Promiscuous girl, wherever you are

I’m all alone and it's you that I want
Promiscuous boy, I'm calling your name

But you're driving me crazy the way you're making me wait

Promiscuous girl, you're teasing me

You know what I want and I got what you need

Promiscuous boy, we're one in the same

So we don't gotta play games no more

Read more: NELLY FURTADO - PROMISCUOUS LYRICS

ZombieKitten said:

mynameisnotsusan said:

It's your body - do what you want with it. Why give a damn if people think you're a slut?

has there ever been a time where a man might suffer in areas such as job opportunities or finding a life partner, or being shunned in his community for being a slut?

Whilst there are folks still around who grew up in other times, a woman (especially in a small town ) is unfortunately still going to attract some social stigma for so-called slutty behaviour until all the oldies and their discriminatory ways DIE OFF

Well, Tiger Woods comes to mind I guess it was more the fact that he cheated on his wife than sleeping with lots of people.

I think there are very general rules - don't make a baby, don't catch or spread a disease, don't be a hypocrite ie pledge fidelity to a partner and then fuck around - other than that, have fun!! For such a pleasurable activity, people put waaay too much angst and drama and bs around f**king. And if it stops being fun - stop.

ZombieKitten said:

I mean just a slut, not a cheater someone who manages to abide by all those things. A man can get away with sleeping with 1000s of women, but a woman like that would be talked about, and not in a good way.

why do you think they got awards for porn stars

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i don't think it does, 1 person a month doesn't sound bad, a part of me regrets not trying out more people when i was younger and single. but i was way too shy.

ZombieKitten said:

I mean just a slut, not a cheater someone who manages to abide by all those things. A man can get away with sleeping with 1000s of women, but a woman like that would be talked about, and not in a good way.

I don't agree

that's in the past

nowadays, society has assumed that everyone is a potential horny slut, be it male or female

I'll give the guy a high five and some respect. If it's a woman, I'll look down on her as a filthy whore.

Just my opnion.

KingBAD said:

ZombieKitten said:

I mean just a slut, not a cheater someone who manages to abide by all those things. A man can get away with sleeping with 1000s of women, but a woman like that would be talked about, and not in a good way.

why do you think they got awards for porn stars

[Edited 11/12/12 4:30am]

who dat?

dJJ said:

Fury said:

No back story really Just keep getting the " you should settle down " speech But I enjoy my freedom And the casual sex that comes with it. And by being upfront With my desire to not settle down ( although I wouldn't tell a potential match "no"), I've found that there are a lot of females who just want their back broke out every now and then after dinner and a movie -- no strings

Do they think you should change something in your life, eg settling down, because you are not happy?

Or do they get uncomfortable if someone chooses a different life than theirs?

I just went through Ikea. Made me apreciate my single status a lot.

And yes, some girls like casual sex and enjoy their life.

Many a man dont know how to behave thats what it is...
peeps expect a female to be all hott and shitt when they dont really know what to do...and then when they do meet a true freak..they talk shit and gossip and spread rumers and speak bad and backstab some nice females..that s not how I roll cuz you gotta appreshiate when girls are down for whatever in these times of crisis...peeps gottta celebrate and have some fun..like James Brown and Bambataa used to say back in the day...PEACE UNITY LOVE and HAVING FUN..

That s what it all boils down to..fuck the economy man...shit was bad under Jimmy Carter, too...

So what? Peeps aint gonna celebrate LIFE no more? Fuck that !

LiFE IS FOR LIVING!

most dudes dont know what to do...how to treat a lady right...they just lazy and expect...greedy mofos better step their game up ....these days you gots to show what you can do..

Dudes is bitches too...they more slutty then the females sometimes butt folks kinda programed into thinking it s different with men..

they the ones who dont know how to generate HEAT !





its cuz you gotta unleash the freek in em ..you gotta bring it out of her.don´t just excpect shitt to happen BE AbOUT it...fuck her reall HARD..grab an spank that azz an dont forget 2 slap it every once in a while and then some more til it turns red...increase the blood flow in her azz and her pussy delta..slap gently then ruffer and ruffer while you be fuckkin her good an deep and keep telling her what you gonna do to her...and then really DO IT and dont jjust tallk.

let your cock do the talkin ..grab her azz and pump pump pump man..



and if her pussy s good then lick it and keep fukin again man..let her FEEL that you a freakk and that shes af reekk...SMOKe tha buddha

lick her while she be smoknig a phatty....lick her while shes inhaling DEEP..thats gon put her in the mood slowly, surely butt inevitably....she gon get HOTT ...and then bring out the freak in her ..freak her ruff..watch a couple of porn flics while you fukkin so she can see she aint the only nasty freak out there..watch some justin Slayer pipe layer shitt...that gets lots of chikcs reall wet and horny and hott in a heartbeat man...just give it a shot and see for yoself.and dont you talk no weird shitt...keep it real..do what you say N say what you do...you get the point...
I once read this book where one of the portaggonists said sumfin likke: put your finger in your girls mouth while you be sexxin her an d see if she suckss on it..if she does..then shes a TRUE FREAK..she pure..pure freek..nasty..

and tell her about this little story from the book BEFORE you Give it to her and fuckk her and remind her..she gonna feel so dirty.cuz she knoww she´d like to suck on it while getting it..HA HA lol lick he r a bit in betwween your thrusts let her know you got the HOTTS for her pussy..make her feeel like she got the sweetest pussy even if it aint so..that how you unleash the beast in her..Fuckk away her shame her inhibishions..her feers...make her feel LIKE A NATURAL WOMAN...likke that chacka kahn song.HAHAH

ask her whether she´d likke her pussy eaten by some girl youknow..tell her that youknow she into some kinky Shitt...bring another girl just to take care of her

whisper shitt while bonin her..an keep spankinh that azz

youll be surprised how quick she gon warm up to not just Dirty talk but lots of other kkinky shitt...nasty.. HA H aH A HA HA

butt dontß forget to smoke that budda buddha

shitt is more relaxed when you good.

ha

As long as we have fun i dont care bout her reputashion, i dont give a shit about what he say she say....life is short mawfukkcas...CELEBRATE !!
Spank it...touch it ...rub it....kiss..it..lick it...and then spank it again..

and make her spank you back.

I like women who know what they want ..what the y feel ..and you gotta make them feel comfortable ..nice...and comfortable..they gotta feel that just like them, you down for whatever...aint no shame in my game..aint nuttin better than maxin and relaxin inthis life cuz life is short..

why waste time and energy gossiping about females when you could be their best friedn?
that s just stupid..

You said you went to IKEA and were happy to be single? care to elaborate?

why did you feel happy to be single? is it because those couples there get on your nerves and it´s them who´s unhappy?

I can totally relate to that....hate seeing those couples arguing there too......

butt I go to IKAE to pick up girls...they so despreate and lonely there..the single moms...the single ladies... they stroll through the aisles...I stroll through the isles...they see me ..I see them..

I check them out..they hot..lonely...just like me..there´s sex in the air...

Do you like the coffee there?

I invite them ..I treat em to a hotdog and coffee... I f they´re cute I treat them to dinner ....those swedish meatballs.. ha ha ha they hungry ....we eat almond cream cake..

butt you know ,,hypocrisy rules these days...folks trying to tell women they can´t have no fun..

Like cindy lorper said, girls just wanna have fun too.

RufusRawfield said:

KingBAD said:

why do you think they got awards for porn stars

[Edited 11/12/12 4:30am]

who dat?

she do 12 muthafukkas and six bitches in one movie

and get mad props, just no awards

JustErin said:

dJJ said:

The fact that there are different standards for women than men about frequency of different sex partners is imo not something that women, more often than men, advocate.

The 'again' was indeed wrong. I should have just said, that blaming females for that standard, isn't going to improve the social low position of women.

The fact of the matter is; many women are extremely hard on other women when it comes to labelling them a whore. Yes, men are guitly of that as well, but there seems to be a certain maliciousness when woman criticize this behaviour.

I'm not trying to improve the social low position of women, I'm simpy stating a fact based on observations of the women I see around me.

Women may not be to blame for creating that double standard but a hell of a lot of them certainly seem to have no problem perpetuating it.

TonyVanDam said:

Fury said:

Assuming you are single, and are practicing safe sex, is 12 partners in 365 days too many, too little or just right? Is the standard different for men and women ?

If you're a man at any age, you're a player.

If you're a woman under age 30, you're a slut; woman over 30, you're a MILF.

But make no mistake about it, there is a double standard. And it's not fair at all.

prodigalfan said:

TonyVanDam said:

If you're a man at any age, you're a player.

If you're a woman under age 30, you're a slut; woman over 30, you're a MILF.

But make no mistake about it, there is a double standard. And it's not fair at all.

what does this stand for? MILF

Mother I'd Like to Fuck

RufusRawfield said:

KingBAD said:

why do you think they got awards for porn stars

[Edited 11/12/12 4:30am]

who dat?

Dat one promiscuous young lady

vainandy said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

thing about you guys is, when some of those horny frustrated "str8" men can't get a blo from women, they sometimes seek out a man... some of those guys are extremely homophobic

Oh honey, those bastards ain't straight. We call them "trade". Hell, you gotta come up with something to call them because straight men don't let other men blow them....ever. In reality, they are extremely closeted bisexual men whose warped minds won't even admit to themselves that they are anything other than "straight" (which they aren't). Yes, they are extremely homophobic and I hate the ground they walk on. It's because of my experiences with them, that I began saying "don't spoil it by talking". Oh yeah, they hate me because unlike these stupid weak queens that will let them think they're straight, not only will I tell them to their face that they aren't but I will also set them up to be caught and busted out so the rest of the world can see just how "straight" they are. Don't get me started on them or I'll be done typed paragraph after paragraph. I hate those bastards.

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[Edited 11/9/12 6:28am]

So you have had trade dudes before? And what do they say when you've called them out on not being honest about what they really like?

JustErin said:

prodigalfan said:

what does this stand for? MILF

Mother I'd Like to Fuck

Poor me. I'm older than 30 but not a mother.

Fortunately the younger generation of men are more female friendly.......

vainandy said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

thing about you guys is, when some of those horny frustrated "str8" men can't get a blo from women, they sometimes seek out a man... some of those guys are extremely homophobic

Oh honey, those bastards ain't straight. We call them "trade". Hell, you gotta come up with something to call them because straight men don't let other men blow them....ever. In reality, they are extremely closeted bisexual men whose warped minds won't even admit to themselves that they are anything other than "straight" (which they aren't). Yes, they are extremely homophobic and I hate the ground they walk on. It's because of my experiences with them, that I began saying "don't spoil it by talking". Oh yeah, they hate me because unlike these stupid weak queens that will let them think they're straight, not only will I tell them to their face that they aren't but I will also set them up to be caught and busted out so the rest of the world can see just how "straight" they are. Don't get me started on them or I'll be done typed paragraph after paragraph. I hate those bastards.

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[Edited 11/9/12 6:28am]

You taught me something today. I've often wondered what "trade" meant exactly. Years ago I used to work with a girl who would talk about "trade," but I thought she was referring to strictly gay men. Now you've confirmed it for me. So when a man is referred to as "trade" they are mascarading as strictly straight men. Come to think of it now, I've known a few...

Got any good "trade" stories?

Ottensen said:

vainandy said:

Oh honey, those bastards ain't straight. We call them "trade". Hell, you gotta come up with something to call them because straight men don't let other men blow them....ever. In reality, they are extremely closeted bisexual men whose warped minds won't even admit to themselves that they are anything other than "straight" (which they aren't). Yes, they are extremely homophobic and I hate the ground they walk on. It's because of my experiences with them, that I began saying "don't spoil it by talking". Oh yeah, they hate me because unlike these stupid weak queens that will let them think they're straight, not only will I tell them to their face that they aren't but I will also set them up to be caught and busted out so the rest of the world can see just how "straight" they are. Don't get me started on them or I'll be done typed paragraph after paragraph. I hate those bastards.

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[Edited 11/9/12 6:28am]

So you have had trade dudes before? And what do they say when you've called them out on not being honest about what they really like?

I was thinking the same thing! Andy, I hope you know how to open up a can of whupass. I would think some of these type of men would get violent being called out, especially if you bust them out in front of others. Be careful, hon.

ZombieKitten said:

JoeTyler, it's not at all in the past. See post above

I think he must be joking

or maybe he's a fossil of a bygone (and gone) era...

JoeTyler said:

ZombieKitten said:

JoeTyler said:

I think he must be joking

or maybe he's a fossil of a bygone (and gone) era...

Or from my home town?

please explain

JoeTyler said:

ZombieKitten said:

JoeTyler said: Or from my home town?

please explain

I spent my formative years in a town of 10,000 people where everyone knew everyone's business. I was talking about the promiscuity double standard with my friend the other day and they thought it might just be a small town phenomenon? I would love to hear that since then EVERYTHING has changed and nobody would think that way anymore.

I remember in school there was a girl called Kimberley. She gave blowjobs to 2 confirmed guys from school. Some boys wrote a song about her called "FEED ME" (she was a little on the heavy side too) and it was a song about how she would blow any guy that asked AND swallow. She was also mercilessly teased about it.

My parents had a friend who had over the 5 years we knew her, dated about 4-5 different men (that we all knew). She was called a slut by my own mother. I just thought she was unlucky and couldn't find the right guy

I'm sure I could think of a heap more examples of talking down women who (mostly just rumoured) had multiple partners. I NEVER heard any bad-mouthing about men who did the same.

There still is a double standard, however, men that screw anything and everything are known as man whores or sluts and this concept is taking on. The men are considered to be gross, instead of a lesser human being (like when woman are considered sluts.).

Fury said:

Assuming you are single, and are practicing safe sex, is 12 partners in 365 days too many, too little or just right? Is the standard different for men and women ?

Answering the title of the thread... hell no.

The second question: Who gives a fuck what other people think. For the life of me I've never understood why any woman gave a rats ass about what anyone said about who she decided to allow into her body. Its none of anyones business I don't care if she had been discreet are not. Allow me to give you my top seven list of....

"Why People Think Your Sex Life Is Their Businesses."

1. Folks who for host of reasons don't have a life, don't know how to get one, and are pissed you live yours on your terms.

2. Folks who's personal lives are so fucked up they can't bring it upon themselves to deal with their own shit so, they deflect their problems by looking up and down your, "keyhole."

3. The holy rollers, you know these people; they've done everything under the sun and have pulled and done some shit you nor I could conjure up. Yet, they found GOD 50 years after continuous sinning. The Lord has given them second sight to see the errors of their ways, and it's their responsibility to shame you or prevent you from making the same mistakes.

4. Old, soft, and dried up... limp dicks & dried up vajaja's group. Pissed because they can't do what you are doing now and resent you for it.

5. Th closeted desperately wanna be freaks who have more hang ups than the Lord should really allow but yet can't reconcile their needs for wanting to explore all aspects of carnal knowledge. They can not bring themselves to admit they'd like to do something a little strange or different, they are envious, horny, and angry, very angry. This group can be dangerous.... serial killers, those who decided to go, "postal" sometimes are in this category. No offense to all the mail carriers, much love and respect.

6. The closeted freaks who are doing some kinky shit but have figured out if they put you business out on front street, they can still freak every ass that comes by and appear "pure". You know these people too, they pay for sex, take pics of themselves and email them to barely legal young adults, they hide behind the Bible/collar, the respectable housewife who's running a sex ring out of her garage.

7. Dumbass, insecure, selfish men, who think women have sex only to give them pleasure or to procreate. Those men who can't deal with the fact that women loves sex for sex sake and may have had more partners and/or experience than them. Women who've been around the block and may have fucked the entire offensive line at college. She would know not all men, dicks, or technique are NOT created equal. Another thing about this group, they think it's a man right to fuck anything that comes by but trip when their woman finds someone on the side too. In the words of singer Jonnie Taylor, Who's making love to your old lady / While you are out making love.

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[Edited 11/18/12 7:18am]

TD3 said:

Fury said:

Assuming you are single, and are practicing safe sex, is 12 partners in 365 days too many, too little or just right? Is the standard different for men and women ?

Answering the title of the thread... hell no.

The second question: Who gives a fuck what other people think. For the life of me I've never understood why any woman gave a rats ass about what anyone said about who she decided to allow into her body. Its none of anyones business I don't care if she had been discreet are not. Allow me to give you my top seven list of....

"Why People Think Your Sex Life Is Their Businesses."

1. Folks who for host of reasons don't have a life, don't know how to get one, and are pissed you live yours on your terms.

2. Folks who's personal lives are so fucked up they can't bring it upon themselves to deal with their own shit so, they deflect their problems by looking up and down your, "keyhole."

3. The holy rollers, you know these people; they've done everything under the sun and have pulled and done some shit you nor I could conjure up. Yet, they found GOD 50 years after continuous sinning. The Lord has given them second sight to see the errors of their ways, and it's their responsibility to shame you or prevent you from making the same mistakes.

4. Old, soft, and dried up... limp dicks & dried up vajaja's group. Pissed because they can't do what you are doing now and resent you for it.

5. Th closeted desperately wanna be freaks who have more hang ups than the Lord should really allow but yet can't reconcile their needs for wanting to explore all aspects of carnal knowledge. They can not bring themselves to admit they'd like to do something a little strange or different, they are envious, horny, and angry, very angry. This group can be dangerous.... serial killers, those who decided to go, "postal" sometimes are in this category. No offense to all the mail carriers, much love and respect.

6. The closeted freaks who are doing some kinky shit but have figured out if they put you business out on front street, they can still freak every ass that comes by and appear "pure". You know these people too, they pay for sex, take pics of themselves and email them to barely legal young adults, they hide behind the Bible/collar, the respectable housewife who's running a sex ring out of her garage.

7. Dumbass, insecure, selfish men, who think women have sex only to give them pleasure or to procreate. Those men who can't deal with the fact that women loves sex for sex sake and may have had more partners and/or experience than them. Women who've been around the block and may have fucked the entire offensive line at college. She would know not all men, dicks, or technique are created equal. Another thing about this group, they think its a man right to fuck anything that comes by but trip when their woman find someone too on the side. In the words of singer Jonnie Taylor, Who's making love to your old lady / While you are out making love.

I love this post!! and I read this very carefully because I learned some things from this post.

Lot of it I already knew... but never really thought about it. Thanks... in my ripe old age of 46 I am seriously considering issues brought up in this thread because for the first time I am considering sexing someone that I am not marred/committed to.

So this thread is right on time for me.

ZombieKitten said:

JoeTyler said:

please explain

I remember in school there was a girl called Kimberley. She gave blowjobs to 2 confirmed guys from school. Some boys wrote a song about her called "FEED ME" (she was a little on the heavy side too) and it was a song about how she would blow any guy that asked AND swallow. She was also mercilessly teased about it.

My parents had a friend who had over the 5 years we knew her, dated about 4-5 different men (that we all knew).

that was an incredibly erotic story, thank you

[Edited 11/18/12 5:23am]

ZombieKitten said:

JoeTyler said:

please explain

I spent my formative years in a town of 10,000 people where everyone knew everyone's business. I was talking about the promiscuity double standard with my friend the other day and they thought it might just be a small town phenomenon? I would love to hear that since then EVERYTHING has changed and nobody would think that way anymore.

I remember in school there was a girl called Kimberley. She gave blowjobs to 2 confirmed guys from school. Some boys wrote a song about her called "FEED ME" (she was a little on the heavy side too) and it was a song about how she would blow any guy that asked AND swallow. She was also mercilessly teased about it.

My parents had a friend who had over the 5 years we knew her, dated about 4-5 different men (that we all knew). She was called a slut by my own mother. I just thought she was unlucky and couldn't find the right guy

I'm sure I could think of a heap more examples of talking down women who (mostly just rumoured) had multiple partners. I NEVER heard any bad-mouthing about men who did the same.

When I was 14 there was a rumor going around that this girl I knew gave ONE guy a blowjob and it was quite the scandal. When someone told me, I remember distinctly declaring that it couldn't possibly br true because NO ONE our age would ever do such a thing. Oh, how naive I was.

TD3 said:

Stymie said:

TD3 said:

Answering the title of the thread... hell no.

The second question: Who gives a fuck what other people think. For the life of me I've never understood why any woman gave a rats ass about what anyone said about who she decided to allow into her body. Its none of anyones business I don't care if she had been discreet are not. Allow me to give you my top seven list of....

I just love you.

Back-at-cha.