So, I have found myself having frequent, recurring, intense sexual fantasies about a particular guy that I see around the city quite often. We know each other but he has no idea that I feel this way about him. Sometimes I wonder if he would think I was "weird" for having these thoughts about him or not. I'm wondering, what's the reason that Mother Nature gave us sexual imaginations, is it a way for us to not hump everything we're attracted to or is it nature's way of trying to get us to hump what we want? LOL. I really suffer a lot from these fantasies cause I kinda wanna act on it but I don't for a number of reasons!

Chime in everyone Do you have healthy sexual fantasies ?

define "healthy"

I have specific fantasies for a specific purpose (to get off) but they involve nameless faceless bodies mostly. I don't know if that's normal or even healthy They are less daydreams than simply picturing obscene acts

but not really so much at other times. Like seeing an attractive person doesn't make my mind go there, I'm usually too preoccupied with being awkward.

ZombieKitten said:

define "healthy"

I have specific fantasies for a specific purpose (to get off) but they involve nameless faceless bodies mostly. I don't know if that's normal or even healthy They are less daydreams than simply picturing obscene acts

but not really so much at other times. Like seeing an attractive person doesn't make my mind go there, I'm usually too preoccupied with being awkward.

too preoccupied with being awkward---I love that! LOL!

you're perfectly fine for it as long as you're not raping anyone or using them for sex, it just sounds like an attraction and it's natural to have feelings whether you are sexually active or not

alphastreet said:

you're perfectly fine for it as long as you're not raping anyone or using them for sex, it just sounds like an attraction and it's natural to have feelings whether you are sexually active or not

Yeah sometimes I wonder how much longer I can keep my composure around this guy because it's weird having these crazy ass sexual thoughts then when you see them have to just be chill with it and act like you just wanna talk about the weather lol

ZombieKitten said:

define "healthy"

I have specific fantasies for a specific purpose (to get off) but they involve nameless faceless bodies mostly. I don't know if that's normal or even healthy They are less daydreams than simply picturing obscene acts

but not really so much at other times. Like seeing an attractive person doesn't make my mind go there, I'm usually too preoccupied with being awkward.

You are welcome.

kewlschool said:

ZombieKitten said:

define "healthy"

I have specific fantasies for a specific purpose (to get off) but they involve nameless faceless bodies mostly. I don't know if that's normal or even healthy They are less daydreams than simply picturing obscene acts

but not really so much at other times. Like seeing an attractive person doesn't make my mind go there, I'm usually too preoccupied with being awkward.

You are welcome.

That's like asking what's the point of diarrhea.

Hudson said:

That's like asking what's the point of diarrhea.

and prolly very simular experiences for 17

They inspire you to get laid.

What's the point? You get to do whatever your heart desires!

LayzieKiddZ said:

They inspire you to get laid.

I dunno, sometimes I see them as the gateway to frustration, wanting something but just not sure or too lazy to get it