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Have you ever found yourself attracted to someone that you weren't attracted to before? There is this guy I work with,and at first I had no interest in him at all,other than a friend. Lately though I have become very attracted to him. I am always thinking about him in some manner,be it something he said or something that he did for me.
It's driving me crazy,I can't figure out what has changed.
Anyone else go through this? Music washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life. ~Berthold Auerbach | |
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Did you start taking oral hormonal contraception or have an erotic dream about him? Or realise he resembles someone else you think is hot? I'm the mistake you wanna make | |
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No, to all of the above. He came in one day with a new haircut,and now I can't stop thinking about him. Music washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life. ~Berthold Auerbach | |
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EmeraldSkies said:
No, to all of the above. He came in one day with a new haircut,and now I can't stop thinking about him. All this time it was just the hair that put you off! I'm the mistake you wanna make | |
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Because personality and the way a person carries themselves is very important to me, yes.
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uh, breast enhancement? | |
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Ex-Moderator | All the time. I am rarely attracted to anyone on first sight or first meeting. I need to spend time with someone and get an impression of who they are in order to become attracted. |
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no, he has always been a nice guy, I just never felt anything for him,and now lately I do. It just happened to start happening around the time he got a new haircut. Music washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life. ~Berthold Auerbach | |
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Only once.
Was friends with this guy, thought he was hilarious and smart but was never physically attracted to him. Then one night we got hammered and stupidly ended up having sex.
But the sex was awesome and even though he isn't my type physically I continued to have sex with him for over 10 years.
I can't spell. [Edited 2/22/13 8:44am] | |
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What you're describing is very, very common. People get infatuated with workmates all the time. Mainly because you spend so much time with them. | |
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no. Music washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life. ~Berthold Auerbach | |
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I have been working with him for over a year,so why would I be getting these feelings now? [Edited 2/22/13 17:28pm] Music washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life. ~Berthold Auerbach | |
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You said you wouldn't tell anyone!!!!
99.9% of everything I say is strictly for my own entertainment | |
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