Dude you know the standard is different for men and women. Stop playin'.

Promiscuous? I suppose so, since it fits the definition.

But I don't think that promiscuity is a bad thing.

For me, though...I can't see me fucking that many people in a year.

Yes it does.

Because it proves that you haven't made a serious effort to start a relationship with any (or most) of them. It's apparent that you've primarily just wanted to have sex with most of those individuals and that's what casual sex is about.

Not picking on you though. That type of a number is what I'm aiming for next year.

...how about "lucky"...?

Perhaps gay men are different.

I can count on several fingers the years I fucked 12 or more people. I don't live that way now, but I probably would if I were single. Not seeing the big deal, tbh.

novabrkr said:

Yes it does.

Because it proves that you haven't made a serious effort to start a relationship with any (or most) of them. It's apparent that you've primarily just wanted to have sex with most of those individuals and that's what casual sex is about.

Not picking on you though. That type of a number is what I'm aiming for next year.

and we dont know the whole story here

sex with the hopes of relationship

filling a void that sex cant

etc

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Does a bear shit in the woods?

Idk...

What's the back story behind all this?

PurpleJedi said:

...how about "lucky"...?

What does it matter if it's promiscuous or not?

12 partners in 12 months IS reckless

AIDS does exist

-

keep it simple and safe

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Fury said:

No back story really Just keep getting the " you should settle down " speech But I enjoy my freedom And the casual sex that comes with it. And by being upfront With my desire to not settle down ( although I wouldn't tell a potential match "no"), I've found that there are a lot of females who just want their back broke out every now and then after dinner and a movie -- no strings

Do they think you should change something in your life, eg settling down, because you are not happy?

Or do they get uncomfortable if someone chooses a different life than theirs?

I just went through Ikea. Made me apreciate my single status a lot.

And yes, some girls like casual sex and enjoy their life.

JoeTyler said:

Well dude, like Erin said, this kinda behaviour would fall under promiscuous. But it really depends on how you view it yourself and whether or not you care what others think.

If you enjoy your freedom and lifestyle, then I guess there really is no problem. You're not putting these women or yourself at risk. It's your life in the end.

good thing your practicing safe sex

Fury said:

Assuming you are single, and are practicing safe sex, is 12 partners in 365 days too many, too little or just right? Is the standard different for men and women ?

nah,

just a playa

KingBAD said:

Fury said:

Assuming you are single, and are practicing safe sex, is 12 partners in 365 days too many, too little or just right? Is the standard different for men and women ?

nah,

just a playa

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JoeTyler said:

12 partners in 12 months IS reckless

AIDS does exist

-

keep it simple and safe

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I would definitely say that it's hoe-ish....Male or Female. Be careful out there ya'll.

It's only one a month.

30 days is a long ass time to be with one person ...

not at all. if i was young free & sing with no wish to settle down i'd want a different lover every week!..

i kind of regret not playing the field more actually.

Can you PM me her number!?

; )

Yes, anyone who has that many partners in a such a short time is any of the follwing

1. A prostitute or courtesan

2. A nymphomaniac

3. Extremely handsome, but unable or unwilling to make a relationship last.

4. Lying

5 A sex doll passed arun 12 different people, one per month.

Adorecream said:

Yes, anyone who has that many partners in a such a short time is any of the follwing

1. A prostitute or courtesan

2. A nymphomaniac

3. Extremely handsome, but unable or unwilling to make a relationship last.

4. Lying

5 A sex doll passed arun 12 different people, one per month.

!!!!

OldFriends4Sale said:

novabrkr said:

Yes it does.

Because it proves that you haven't made a serious effort to start a relationship with any (or most) of them. It's apparent that you've primarily just wanted to have sex with most of those individuals and that's what casual sex is about.

Not picking on you though. That type of a number is what I'm aiming for next year.

and we dont know the whole story here

sex with the hopes of relationship

filling a void that sex cant

etc

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No. We know the whole story here. Twelve partners per year means you're into casual sex. There's no other way to look at it.

Not that I think twelve is that high a number. But it will keep adding up if you continue doing it year after year.

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does it fuck...good on you!

lauralevesque said:

good thing your practicing safe sex

and (hopefully) keepin it clean