Sorry, but I need to vent.

My heart broke when my friend (ex-neighbour) told me she is going to move back to England.

Since I moved to another neibhbourhood, not even that far away, we are not walking in and out of eachother's houses every day. She felt she was not grounded here anymore and wants to move back to England, live closer to her family.

I'm still confused and feel as if the earth fell away under my feet.

Haven't been myself.

It hurts so much. She is my best friend. And her kids have been my surrogate kids. I've cuddled, watched, fought, played with them so much. When I told them I was going to move, they just assumed that we all were going to move.

I know they have to go their own way. And I went my own way.

I'm very happy in my new house, but I regret moving here, now that it means that they are moving back to England (they'r English)

I'm all over the place, not feeling myself at all.

Trying do deny it or else I just crying all the time.

Losing a good friend is always harder than losing a man... especially if you were close to the babies.

Chin up... time will heal you.

Get up brush your teeth, get outside and do stuff until the pain isn't so bad anymore. She loves you and will call and keep in touch. Its not the same (I know), but take this as a opportunity to try something new ... have an adventure so when you connect again you two can laugh and talk about it.

It will make missing her less painful.

paintedlady said:

Losing a good friend is always harder than losing a man... especially if you were close to the babies.

Chin up... time will heal you.

Get up brush your teeth, get outside and do stuff until the pain isn't so bad anymore. She loves you and will call and keep in touch. Its not the same (I know), but take this as a opportunity to try something new ... have an adventure so when you connect again you two can laugh and talk about it.

It will make missing her less painful.

Thank you.

I know I just have to face the pain and deal with it.

And yes, the love and our bond will stay, no matter where she is.

We were connected from the first moment we met and those kind of very special bonds stay, no matter what.

I was their back-up father & mother, so, that is exactly what it feels like, that my family is moving abroad, however without custody arrangements.

And I'm very thankful that she came in my life, and later on the babies. I cherish every moment with them.

And I know time will heal my wounds.

And they first have to sell the house, and find something else, so they are not moving yet.

She hasn't told the kids yet. We just have to make a plan to make the change as smootly as possible for them.

Thank you for your support, and please fogive me in advance if I will be ranting about this subject a lot.

It's just, they are the most important people in my life.

Sorry to hear that.

At least in this modern age of Skype and Facetime, you will be able to keep in touch with them on a regular/daily basis.

PurpleJedi said:

Sorry to hear that.

At least in this modern age of Skype and Facetime, you will be able to keep in touch with them on a regular/daily basis.

True.

But can't cuddle through skype, though.

The youngest girl is addicted to sitting on my lap and me stroking her back.

Sat like that for hours with her.

And can't go out skating with oldest boy. I thought him how to, and there still is a promise of doing the friday night skate together.

And it's the regular dropping by for a quick coffee is out of the question.

I don't mind being sad about it. Would be very strange if I would not be sad. And I'm not getting depressed over it. Just hurt.

It will fade away.

And we will find a new way to interact. She'll allways be in my heart.

Thanks for the hugs, need them now

DJJ- Am I allow to babble in your own thread or do I have to start my own babble thread?

iaminparties said:

DJJ- Am I allow to babble in your own thread or do I have to start my own babble thread?

I don't own anything over here

And yes, please babble about anything of yourself.

Not matter what.

How come I can't get the right amount of warm water through shower spray?

If I turn water faucet a little left,it gets too cold,little to the right,it get's too hot.

DJJ-Would you date me?

iaminparties said:

DJJ-Would you date me?

I don't know you, so how can I know if I would date you?

And I doubt you'r in Amsterdam soon.

Im gonna babble somewhere else

This is a self serving thread.No one cares about water faucets and shower sprays.

iaminparties said:

Im gonna babble somewhere else

This is a self serving thread.No one cares about water faucets and shower sprays.

Sorry.

I'm European, showering is alien to me.

dJJ said:

iaminparties said:

Im gonna babble somewhere else

This is a self serving thread.No one cares about water faucets and shower sprays.

Sorry.

I'm European, showering is alien to me.

iaminparties asks to be her bathwater in 5...4...3...2...

PurpleJedi said:

dJJ said:

Sorry.

I'm European, showering is alien to me.

iaminparties asks to be her bathwater in 5...4...3...2...

I heard europeans don't like to shower or bathe anyway.

[Edited 2/18/13 11:53am]

just don't lose contact (Facebook)

dJJ said:

paintedlady said:

Losing a good friend is always harder than losing a man... especially if you were close to the babies.

Chin up... time will heal you.

Get up brush your teeth, get outside and do stuff until the pain isn't so bad anymore. She loves you and will call and keep in touch. Its not the same (I know), but take this as a opportunity to try something new ... have an adventure so when you connect again you two can laugh and talk about it.

It will make missing her less painful.

Thank you.

I know I just have to face the pain and deal with it.

And yes, the love and our bond will stay, no matter where she is.

We were connected from the first moment we met and those kind of very special bonds stay, no matter what.

I was their back-up father & mother, so, that is exactly what it feels like, that my family is moving abroad, however without custody arrangements.

And I'm very thankful that she came in my life, and later on the babies. I cherish every moment with them.

And I know time will heal my wounds.

And they first have to sell the house, and find something else, so they are not moving yet.

She hasn't told the kids yet. We just have to make a plan to make the change as smootly as possible for them.

Thank you for your support, and please fogive me in advance if I will be ranting about this subject a lot.

It's just, they are the most important people in my life.

no aplogies needed at all

It is good to talk ... it heals you.

paintedlady said:

dJJ said:

Thank you.

I know I just have to face the pain and deal with it.

And yes, the love and our bond will stay, no matter where she is.

We were connected from the first moment we met and those kind of very special bonds stay, no matter what.

I was their back-up father & mother, so, that is exactly what it feels like, that my family is moving abroad, however without custody arrangements.

And I'm very thankful that she came in my life, and later on the babies. I cherish every moment with them.

And I know time will heal my wounds.

And they first have to sell the house, and find something else, so they are not moving yet.

She hasn't told the kids yet. We just have to make a plan to make the change as smootly as possible for them.

Thank you for your support, and please fogive me in advance if I will be ranting about this subject a lot.

It's just, they are the most important people in my life.

no aplogies needed at all

It is good to talk ... it heals you.

Two lovely ladies who've proven that TRUE.

Yeah! trisome hug

I think my wrist might be broken. Didn't stop me from coming to work though! Thats exactly what I'm going to tell the guy I'm firing if he gets crazy with me

LadyCasanova said:

I think my wrist might be broken. Didn't stop me from coming to work though! Thats exactly what I'm going to tell the guy I'm firing if he gets crazy with me

Good luck with the firing!

7am... he brought me a dozen red roses today.

I HATE red roses... I LOVE peach (told him so), like yellow, pink.... HATE red.

I told him so before, when he bought me a boquet of red roses w/carnations.

I hate carnations, they smell like piss. Who wants flowers that smell like piss? Why do they even sell those piss smelling flowers?

I guess the flowers were for Valentine's day???? WTF... its the 19th. Seriously?

Why even bother at that point? And RED!

At least this time the flowers actually look fresh.

paintedlady said:

7am... he brought me a dozen red roses today.

I HATE red roses... I LOVE peach (told him so), like yellow, pink.... HATE red.

I told him so before, when he bought me a boquet of red roses w/carnations.

I hate carnations, they smell like piss. Who wants flowers that smell like piss? Why do they even sell those piss smelling flowers?

I guess the flowers were for Valentine's day???? WTF... its the 19th. Seriously?

Why even bother at that point? And RED!

At least this time the flowers actually look fresh.

Fuck him.

LadyCasanova said:

I think my wrist might be broken. Didn't stop me from coming to work though! Thats exactly what I'm going to tell the guy I'm firing if he gets crazy with me

What happened?

This is not enough info. How is your wrist?

paintedlady said:

7am... he brought me a dozen red roses today.

I HATE red roses... I LOVE peach (told him so), like yellow, pink.... HATE red.

I told him so before, when he bought me a boquet of red roses w/carnations.

I hate carnations, they smell like piss. Who wants flowers that smell like piss? Why do they even sell those piss smelling flowers?

I guess the flowers were for Valentine's day???? WTF... its the 19th. Seriously?

Why even bother at that point? And RED!

At least this time the flowers actually look fresh.

Why do you hate red roses so much?

LadyCasanova said:

paintedlady said:

7am... he brought me a dozen red roses today.

I HATE red roses... I LOVE peach (told him so), like yellow, pink.... HATE red.

I told him so before, when he bought me a boquet of red roses w/carnations.

I hate carnations, they smell like piss. Who wants flowers that smell like piss? Why do they even sell those piss smelling flowers?

I guess the flowers were for Valentine's day???? WTF... its the 19th. Seriously?

Why even bother at that point? And RED!

At least this time the flowers actually look fresh.

Why do you hate red roses so much?

Common and the "go-to" general impersonal gift for romance.

I like roses and all flowers really, but the red scream "I didn't think of you. I get these for all my bitches."

dJJ said:

Fuck him.

Exactly... this is why I only look forward to the dick.

I wonder if I am just a bitch for wanting what I like.... that maybe I should just be OK with this guy because he isn't cheating and is sweet to my kids and is usually kind to me. But he is such a cheapskate and I really wished he knew just a little bit about romancing a lady.

I thanked him and kissed him on the cheek but I really wanted to slap his face bloody with those red roses.

LadyCasanova said:

I think my wrist might be broken. Didn't stop me from coming to work though! Thats exactly what I'm going to tell the guy I'm firing if he gets crazy with me

Did you get to that Dr. ?

Please take the time to take care of yourself.

How did that firing go?

Sometimes i feel like screaming at those rude people that i want to help at the library. I want to yell, why are you so mean? Why do you feel like you should treated better than someone else? STOP CUTTING IN LINE! Shut your kids up! Don't run in here, Don't Yell! Don't use your phone in here!

but i just smile and ask them as politely to stop what they are doing or apologize.

as for workmates... why do you want me work hard enough, you, graduated from high school, so don't act like if your still in it.

why can't i get over you...

Rococo said:

Sometimes i feel like screaming at those rude people that i want to help at the library. I want to yell, why are you so mean? Why do you feel like you should treated better than someone else? STOP CUTTING IN LINE! Shut your kids up! Don't run in here, Don't Yell! Don't use your phone in here!

but i just smile and ask them as politely to stop what they are doing or apologize.

as for workmates... why do you want me work hard enough, you, graduated from high school, so don't act like if your still in it.

why can't i get over you...

Highschool kids at my library...oh brother

Does your library have security guards? We have two