his whore. He didn't address the concerns that I had and was being a jerk, so the lawsuit was filed. The coverup from the denomination is because they are not dealing with the questions about accountability for their leaders. That's the short story, if it's still too confusing, orgnote me or just sleep on it lol Trolls be gone! | |
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SeventeenDayze said:
See previous post that I just wrote. That should clear things up.
Dude was talking shit about me, I was hearing it, tried to confront him on it, he ran away/used avoidance. Got frustrated hearing folks telling me I shouldn't be his whore. He didn't address the concerns that I had and was being a jerk, so the lawsuit was filed. The coverup from the denomination is because they are not dealing with the questions about accountability for their leaders. That's the short story, if it's still too confusing, orgnote me or just sleep on it lol Do you have proof? If not, you are trying to fuck up his life over bullshit. | |
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He didn't fuck up MY life over bullshit? I had people telling me this DIRECTLY. Trolls be gone! | |
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I heard christians were biggest trolls on the planet. I couldn't find another thread. 2014-Year of the Parties | |
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He didn't fuck up MY life over bullshit? I had people telling me this DIRECTLY. | |
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What kind of "proof" can you have in a slander lawsuit? Slander is spoken defamation, so the "proof" is witness testimony. When it's written, it's libel. Trolls be gone! | |
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But what did he say exactly and to whom?
How can you prove what was said without it simply being heresay?
You confronted him by saying/doing what?
At the time of said confrontation, what what his verbal response/reaction to you?
What was your verbal response to his?
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