JustErin said:

iaminparties said:

It happened again this morning.Im flattered someone wants to ---- me.I get it.

Why are women such teasers and hard to get?

All I have do is walk with my shirt half zipped and men get a hard on.

Men can f--k anything.It don't matter.Women need someone to take care of them and have someone care for them emotionally.Why can women just be lustious beast.

Certainly not all women.

Post your pic and I'll then be able to give you an answer as to why women are "hard to get" for you.

Such a generous offer lol

vainandy said:

I'm glad women are the way they are. We'd get a lot less dick if they weren't.

iaminparties said:

Im straight male,but lord it's easy being gay,when it comes to easy pick-ups.I just know.I was with my aunt in the East Village,just leaning on the wall in my doorman uniform,white shirt and slacks,some dude just walks by me and stares at me.Then he walks up the street and drops his pants and shows his buttcrack.Obviously wanting action.Maybe that's the village/chelsea downtown signal.I told my aunt and she said "gays are easy".

I ain't GQ material and never been hit on by a woman all my life,but I'v been hit on many times from men.Damn you gays have it easy,except for that HIV thing.Wrap it up.

I been aggresive,but mostly failure.I don't want a relationship or be intimate with a woman.It's just not me.Double edge sword just like the gay lifestyle.

Your aunt is a wise woman.

iaminparties said:

I been aggresive,but mostly failure.I don't want a relationship or be intimate with a woman.It's just not me.Double edge sword just like the gay lifestyle.

WTF do you want??

Hmm, you say you get hit on by gay guys, but you don't want an intimate relationship with a woman. Are you asexual, bicurious or confused? I don't get your post.

@ the responses.

iaminparties said:

robertlove said:

so what do you look like???

6 ft 190 lbs broad chest and shoulders.I don't lift weights,naturally build like that.

Irish/German/Argentinian

Black curly,wavy long shoulder length hair.Few grays.not noticable yet.Gonna start dyeing soon.

Thin arms,thick legs>>>cycling alot.Built like a woman.

Light complexion now.Tan has faded.

Clean shaven,little body hair.

Brown eyes,perfect nose and ears,chapped lips,long neck

Sounds sexy,but it's not.

Are you sure they are gay men? It sounds as tho maybe they just think your some type of amazonian woman??

tinaz said:

iaminparties said:

6 ft 190 lbs broad chest and shoulders.I don't lift weights,naturally build like that.

Irish/German/Argentinian

Black curly,wavy long shoulder length hair.Few grays.not noticable yet.Gonna start dyeing soon.

Thin arms,thick legs>>>cycling alot.Built like a woman.

Light complexion now.Tan has faded.

Clean shaven,little body hair.

Brown eyes,perfect nose and ears,chapped lips,long neck

Sounds sexy,but it's not.

Are you sure they are gay men? It sounds as tho maybe they just think your some type of amazonian woman??

iaminparties said:

Im straight male,but lord it's easy being gay,when it comes to easy pick-ups.I just know.I was with my aunt in the East Village,just leaning on the wall in my doorman uniform,white shirt and slacks,some dude just walks by me and stares at me.Then he walks up the street and drops his pants and shows his buttcrack.Obviously wanting action.Maybe that's the village/chelsea downtown signal.I told my aunt and she said "gays are easy".

I ain't GQ material and never been hit on by a woman all my life,but I'v been hit on many times from men.Damn you gays have it easy,except for that HIV thing.Wrap it up.

I been aggresive,but mostly failure.I don't want a relationship or be intimate with a woman.It's just not me.Double edge sword just like the gay lifestyle.

I don't fully believe that, it would only be 'easy' if they are in an environment where they know most of the people are gay.

We can come on to a woman anywhere, mall, work, church, on the street, picnic, beach etc

I would suspect gay men would be more cautious in most 'non gay' environments

iaminparties said:

LayzieKiddZ said:

I think the only time you get hit on by gay guys is when youre worried about getting hit on gay guys.

When I was 20 and worried about it some bromo dude even went as far as to ask me "how much you charge" then tried to play it off.

If youre demeanor is confident homosexual men know who they cant and can hit on. Assuming youre a straight male and secretly dont like a pickle party.

Are you saying gay men hit on the weak and vunerable?

I think if youre not confident you might give off the wrong vibe trying not to offend someone or being too nice or doubting yourself.

tinaz said:

iaminparties said:

6 ft 190 lbs broad chest and shoulders.I don't lift weights,naturally build like that.

Irish/German/Argentinian

Black curly,wavy long shoulder length hair.Few grays.not noticable yet.Gonna start dyeing soon.

Thin arms,thick legs>>>cycling alot.Built like a woman.

Light complexion now.Tan has faded.

Clean shaven,little body hair.

Brown eyes,perfect nose and ears,chapped lips,long neck

Sounds sexy,but it's not.

Are you sure they are gay men? It sounds as tho maybe they just think your some type of amazonian woman??

I was thinking the same thing.

[Edited 12/4/12 7:02am]

xpertluva said:

I've gotten hit on by gay guys in the past and always found it flattering, I guess. I just hate when they pose as straight. A couple of times back in college, I got to know gay guys who I assumed were straight (perhaps my "gaydar" is broken), only to have them come on to me out of the blue. Talk about awkward!

Women hit on men all the time; they're just not as direct as men. They'll flirt and open the door for you to come on to them. Maybe you (the op) are misreading their signals?

Judging by your avatar.I can see why you get hit on by all sexes.

paintedlady said:

Are you socially awkward?

YES.I have mild retardation.I have poor communication and comprehension skills and suffer from anxiety and depression all my life since being a teenager.I'v been fired from last 2 jobs,simply for not understaniding what to do.

I got fired as an doorman replacement for being a moot.(I was told)I was left back in 1st grade.I went to special ed school ps 81 in the Bronx.

robertlove said:

iaminparties said:

Im straight male,but lord it's easy being gay,when it comes to easy pick-ups.I just know.I was with my aunt in the East Village,just leaning on the wall in my doorman uniform,white shirt and slacks,some dude just walks by me and stares at me.Then he walks up the street and drops his pants and shows his buttcrack.Obviously wanting action.Maybe that's the village/chelsea downtown signal.I told my aunt and she said "gays are easy".

I ain't GQ material and never been hit on by a woman all my life,but I'v been hit on many times from men.Damn you gays have it easy,except for that HIV thing.Wrap it up.

I been aggresive,but mostly failure.I don't want a relationship or be intimate with a woman.It's just not me.Double edge sword just like the gay lifestyle.

Your aunt is a wise woman.

Maybe she threw me under the bus.

Not all gay guys are sexual predators, now are they?

Timmy84 said:

Hmm, you say you get hit on by gay guys, but you don't want an intimate relationship with a woman. Are you asexual, bicurious or confused? I don't get your post.

@ the responses.

I want a swinging lifestyle with women,but it's alot easier to acheive this through the gay lifestyle.That was my point.I don't want a serious relationship.

dJJ said:

Not all gay guys are sexual predators, now are they?

No they are not.just more liberated.

iaminparties said:

Timmy84 said:

Hmm, you say you get hit on by gay guys, but you don't want an intimate relationship with a woman. Are you asexual, bicurious or confused? I don't get your post.

@ the responses.

I want a swinging lifestyle with women,but it's alot easier to acheive this through the gay lifestyle.That was my point.I don't want a serious relationship.

So you wanna fuck but you don't know how to because you're socially awkward?

I apologized to all gay people on this site if they felt ofended.I was just making a point that sexual lifestyle seem more easier and liberated.

I guess it's easier since most men are the aggresors than women.All men are horndogs.

Couple more of my experiences.

I did go into a gay bar once out of curiosity about 5 years ago.I was hit on within 5 minutes by one fella and got eyeballed from another.I just quietly left.Im very opened minded and free to do such things,plus I saw the disco night sign and wanted to hear good music for a change.

This summer I was walking around Van Cortland park in the Bronx.I had a conversation with this guy.He seemed lost.Fast forward the conversation,the guy ask me if I wanted to go to his house.I was like oh shit.

Protection for others.(edit)

[Edited 12/4/12 14:30pm]

Timmy84 said:

iaminparties said:

I want a swinging lifestyle with women,but it's alot easier to acheive this through the gay lifestyle.That was my point.I don't want a serious relationship.

So you wanna fuck but you don't know how to because you're socially awkward?

Precisely

iaminparties said:

I apologized to all gay people on this site if they felt ofended.I was just making a point that sexual lifestyle seem more easier and liberated.

I guess it's easier since most men are the aggresors than women.All men are horndogs.

The grass is always greener on the other side.

it's not easier.

iaminparties said:

paintedlady said:

Are you socially awkward?

YES.I have mild retardation.I have poor communication and comprehension skills and suffer from anxiety and depression all my life since being a teenager.I'v been fired from last 2 jobs,simply for not understaniding what to do.

I got fired as an doorman replacement for being a moot.(I was told)I was left back in 1st grade.I went to special ed school ps 81 in the Bronx.

Then its not really about what you look like, it is more about the "vibe" you give off. Confidence is sexy to women and any lady would shy away from a a guy who just doesn't speak/communicate well. So if you just wanna "hit and quit" you have to know that game and come with it. Only men who are cunning and possess fun personalities and good looks are the ones who get opportunities to have lovers just for sex.

You better learn to suck the hell outta of a pussy and grow a personality if you want to be that "playa"....

maybe you can get an older lady who can suit your needs and teach you a few things. An old cougar would be right up your alley. I would hook you up with a "seasoned" cougar.

"You better learn to suck the hell out of a pussy"...

Hate to say it but paintedlady is 100% on point with that comment. I know a lot of women that love head and aren't ashamed to admit it.

When I was younger I loved "cougar-ville". She can show you the ropes and (if you're lucky) she can tie you up with them too. Good luck in your quest.

Checkout the dating section of your local newspapers., especially you community newspapers, magazines, and papers dedicated to the arts. There are women who post ads wanting to get laid and do all types of freaky stuff with no strings attached. Its very important for you to improve your social skills, your rap because to get a women into bed requires verbal seduction. The other important thing about those social skill manners, politeness, and being thoughtful are still important; women need to know you can be trusted behind closed doors, they are safe with you. Being safe with you means you understand you are there for mutual pleasure, if its beyond the scope of vanilla sex you ask permission, and you understand that the word no means no or "I don't feel comfortable doing that." Even if she's reluctant the first couple of times doesn't mean down the road you couldn't persuade her or she becomes willing because she can trust you. Good luck and happy lustful sex.

When gay men stop hitting on you, that's a sign that you are in no way attractive.

I get hit on by gay men, but I also get hit on by women. Women offer to buy me drinks all the time. Either women like you or they don't. I'm not every one's cup a tea-but I'm not trying to be either.

iaminparties said:

All I have do is walk with my shirt half zipped

see... there's your problem right there

Timmy84 said:

iaminparties said:

I want a swinging lifestyle with women,but it's alot easier to acheive this through the gay lifestyle.That was my point.I don't want a serious relationship.

So you wanna fuck but you don't know how to because you're socially awkward?

Reads like party man is gonna get it soon in the butt, if he doesn't find a woman soon enough.

[Edited 12/5/12 22:54pm]

OzlemUcucu said:

mobliss said:

iaminparties said:

All I have do is walk with my shirt half zipped

see... there's your problem right there