i haven't read the whole thread but because it is hot topic i am going to reply. not sure if you are young or not, but young women who sleep with a lot of guys (not talking bout myself) but like those who have roughly one guy a month are actually looking for a relationship, the thing is, the guys don't want to stay with that kind of girl.

a player, is a guy who is leading on several women at once, and the ladies know or don't know about eachother.

i don't have anything against the boidily pleasures of sex, but now i am 28, i stopped hanging around young handsome guys, and i last time i kissed a guy was when i was 18, that's a whole decade without any action whatsoever. i guess i am waiting for the right guy, where there is real chemistry and it's mental as well as physical, doesn't mean i will marry him or get serious.

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flyorra said:

i haven't read the whole thread but because it is hot topic i am going to reply. not sure if you are young or not, but young women who sleep with a lot of guys (not talking bout myself) but like those who have roughly one guy a month are actually looking for a relationship, the thing is, the guys don't want to stay with that kind of girl.

a player, is a guy who is leading on several women at once, and the ladies know or don't know about eachother.

i don't have anything against the boidily pleasures of sex, but now i am 28, i stopped hanging around young handsome guys, and i last time i kissed a guy was when i was 18, that's a whole decade without any action whatsoever. i guess i am waiting for the right guy, where there is real chemistry and it's mental as well as physical, doesn't mean i will marry him or get serious.

1. In my opinion you are making an assumption that you know everyones motives for why they'd have sex with a different guy every month.

2. What kind of "girl" are these women supposed to be?

It's a miracle I got someone to marry me.

In my experience those type of men don't take to kindly to woman having an opinion or thought that doesn't mirror his own. If a man chooses not to want to be with me because he has hang ups about my sexual history than I say the feeling of not wanting to be with him would be mutual. You made love or fucked some people you didn't kill anyone. The other thing I'd add: The amazing thing about falling in love with someone is they accept and love you just the way you are good points and foibles alike. Though, I don't think having sex with a lot of men as a foible. Besides unless you tell some man, how in the hell would he know who you had sex with? What is it to him?

What every your beliefs are about sex, however you wish to conduct your persona sexual life is your business, no one else's.

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TD3 - if you lived in a small town, he WOULD know who you have slept with because your partners would have been all his mates :lol:

Thank god I got out of that town before I became sexually active

TD3 said:

flyorra said:

i haven't read the whole thread but because it is hot topic i am going to reply. not sure if you are young or not, but young women who sleep with a lot of guys (not talking bout myself) but like those who have roughly one guy a month are actually looking for a relationship, the thing is, the guys don't want to stay with that kind of girl.

a player, is a guy who is leading on several women at once, and the ladies know or don't know about eachother.

i don't have anything against the boidily pleasures of sex, but now i am 28, i stopped hanging around young handsome guys, and i last time i kissed a guy was when i was 18, that's a whole decade without any action whatsoever. i guess i am waiting for the right guy, where there is real chemistry and it's mental as well as physical, doesn't mean i will marry him or get serious.

1. In my opinion you are making an assumption that you know everyones motives for why they'd have sex with a different guy every month.

2. What kind of "girl" are these women supposed to be?

It's a miracle I got someone to marry me.

In my experience those type of men don't take to kindly to woman having an opinion or thought that doesn't mirror his own. If a man chooses not to want to be with me because he has hang ups about my sexual history than I say the feeling of not wanting to be with him would be mutual. You made love or fucked some people you didn't kill anyone. The other thing I'd add: The amazing thing about falling in love with someone is they accept and love you just the way you are good points and foibles alike. Though, I don't think having sex with a lot of men as a foible. Besides unless you tell some man, how in the hell would he know who you had sex with? What is it to him?

What every your beliefs are about sex, however you wish to conduct your persona sexual life is your business, no one else's.

[Edited 11/18/12 23:39pm]

i don't know why you are attcking me. i know women like that, and they have told me. of course it's nobody's business, but they have told me, and i think whether or not someone tells me is up to them, half the time it's hard to find out the truth about these matters anyway.

ZombieKitten said:

TD3 - if you lived in a small town, he WOULD know who you have slept with because your partners would have been all his mates Thank god I got out of that town before I became sexually active

Yeah, Sweden is a small place, isn't it?

novabrkr said:

:lol:

I was 18 months old when I left that place :hammer:

But you are right instead of growing up where I did it could have been in Sveg population 2500

ZombieKitten said:

I was 18 months old when I left that place

TD3 said:

flyorra said:

i haven't read the whole thread but because it is hot topic i am going to reply. not sure if you are young or not, but young women who sleep with a lot of guys (not talking bout myself) but like those who have roughly one guy a month are actually looking for a relationship, the thing is, the guys don't want to stay with that kind of girl.

a player, is a guy who is leading on several women at once, and the ladies know or don't know about eachother.

i don't have anything against the boidily pleasures of sex, but now i am 28, i stopped hanging around young handsome guys, and i last time i kissed a guy was when i was 18, that's a whole decade without any action whatsoever. i guess i am waiting for the right guy, where there is real chemistry and it's mental as well as physical, doesn't mean i will marry him or get serious.

1. In my opinion you are making an assumption that you know everyones motives for why they'd have sex with a different guy every month.

2. What kind of "girl" are these women supposed to be?

It's a miracle I got someone to marry me.

In my experience those type of men don't take to kindly to woman having an opinion or thought that doesn't mirror his own. If a man chooses not to want to be with me because he has hang ups about my sexual history than I say the feeling of not wanting to be with him would be mutual. You made love or fucked some people you didn't kill anyone. The other thing I'd add: The amazing thing about falling in love with someone is they accept and love you just the way you are good points and foibles alike. Though, I don't think having sex with a lot of men as a foible. Besides unless you tell some man, how in the hell would he know who you had sex with? What is it to him?

What every your beliefs are about sex, however you wish to conduct your persona sexual life is your business, no one else's.

[Edited 11/18/12 23:39pm]

This is a great post and I was about to post something very similar.

I must also add that my past sexual history (which I don't think is really all that extensive but I guess some would) has never been an issue with any man I've been involved with...just as theirs wasn't an issue with me. No weird hang ups like that at all.

Guess that just speaks to the type of men/people I associate with.

JustErin said:

Everybody wants a great sex partner...like they just read a
Blog on how to swallow a whole dick. No.. They've been
Practicing on how to swallow a whole dick. No chick has ever learned how to take it up the ass from watching a movie. She's done it before

From a movie? No, you can actually practise that by yourself WITHOUT a man present - just saying

Fury said:

JustErin said:

This is a great post and I was about to post something very similar.

I must also add that my past sexual history (which I don't think is really all that extensive but I guess some would) has never been an issue with any man I've been involved with...just as theirs wasn't an issue with me. No weird hang ups like that at all.

Guess that just speaks to the type of men/people I associate with.

Everybody wants a great sex partner...like they just read a Blog on how to swallow a whole dick. No.. They've been Practicing on how to swallow a whole dick. No chick has ever learned how to take it up the ass from watching a movie. She's done it before

Everyone wants a great sex partner when they are single, yes I'll agree to that.

But there are too many men with that Madonna/Whore complex that just want a wife that will give it to them when they want it, but they wouldn't dream of getting really down and dirty with them.

You do that kind of thing with girls that you don't love, not your wife! Those tend to be the types that think women that are sexually confident do not deserve love.

The type of dude that has that kind of weird sexual hang up creeps me out. Mommy issues.

ZombieKitten said:

TD3 - if you lived in a small town, he WOULD know who you have slept with because your partners would have been all his mates Thank god I got out of that town before I became sexually active

Just call me Trina the Tramp.

Honestly, I still wouldn't have cared if he knew I not; if some had a problem with what I was doing or not doing that would be their problem. As I said here once before neither of use were virgins ( my husband or I) when we jumped the broom... I think he knew my experience wasn't gained by dating just one or two people before I got with him married.

TD3 said:

:kiss2:

I have never been asked by the master how many before him and I really do NOT want to know how many there were before me, just in case it's a number so high it puts him in the extreme manslut category

ZombieKitten said:

TD3 said:

Just call me Trina the Tramp.

Honestly, I still wouldn't have cared if he knew I not; if some had a problem with what I was doing or not doing that would be their problem. As I said here once before neither of use were virgins ( my husband or I) when we jumped the broom... I think he knew my experience wasn't gained by dating just one or two people before I got with him married.

I have never been asked by the master how many before him and I really do NOT want to know how many there were before me, just in case it's a number so high it puts him in the extreme manslut category

And what if it did?

Ottensen said:

vainandy said:

Oh honey, those bastards ain't straight. We call them "trade". Hell, you gotta come up with something to call them because straight men don't let other men blow them....ever. In reality, they are extremely closeted bisexual men whose warped minds won't even admit to themselves that they are anything other than "straight" (which they aren't). Yes, they are extremely homophobic and I hate the ground they walk on. It's because of my experiences with them, that I began saying "don't spoil it by talking". Oh yeah, they hate me because unlike these stupid weak queens that will let them think they're straight, not only will I tell them to their face that they aren't but I will also set them up to be caught and busted out so the rest of the world can see just how "straight" they are. Don't get me started on them or I'll be done typed paragraph after paragraph. I hate those bastards.

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So you have had trade dudes before? And what do they say when you've called them out on not being honest about what they really like?

They tell me I don't know what I'm talking about, call me crazy, or come up with any other excuse they can think of in order to try to still try to continue to think they are straight in their own minds. They live in complete denial to themselves.

Shyra said:

vainandy said:

Oh honey, those bastards ain't straight. We call them "trade". Hell, you gotta come up with something to call them because straight men don't let other men blow them....ever. In reality, they are extremely closeted bisexual men whose warped minds won't even admit to themselves that they are anything other than "straight" (which they aren't). Yes, they are extremely homophobic and I hate the ground they walk on. It's because of my experiences with them, that I began saying "don't spoil it by talking". Oh yeah, they hate me because unlike these stupid weak queens that will let them think they're straight, not only will I tell them to their face that they aren't but I will also set them up to be caught and busted out so the rest of the world can see just how "straight" they are. Don't get me started on them or I'll be done typed paragraph after paragraph. I hate those bastards.

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[Edited 11/9/12 6:28am]

You taught me something today. I've often wondered what "trade" meant exactly. Years ago I used to work with a girl who would talk about "trade," but I thought she was referring to strictly gay men. Now you've confirmed it for me. So when a man is referred to as "trade" they are mascarading as strictly straight men. Come to think of it now, I've known a few...

Got any good "trade" stories?

Except they're not mascarading. They actually believe they're straight because they're attracted to pussy, they're not attracted to dick at all. However, they will let another man suck their dick because a mouth feels the same no matter who's giving the head, male or female. Some say it's a matter of opinion as to whether they're straight or not but if they're going to enjoy the pleasure we can give them, they need to face the same hate that we face. It's only fair, especially considering the fact that they are the main ones inflicting the hate on us.

But they know deep down inside that they aren't straight because if they really believed they were, then they would brag to their buddies about their male conquests just like they brag about their female conquests. They know they would catch hate if they did and they're too damn weak minded to face it like we do.

Shyra said:

Ottensen said:

So you have had trade dudes before? And what do they say when you've called them out on not being honest about what they really like?

I was thinking the same thing! Andy, I hope you know how to open up a can of whupass. I would think some of these type of men would get violent being called out, especially if you bust them out in front of others. Be careful, hon.

You can bust them out in front of others without them even knowing you're the one that busted them out. All you got to do is talk some people that they know into going to the gay club and catching them there. Of course, if they went, all they would see inside the club is the trade going around the club harassing the lesbians all night long thinking that the lesbians would be stupid enough to let them join in (that's another thread all together, a lesbian that lets a man join in needs their ass beat ) No, I tell their friends to not even go inside but park in the parking lot and just sit in their car. At the end of the night after these trade have been turned down by every lesbian in the club, they usually end up with some gay man in the parking lot. I simply tell them to sit in their car and observe them getting in the car with another man and sitting in there for a while with only one of their heads visible through the window.

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ZombieKitten said:

This post means nothing without a video....

JustErin said:

Fury said:

JustErin said: Everybody wants a great sex partner...like they just read a Blog on how to swallow a whole dick. No.. They've been Practicing on how to swallow a whole dick. No chick has ever learned how to take it up the ass from watching a movie. She's done it before

Everyone wants a great sex partner when they are single, yes I'll agree to that.

But there are too many men with that Madonna/Whore complex that just want a wife that will give it to them when they want it, but they wouldn't dream of getting really down and dirty with them.

You do that kind of thing with girls that you don't love, not your wife! Those tend to be the types that think women that are sexually confident do not deserve love.

The type of dude that has that kind of weird sexual hang up creeps me out. Mommy issues.

NDRU said:

RufusRawfield said:

who dat?

Dat one promiscuous young lady

She kinda hot though...for real.

JustErin said:

I wouldn't like it! by extreme I'm talking like 50+
Which means a whole bunch of the women friends he has now would be exbedmates. And THAT is an unappetizing thought.

50+ is extreme?

That is average, maybe a bit high in regards to the dudes I've known.

It doesn't bother me at all.

JustErin said:

Yes, for me to feel icky about it - it's my own threshold as to what is extreme, I'm not at all implying anyone else should feel that way

What every your beliefs are about sex, however you wish to conduct your persona sexual life is your business, no one else's.

[Edited 11/18/12 23:39pm]

Not if it's playing with little boys and girls.

vainandy said:

Shyra said:

I was thinking the same thing! Andy, I hope you know how to open up a can of whupass. I would think some of these type of men would get violent being called out, especially if you bust them out in front of others. Be careful, hon.

You can bust them out in front of others without them even knowing you're the one that busted them out. All you got to do is talk some people that they know into going to the gay club and catching them there. Of course, if they went, all they would see inside the club is the trade going around the club harassing the lesbians all night long thinking that the lesbians would be stupid enough to let them join in (that's another thread all together, a lesbian that lets a man join in needs their ass beat ) No, I tell their friends to not even go inside but park in the parking lot and just sit in their car. At the end of the night after these trade have been turned down by every lesbian in the club, they usually end up with some gay man in the parking lot. I simply tell them to sit in their car and observe them getting in the car with another man and sitting in there for a while with only one of their heads visible through the window.

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[Edited 11/19/12 6:36am]

this is effing hilarious! I'm learning so much.