RodeoSchro said:

JoeTyler said:

despicable statement

But nevertheless, a true statement.

Be a winner. You have it in you. This I know for a fact.

porn is for losers when it becomes a substitute of reality

but as a complement of reality, it works...

aardvark15 said:

RodeoSchro said:

But nevertheless, a true statement.

Be a winner. You have it in you. This I know for a fact.

It's people like you that are what's wrong in this world

If you say so.

JustErin said:

RodeoSchro said:

It's a poor substitute for a husband. Check that - it's an unacceptable substitute for a husband.

A husband??

Don't sell yourself so short! I'm sure there's a man out there for you!

JoeTyler said:

RodeoSchro said:

But nevertheless, a true statement.

Be a winner. You have it in you. This I know for a fact.

porn is for losers when it becomes a substitute of reality

but as a complement of reality, it works...

Your first statement is right on the money! Your second statement isn't, though. No one should need porn in order to make love to someone. If they do, it's a sign that they watched too much porn already.

RodeoSchro said:

JustErin said:

A husband??

Don't sell yourself so short! I'm sure there's a man out there for you!

You are so beyond creepy it's hilarious.

JustErin said:

RodeoSchro said:

Don't sell yourself so short! I'm sure there's a man out there for you!

You are so beyond creepy it's hilarious.

I don't listen to you, because I heard you can't even get your own shit worked out.

RodeoSchro said:

JustErin said:

You are so beyond creepy it's hilarious.

I don't listen to you, because I heard you can't even get your own shit worked out.

Was it you that once said you were addicted to porn at some point in your life?

Maybe it wasn't...it was either you or that BlackAdder dude. Can't remember.

JustErin said:

RodeoSchro said:

I don't listen to you, because I heard you can't even get your own shit worked out.

Was it you that once said you were addicted to porn at some point in your life?

Maybe it wasn't...it was either you or that BlackAdder dude. Can't remember.

No, it wasn't me. But I did watch porn when I was younger. Thank God I realized what it would lead to, and swore it off.

Don't yuck on other people's yum.

RodeoSchro said:

JustErin said:

Was it you that once said you were addicted to porn at some point in your life?

Maybe it wasn't...it was either you or that BlackAdder dude. Can't remember.

No, it wasn't me. But I did watch porn when I was younger. Thank God I realized what it would lead to, and swore it off.

My bad, I think maybe it was BlackAdder then that said that on here once.

"...that BlackAdder dude..."

JustErin said:

RodeoSchro said:

No, it wasn't me. But I did watch porn when I was younger. Thank God I realized what it would lead to, and swore it off.

My bad, I think maybe it was BlackAdder then that said that on here once.

No problem. Does that make me less creepy now?

I am not totally sure but I think in one of those match up orgers threads a long time ago somebody suggested me and RodeoSchro . I wonder why !

RodeoSchro said:

JoeTyler said:

porn is for losers when it becomes a substitute of reality

but as a complement of reality, it works...

Your first statement is right on the money! Your second statement isn't, though. No one should need porn in order to make love to someone. If they do, it's a sign that they watched too much porn already.

Did you ever watch porn together with someone you love?

JustErin said:

novabrkr said:

The further hypothesis seems to be that the individuals that are addicted to Internet porn spend a lot of time (per day, month etc.) in an aroused state and that affects their memory.

Not that it's explicitly stated in the article itself. Neither do I know myself if that's true or not, but it doesn't seem as silly to me as the writer wants the readers to think it is.

I do find it interesting when these types of studies zero in on the sexual side of things.

In this case it's about sexual arousal as opposed to arousal in general, because addictions like the one I listed do create some sort of arousal response in the brain. Common sense would tell someone that it's really more about the effects of an addiction in general not a specific addiction. But hey, what do I know...I'm no German Scientist.

But I do wonder...is the study really just anti-porn propaganda?

I don't think you are wrong. I could see e.g. computer games having similar effects in the long run.

However, I doubt it's really anti-porn propaganda. Just a very limited study that is probably just one part of a greater number of studies done in the same university or in other universities.

No porn allowed here in the library.

Serious said:

I am not totally sure but I think in one of those match up orgers threads a long time ago somebody suggested me and RodeoSchro . I wonder why !

Awesome! I never ever get mentioned in any thread like that, but would be honored to be "paired" with you!

Serious said:

RodeoSchro said:

Your first statement is right on the money! Your second statement isn't, though. No one should need porn in order to make love to someone. If they do, it's a sign that they watched too much porn already.

Did you ever watch porn together with someone you love?

No.

In any case, the writer really does just seem to want to entertain the readers by misrepresenting the study itself quite considerably.

From what I could gather from other news sources on this issue it seems like it has already been observed by other scientists that some people with an Internet porn addiction have had problems with their memory (the sources could be interviews, clinical data etc.). This study in question merely offers some additional information on the issue. It doesn't intend to "prove" that "watching porn causes memory loss".

I don't give a shit about any goddamn study

I don't give a shit about the dangers of any possible addiction

I'M BEYOND THAT SHIT, nothing can control my will, I'm beyond that shit, I play in a whole different level: porn, chicks, alcohol, cigars, games, you name it, I know how to enjoy that stuff on a moderate basis and I sure know when to fuckin' stop...

yeah, I roll like that, I'm tough as hell, I'm the real deal, no shit can control my mind/will, even the good/feelgood shit

there's nothing, absolutely NOTHING in this fuckin' world which could led me to an addiction

fuck

SometimesIwonder said:

Yes I'm probably a total prude to not be into porn but there's nothing within pornography but emptiness IMO. I've never really followed the crowd ie some of my female mates who do enjoy it with their partners & I don't like to be involved in discussions about what they've seen. To me it is not based on love, therefore it does not nourish my spirit, therefore I won't subject myself to it. It's highly addictive & I'm not sure where all your thoughts & energy go when ur focusing on some random naked flesh bumping & grinding. I can see the appeal for some; the instant turn-on & gratification, but please there's more to sex/love making than that. Defo not my cuppa tea. Plus it's too easily available on the tinternet to minors. Only destroys that beautiful innocence that can never be retrieved. I just find it minging. I value my soul more than that, for it was bought at a very high price, & frankly it deserves better.

you're obviously watching the wrong kind of porn

have you ever tried porn directed by female directors?

more than a prude, I think you're too spiritual, and I mean TOO spiritual...

beautiful innocence??? that's why 10-12 year old kids are always trying to steal/buy a dirty magazine, right?

GOSH, I'll NEVER understand this pointless flesh vs the spirit debate, if God didn't want us to think about the flesh of our fellow humans, HE would have made us asexual, like plants...

That's it. I'm totally hitting up some hardcore, maledom porn tonight. It's been a while. I'm due.

SometimesIwonder said:

Yes I'm probably a total prude to not be into porn but there's nothing within pornography but emptiness IMO. I've never really followed the crowd ie some of my female mates who do enjoy it with their partners & I don't like to be involved in discussions about what they've seen. To me it is not based on love, therefore it does not nourish my spirit, therefore I won't subject myself to it. It's highly addictive & I'm not sure where all your thoughts & energy go when ur focusing on some random naked flesh bumping & grinding. I can see the appeal for some; the instant turn-on & gratification, but please there's more to sex/love making than that. Defo not my cuppa tea. Plus it's too easily available on the tinternet to minors. Only destroys that beautiful innocence that can never be retrieved. I just find it minging. I value my soul more than that, for it was bought at a very high price, & frankly it deserves better.

JustErin said:

That's it. I'm totally hitting up some hardcore, maledom porn tonight. It's been a while. I'm due.

That's better than spending time with someone who cares about you?

And I'm the creepy one?!?

RodeoSchro said:

JustErin said:

That's it. I'm totally hitting up some hardcore, maledom porn tonight. It's been a while. I'm due.

That's better than spending time with someone who cares about you?

And I'm the creepy one?!?

What are you talking about?

Who said anything about it being better than being with someone special?

It's your assumption that this is what we are all actually saying that makes you creepy.

JoeTyler said:

I don't give a shit about any goddamn study

I don't give a shit about the dangers of any possible addiction

I'M BEYOND THAT SHIT, nothing can control my will, I'm beyond that shit, I play in a whole different level: porn, chicks, alcohol, cigars, games, you name it, I know how to enjoy that stuff on a moderate basis and I sure know when to fuckin' stop...

yeah, I roll like that, I'm tough as hell, I'm the real deal, no shit can control my mind/will, even the good/feelgood shit

there's nothing, absolutely NOTHING in this fuckin' world which could led me to an addiction

fuck

Tell 'EM JoeTyler!

You do remember your name is JoeTyler, don't you?

RodeoSchro said:

Serious said:

I am not totally sure but I think in one of those match up orgers threads a long time ago somebody suggested me and RodeoSchro . I wonder why !

Awesome! I never ever get mentioned in any thread like that, but would be honored to be "paired" with you!

With somebody who enjoys watching porn and would never ever allow anybody to kill a frog? Are you serious ?

JustErin said:

RodeoSchro said:

That's better than spending time with someone who cares about you?

And I'm the creepy one?!?

What are you talking about?

Who said anything about it being better than being with someone special?

It's your assumption that this is what we are all actually saying that makes you creepy.

Nobody said that here and no way is watching porn better for me than making love to the man I love.