.....it's 6 in the morning,..............and my heart is troubled. I just wanted to discuss this with someone, so.....

Last night I attended the wedding reception of someone I know... well, we met, and after kicking things around for a bit, got introduced to his new wife (I'd never met before), ended up having a "guy talk" (she wasn't listening). He was saying something along the lines of "I don't want kids immediately", so....... we got to talking about sex, and I asked him, well, what kind of fun he'd been having lately , and when he replied, it was something like "I like to see what I can MAKE HER do".

I didn't ask for the gory details, but part of me wanted to kill him on the spot (I didn't).

BUT....

This guy is not, well, let's say......poor!

That is almost, without doubt, the foundation for this,..... "marriage".

This got me to thinking some serious thoughts about all this type of stuff.

If a guy works hard all day, and earns money, and the wife simply lives off of it, well, I am of the point of view that a guy has some rights too. This has become a very tricky subject here in India, where they're trying to make marital rape illegal (after the gangrape case which got huge attention, and indeed, has been discussed here on the org), and remember, we still have huge numbers of arranged marriages. I am NOT a nasty guy. But if I was providing for someone, I'd want something out of it for myself too!

....and of course, there are the female centric relationships, where, if the girl is really good looking, well, she can cut off access to sex any time she feels like, and make the guy do whatever she wants via this method, then, well.... his life is pretty much over! He may AS WELL have an arranged marriage! (this kind of thing is quite prevalent in the West, from what I've seen from my time there). I thought that that guy's situation is sweet revenge from the guys for THIS type of thing.

Which is part of the reason I didn't jump on him straightaway. (if I want to, I have the rest of my life to do that).

From my OWN point of view, marriage means - I'm the only one she comes for

I'm not getting married without that.

... so what do each of you think?

MyPOV.

A man should NEVER have to worry about marital rape being illegal if he takes the time to know his wife's body and knows how to make her cum. If a man is patient and open he can make her want to fuck her man daily.

If a man is selfish and onlt caters to his own desires, then no amount of money in the world will grant him good sex. Sex will be mechanical and boring. She will eventually wander or reject him constantly. Bad sex is never something any man, rich or poor, wants.

So I say this to you... with ANY partner you choose to have. Make it your goal to make her cum first. Learn to enjoy oral sex and foreplay... and YES make that woman wash her ass thoroughly. The bends in her crotch especially because there is an armpit factor there and if you are gonna have your face all up in that, then she needs to be FRESH!

Later on you two can learn to become accustomed to each other's funky sweatty sex smells. Until then, make her approach with a fresh ass only.... you do the same!

This way, both of you will be confident and she may be more willing to do more things she normally wouldn't do. Win-win!

-Now you may already know all this, and it should go without saying... but you'd be surprised how many guys are too shy to make a woman wash her ass. So I write this stuff for conversations sake only for those who lurk and read to learn.

I say, take charge and make sure she approaches you right! Ain't nothing worse than sliding your dick in to open up a can of cabbage ass ... she will recoil and shrinkage will happen. Not good.

Fresh asses... clean bodies and sweet breath is a great beginning to a confident sexy romp into GOOD sex. It may start off awkward at first when the two of you start learning your bodies... but practice makes perfect! With great sex... wifey will want that dick all the time!

Besides, if she will be home and keeping house (that is if there are no servants) then she will be busy ALL day and be tired when you both are ready to retire into the bedroom... but if the sex is great, then the sex will act as a destresser, and relaxing agent that will heal the both of you through a sort of "touch therapy".

Even if you do not have traditional sex, being good at touching and massage can be very sensual also. It is nice to massage someone to orgasm.

I strongly recommend you talk you any fiance about sexual standards you expect in the bedroom during a pre-maritial counseling session... because both of you should be on the same page when it comes to the type of sex you will have.

Also, take care of your teeth and become a great kisser... kissing always brings out the beast in any woman.

Happy fucking to you.

paintedlady said:

MyPOV.

A man should NEVER have to worry about marital rape being illegal if he takes the time to know his wife's body and knows how to make her cum. If a man is patient and open he can make her want to fuck her man daily.

If a man is selfish and onlt caters to his own desires, then no amount of money in the world will grant him good sex. Sex will be mechanical and boring. She will eventually wander or reject him constantly. Bad sex is never something any man, rich or poor, wants.

So I say this to you... with ANY partner you choose to have. Make it your goal to make her cum first. Learn to enjoy oral sex and foreplay... and YES make that woman wash her ass thoroughly. The bends in her crotch especially because there is an armpit factor there and if you are gonna have your face all up in that, then she needs to be FRESH!

Later on you two can learn to become accustomed to each other's funky sweatty sex smells. Until then, make her approach with a fresh ass only.... you do the same!

This way, both of you will be confident and she may be more willing to do more things she normally wouldn't do. Win-win!

-Now you may already know all this, and it should go without saying... but you'd be surprised how many guys are too shy to make a woman wash her ass. So I write this stuff for conversations sake only for those who lurk and read to learn.

I say, take charge and make sure she approaches you right! Ain't nothing worse than sliding your dick in to open up a can of cabbage ass ... she will recoil and shrinkage will happen. Not good.

Fresh asses... clean bodies and sweet breath is a great beginning to a confident sexy romp into GOOD sex. It may start off awkward at first when the two of you start learning your bodies... but practice makes perfect! With great sex... wifey will want that dick all the time!

Besides, if she will be home and keeping house (that is if there are no servants) then she will be busy ALL day and be tired when you both are ready to retire into the bedroom... but if the sex is great, then the sex will act as a destresser, and relaxing agent that will heal the both of you through a sort of "touch therapy".

Even if you do not have traditional sex, being good at touching and massage can be very sensual also. It is nice to massage someone to orgasm.

I strongly recommend you talk you any fiance about sexual standards you expect in the bedroom during a pre-maritial counseling session... because both of you should be on the same page when it comes to the type of sex you will have.

Also, take care of your teeth and become a great kisser... kissing always brings out the beast in any woman.

Happy fucking to you.

CHUCH!!!

^^^ You are too kind, I see how you do too.