this girl at work gave me a pile of her un-wanted clothes that she no longer fits in

i really dont want them.......

not that i am stuck-up or un-grateful, i mean the thought is nice

but

they r not my style and too big on me and i already have way too much clothing

so should i just return them to her or give them to charity????

i also hate how she said i should wear one of the tops 2 the christmas party its like something my mum would wear

i really dont want to offend her but REALLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Give'em to charity.

Tittypants said:

Give'em to charity.

she will prob hound me every day to wear something

then i can blame u

ThisOne said:

Tittypants said:

Give'em to charity.

she will prob hound me every day to wear something

then i can blame u

Fuck that chick. You didn't ask for her clothes. You shouldn't feel guilty about NOT wearing them either . It's that simple .

omg i put one on

no words can possibly express the fashion statement that top makes

ThisOne said:

omg i put one on

no words can possibly express the fashion statement that top makes

You should take some pics showing off the clothes.

pick out a few... ware them at least once. give the rest away to goodwill.

Tittypants said:

ThisOne said:

omg i put one on

no words can possibly express the fashion statement that top makes

You should take some pics showing off the clothes.

blasphamy

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OnlyNDaUsa said:

pick out a few... ware them at least once. give the rest away to goodwill.

im not that nice

i told her i'm ok but she kept on insisting

ThisOne said:

Tittypants said:

You should take some pics showing off the clothes.

blasphamy

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I never saw the bike pic.

Tittypants said:

ThisOne said:

blasphamy

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I never saw the bike pic.

oh well

be adult about it and say thank you for thinking of me, but it's not really my style- and let her know you would be happy to help her find a charity home for the items. simple enough.

Ottensen said:

be adult about it and say thank you for thinking of me, but it's not really my style- and let her know you would be happy to help her find a charity home for the items. simple enough.

i was being polite and said no thank you to her about 5 times

its like she didnt get it and thought i meant ok

i just didnt want to hurt her feelings

some women r touchy about their clothes and they give it away thinking they r giving out gold and u need to b nice without hurting their feelings

tomorrow i will give her back the bag and say they were too big on me - which they mostly r ~ except 4 that top

Just tell her, man.

I purged my clothes recently and brought it in to see if my coworker wanted anything. Some of it was new, never even worn.

She picked through, grabbed what she thought would fit her or that she liked and turned the rest back to me. I wasn't offended. I just gave the rest to charity. No biggie.

Just make up some convincing story--people will believe anything.

Just say there was some strange bovine oxen smell that you couldn't wash out of the clothes so you had to throw them away.

Be honest & somewhat-apologetic when you tell her that you tried them on and they don't flatter your figure.

She's probably feeling good about herself, thinking that she's helping you out (she probably thought that you were being modest or shy when you kept saying no).

If she's a normal human being, she won't take offense at you not wearing something that doesn't look good on you.

ThisOne said:

OnlyNDaUsa said:

pick out a few... ware them at least once. give the rest away to goodwill.

im not that nice

i told her i'm ok but she kept on insisting

well in that case just drop them off at a good will. there are also places that will pick them up!

Turn up late for work looking rough.

Back-comb your hair, put on too much eyeshadow and just before you go and see the woman, sprinkle some pepper in your eyes.

Give her the bag with all her clothing in and tell her you had a bit of trouble with it all. Say that you put on all her clothes and went out for the night for a good time. Explain how you were followed by 'little people' dressed as elves for over two hours. Say that you tried to lose them but at every corner you turned, more showed up. Say that you were afraid of the elves and ran to a policeman for help. You were arrested on the spot as you fit the description of one of their most wanted. You spent the night in the cells, along with 14 of the elves that were roped in too.

Then start the tears.

As soon as she reaches out to comfort you tell her they did things to your back door that you didn't like. Not at first anyway. Say you escaped and ran to work but that the police were bound to be looking for you. Tell her you think it would really be a bad idea to keep the clothes. Thank her for her charity and tell her if you want to dress up like Mrs. Doubtfire in a nuthouse anytime soon you'll let her know.

give them to a homeless shelter.

Should've told her "thanks but no thanks"...

this is hilarious! Is she a psych patient? Why would she choose you out of the clear blue to give her old clothes to and then INSIST that you wear them? If that happened to me, my concern would be is she trying to send me a message about my fashion-sense?

ThisOne said:

Ottensen said:

be adult about it and say thank you for thinking of me, but it's not really my style- and let her know you would be happy to help her find a charity home for the items. simple enough.

i was being polite and said no thank you to her about 5 times

5 times? If thats the case just take em to te Gioodwill and if she asks you tell her that..since you declined 5 times already she shouldnt be offended.

You already got the clothes, right?

So, why bother with saying anything about it?

Just give them to charity or a nearby homeless shelter.

You know what.

You don't even have to say anything.

Just respond by making this expression:

ThisOne said:

Ottensen said:

be adult about it and say thank you for thinking of me, but it's not really my style- and let her know you would be happy to help her find a charity home for the items. simple enough.

i was being polite and said no thank you to her about 5 times

its like she didnt get it and thought i meant ok

i just didnt want to hurt her feelings

some women r touchy about their clothes and they give it away thinking they r giving out gold and u need to b nice without hurting their feelings

tomorrow i will give her back the bag and say they were too big on me - which they mostly r ~ except 4 that top

it almost sounds like she feels your wardrobe could use some 'help' those are the worst kind of favors, eh?

Tittypants said:

Give'em to charity.

Better than having them clutter up your place.

Be truthful. Tell her they are not your style but you are giving them away (if you do) to charity.

Otherwise throw them out.

Just tell her you accidently threw a cigeratte into a box that had all of the clothes she gave you and an opened gas can.

WHOOPSIE!!

tell them your case worker has asked you to stop accepting STUFF it's not helping your hoarding problem but she said it was OK if you can keep these new clothes at your co-workers house.

Return them?? Why did u accept them in the first place?

Saying you have enough clothes or that they aren't your personal style is not rude, it's honest.