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Thread started 02/22/13 8:45am

EmeraldSkies

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Have you ever found yourself attracted to someone that you weren't attracted to before?

There is this guy I work with,and at first I had no interest in him at all,other than a friend. Lately though I have become very attracted to him. I am always thinking about him in some manner,be it something he said or something that he did for me.

It's driving me crazy,I can't figure out what has changed.

Anyone else go through this?

Music washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life. ~Berthold Auerbach
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Reply #1 posted 02/22/13 8:50am

ZombieKitten

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Did you start taking oral hormonal contraception or have an erotic dream about him? Or realise he resembles someone else you think is hot?
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Reply #2 posted 02/22/13 8:58am

EmeraldSkies

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ZombieKitten said:

Did you start taking oral hormonal contraception or have an erotic dream about him? Or realise he resembles someone else you think is hot?

No, to all of the above. He came in one day with a new haircut,and now I can't stop thinking about him. lol

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Reply #3 posted 02/22/13 10:52am

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EmeraldSkies said:



ZombieKitten said:


Did you start taking oral hormonal contraception or have an erotic dream about him? Or realise he resembles someone else you think is hot?


No, to all of the above. He came in one day with a new haircut,and now I can't stop thinking about him. lol


All this time it was just the hair that put you off!
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Reply #4 posted 02/22/13 12:02pm

imago

Because personality and the way a person carries themselves is very important to me, yes.

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Reply #5 posted 02/22/13 1:16pm

JoeTyler

uh, breast enhancement?

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Reply #6 posted 02/22/13 2:01pm

CarrieMpls

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All the time. I am rarely attracted to anyone on first sight or first meeting. I need to spend time with someone and get an impression of who they are in order to become attracted.

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Reply #7 posted 02/22/13 4:37pm

EmeraldSkies

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ZombieKitten said:

EmeraldSkies said:

No, to all of the above. He came in one day with a new haircut,and now I can't stop thinking about him. lol

All this time it was just the hair that put you off!

no, lol he has always been a nice guy, I just never felt anything for him,and now lately I do. It just happened to start happening around the time he got a new haircut.

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Reply #8 posted 02/22/13 4:44pm

JustErin

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Only once.

Was friends with this guy, thought he was hilarious and smart but was never physically attracted to him. Then one night we got hammered and stupidly ended up having sex.

But the sex was awesome and even though he isn't my type physically I continued to have sex with him for over 10 years.

I can't spell.

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Reply #9 posted 02/22/13 5:04pm

RodeoSchro

What you're describing is very, very common. People get infatuated with workmates all the time. Mainly because you spend so much time with them.

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Reply #10 posted 02/23/13 1:11am

EmeraldSkies

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JoeTyler said:

uh, breast enhancement?

lol no.

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Reply #11 posted 02/23/13 1:26am

EmeraldSkies

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RodeoSchro said:

What you're describing is very, very common. People get infatuated with workmates all the time. Mainly because you spend so much time with them.

I have been working with him for over a year,so why would I be getting these feelings now?

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Reply #12 posted 02/23/13 9:06am

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JustErin said:

Only once.

Was friends with this guy, thought he was hilarious and smart but was never physically attracted to him. Then one night we got hammered and stupidly ended up having sex.

But the sex was awesome and even though he isn't my type physically I continued to have sex with him for over 10 years.

I can't spell.

[Edited 2/22/13 8:44am]

eek You said you wouldn't tell anyone!!!!

lol

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