Any of you guys tried it? I've always been interested, I guess it's been a fantasty for a while. however, I have yet plucked up the courage to go to a party.

andykeen said:

Any of you guys tried it? I've always been interested, I guess it's been a fantasty for a while. however, I have yet plucked up the courage to go to a party.

I've never tried it and never been interested. But, I"m shocked at the number of people I've known who have tried it or are very much a part of that particular culture. I work with a bunch of them. Like prostitution, it's a big secret society doesn't like to talk about or acknowledge, but, it's very much a part of our culture. Much more than people are willing to admit.

All I did was sleeping with someone while a friend was sleeping with someone else in the same room. That's about as close as it gets, although I am aware this has not much to do with the swinger's club culture...

Never tried that and never been interested, for some weird reason.

What's the appeal? Simply watching and being watched?

No, I kinda find it gross... Not judging cuz I dont care what other folks do but its not something I would ever be interested in..

unless... Are any members of Duran Duran at these parties??

Never

I don't like macrosexual events

I'm a freak for privacy/intimacy/monogamy when it comes to sex

if I was in a serious relationship and my partner asked me to do it, I'd immediately raise the red flag

I am consistently asked to swing parties-but not swing clubs. Essentially they want me to screw their lady and watch me do it. The whole stranger screw in a pay club doesn't suit me at all.

I also turn down the polite offers to screw their wives/girlfriends.

If you plan to swing do it with a couple you know and not strangers. There are different levels of swinging be sure you know what they want and what you want. 'Cuz they may want DP and you may not want your junk touching another man's junk.

At this time swinging isn't for me.

i am surprisingly and boringly monogamy driven, and dont think i could swing.

when i was younger, there were some times that couples invited me to play with them, but i think i only did three times.

now that i am in my 30s, i really barely even get interested in casual sex and i am single. maybe a few times a year (like 4-5), but not often.

not to denigrate, but as a gay man that pretty much makes me a nun on a relative scale.

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kewlschool said:

I am consistently asked to swing parties-but not swing clubs. Essentially they want me to screw their lady and watch me do it. The whole stranger screw in a pay club doesn't suit me at all.

I also turn down the polite offers to screw their wives/girlfriends.

If you plan to swing do it with a couple you know and not strangers. There are different levels of swinging be sure you know what they want and what you want. 'Cuz they may want DP and you may not want your junk touching another man's junk.

At this time swinging isn't for me.

so, does it bother YOU?

ZombieKitten said:

kewlschool said:

I am consistently asked to swing parties-but not swing clubs. Essentially they want me to screw their lady and watch me do it. The whole stranger screw in a pay club doesn't suit me at all.

I also turn down the polite offers to screw their wives/girlfriends.

If you plan to swing do it with a couple you know and not strangers. There are different levels of swinging be sure you know what they want and what you want. 'Cuz they may want DP and you may not want your junk touching another man's junk.

At this time swinging isn't for me.

so, does it bother YOU?

I have not participated in DP. But the thought of junk touching other junk doesn't excite me.

I know you are the DP lady.

kewlschool said:

I always thought this was something that only people in their 50s and older did but I recently met a dude in his late 20s who invited to me to one of these parties.

I declined saying that I imagined gross people attending and he admitted that yes, the people are almost always unattractive.

ZombieKitten said:

kewlschool said:

I have not participated in DP. But the thought of junk touching other junk doesn't excite me.

I know you are the DP lady.

I didn't say excite I said bothered!! Like if your balls should incidentally touch another mans while you are both sexing a lady would that be the end of everything like would it be such a turn-off that it all stops there or couldn't even begin in the first place? I rarely get to ask a man this - please humor me And just for the record, DP porn for me is a turn off. I pretty much watch women only.

DP isn't for me. I'm one on one.

kewlschool said:

ZombieKitten said:

kewlschool said: I didn't say excite I said bothered!! Like if your balls should incidentally touch another mans while you are both sexing a lady would that be the end of everything like would it be such a turn-off that it all stops there or couldn't even begin in the first place? I rarely get to ask a man this - please humor me And just for the record, DP porn for me is a turn off. I pretty much watch women only.

DP isn't for me. I'm one on one.

I'm going to have to start a thread for straight guys I think

I haven't found one yet!

ZombieKitten said:

kewlschool said:

I have not participated in DP. But the thought of junk touching other junk doesn't excite me.

I know you are the DP lady.

I didn't say excite I said bothered!! Like if your balls should incidentally touch another mans while you are both sexing a lady would that be the end of everything like would it be such a turn-off that it all stops there or couldn't even begin in the first place? I rarely get to ask a man this - please humor me And just for the record, DP porn for me is a turn off. I pretty much watch women only.

I thought you liked watching DP. I remember you saying stuff when I posted some double anal comments in some various sex thread. At any rate, I've seen some double anal scenes, and I always thought they were sort of gay, even if it was two guys penetrating the same woman's anus.

728huey said:

ZombieKitten said:

kewlschool said: I didn't say excite I said bothered!! Like if your balls should incidentally touch another mans while you are both sexing a lady would that be the end of everything like would it be such a turn-off that it all stops there or couldn't even begin in the first place? I rarely get to ask a man this - please humor me And just for the record, DP porn for me is a turn off. I pretty much watch women only.

I thought you liked watching DP. I remember you saying stuff when I posted some double anal comments in some various sex thread. At any rate, I've seen some double anal scenes, and I always thought they were sort of gay, even if it was two guys penetrating the same woman's anus.

Sorry - I should have made it clearer that I don't like to watch DP scenes with MEN in them

I only like it when women do it to each other