JoeTyler said:

Stymie said:

JoeTyler said:

hmm...what???

men in the 30s and 40s are the TARGET audience of strip clubs, specially if they're still single (for whatever reason) or under the pain/boredom/bullshit of an unhappy marriage

young males in their 20s usually score in the disco, for free, since 20-something girls usually look for the same

Why are folks over thinking this? I like titties. It's nothing mentally attached to that. And perfectly happily married people go to strip clubs and some even go together.

is not over thinking it; it's about why men in their 30s/40s would pay to SEE a naked female body, when maybe 10 years before they used to have sex with them, for free

It's not hard to understand at all. They want to see naked women just like gay men want to see naked men. Gay or straight, men are men and men are turned on by sight. Why do you think men have bought dirty magazines for ages and now they look at porn on the internet? Because they are turned on by sight and unless they become impotent, they'll be turned on by sight until the day they die.

JoeTyler said:

This thread is just completely backwards.

JoeTyler said:

hmm...what???

men in the 30s and 40s are the TARGET audience of strip clubs, specially if they're still single (for whatever reason) or under the pain/boredom/bullshit of an unhappy marriage

young males in their 20s usually score in the disco, for free, since 20-something girls usually look for the same

Plus those sluts turn tricks up in there too. Those men get up in there and get horny and those women love to make that money on the side. My favorite though, was back in the 1990s when there used to be a strip club two doors down from a gay bar. When the police would get tips that those heffers were turning tricks they would send undercover officers in there and those heffers could just sense it and they weren't giving up a damn thing that night. Every time they would have a sting, a few of those horny men would wander down to the gay bar trying to get their rocks off by anybody or anything because those bitches weren't doing a damn thing on those nights.

Hell, I almost got lucky myself one night. I was going to my car and I saw a guy walking from the strip club into the parking lot of the gay bar. He was very good looking and wearing a very nice suit of all things. He kept talking about how horny he was and kept asking was any girls in the bar. I told him it was a gay bar (hell, that fucker knew what type of place it was). He kept rubbing his crotch talking how horny he was and those bitches weren't giving up shit up the street because of a rumor that the police was in there. We were on the side of the building and he asked if I would be offended if he pulled his dick out and stroked it because it was just aching. I told him go ahead. Finally, he asked if I could do something for him. I said hell yeah. He said to stand there and he would bring his car and around and it was plenty big enough to relax in. I stand there a few minutes and he pulls up in a damn hurst. I said "Hell naw, I ain't getting in that damn thing!". He said there was no dead body in it and I said I don't give a damn...Hell naw!".

vainandy said:

JoeTyler said:

hmm...what???

men in the 30s and 40s are the TARGET audience of strip clubs, specially if they're still single (for whatever reason) or under the pain/boredom/bullshit of an unhappy marriage

young males in their 20s usually score in the disco, for free, since 20-something girls usually look for the same

Plus those sluts turn tricks up in there too. Those men get up in there and get horny and those women love to make that money on the side. My favorite though, was back in the 1990s when there used to be a strip club two doors down from a gay bar. When the police would get tips that those heffers were turning tricks they would send undercover officers in there and those heffers could just sense it and they weren't giving up a damn thing that night. Every time they would have a sting, a few of those horny men would wander down to the gay bar trying to get their rocks off by anybody or anything because those bitches weren't doing a damn thing on those nights.

Hell, I almost got lucky myself one night. I was going to my car and I saw a guy walking from the strip club into the parking lot of the gay bar. He was very good looking and wearing a very nice suit of all things. He kept talking about how horny he was and kept asking was any girls in the bar. I told him it was a gay bar (hell, that fucker knew what type of place it was). He kept rubbing his crotch talking how horny he was and those bitches weren't giving up shit up the street because of a rumor that the police was in there. We were on the side of the building and he asked if I would be offended if he pulled his dick out and stroked it because it was just aching. I told him go ahead. Finally, he asked if I could do something for him. I said hell yeah. He said to stand there and he would bring his car and around and it was plenty big enough to relax in. I stand there a few minutes and he pulls up in a damn hurst. I said "Hell naw, I ain't getting in that damn thing!". He said there was no dead body in it and I said I don't give a damn...Hell naw!".

Andy I swear you need to write a book.

vainandy said:

Hell, I almost got lucky myself one night. I was going to my car and I saw a guy walking from the strip club into the parking lot of the gay bar. He was very good looking and wearing a very nice suit of all things. He kept talking about how horny he was and kept asking was any girls in the bar. I told him it was a gay bar (hell, that fucker knew what type of place it was). He kept rubbing his crotch talking how horny he was and those bitches weren't giving up shit up the street because of a rumor that the police was in there. We were on the side of the building and he asked if I would be offended if he pulled his dick out and stroked it because it was just aching.

I told him go ahead. Finally, he asked if I could do something for him. I said hell yeah. He said to stand there and he would bring his car and around and it was plenty big enough to relax in. I stand there a few minutes and he pulls up in a damn hurst.

I said "Hell naw, I ain't getting in that damn thing!". He said there was no dead body in it and I said I don't give a damn...Hell naw!".

yep, hardly the right place to get excited, lol

noimageatall said:

vainandy said:

Plus those sluts turn tricks up in there too. Those men get up in there and get horny and those women love to make that money on the side. My favorite though, was back in the 1990s when there used to be a strip club two doors down from a gay bar. When the police would get tips that those heffers were turning tricks they would send undercover officers in there and those heffers could just sense it and they weren't giving up a damn thing that night. Every time they would have a sting, a few of those horny men would wander down to the gay bar trying to get their rocks off by anybody or anything because those bitches weren't doing a damn thing on those nights.

Hell, I almost got lucky myself one night. I was going to my car and I saw a guy walking from the strip club into the parking lot of the gay bar. He was very good looking and wearing a very nice suit of all things. He kept talking about how horny he was and kept asking was any girls in the bar. I told him it was a gay bar (hell, that fucker knew what type of place it was). He kept rubbing his crotch talking how horny he was and those bitches weren't giving up shit up the street because of a rumor that the police was in there. We were on the side of the building and he asked if I would be offended if he pulled his dick out and stroked it because it was just aching. I told him go ahead. Finally, he asked if I could do something for him. I said hell yeah. He said to stand there and he would bring his car and around and it was plenty big enough to relax in. I stand there a few minutes and he pulls up in a damn hurst. I said "Hell naw, I ain't getting in that damn thing!". He said there was no dead body in it and I said I don't give a damn...Hell naw!".

Andy I swear you need to write a book.

"Confessions of a Whore"

JoeTyler said:

vainandy said:

Hell, I almost got lucky myself one night. I was going to my car and I saw a guy walking from the strip club into the parking lot of the gay bar. He was very good looking and wearing a very nice suit of all things. He kept talking about how horny he was and kept asking was any girls in the bar. I told him it was a gay bar (hell, that fucker knew what type of place it was). He kept rubbing his crotch talking how horny he was and those bitches weren't giving up shit up the street because of a rumor that the police was in there. We were on the side of the building and he asked if I would be offended if he pulled his dick out and stroked it because it was just aching.

I told him go ahead. Finally, he asked if I could do something for him. I said hell yeah. He said to stand there and he would bring his car and around and it was plenty big enough to relax in. I stand there a few minutes and he pulls up in a damn hurst.

I said "Hell naw, I ain't getting in that damn thing!". He said there was no dead body in it and I said I don't give a damn...Hell naw!".

yep, hardly the right place to get excited, lol

Just goes to show there are some of all types of men that go in there.

I went in there myself one night. A bulldagger friend of mine wanted to go but was scared to go alone so I told her I would meet her there. She chickened out and didn't show up but those bitches would not leave me the fuck alone. "Can I get you another beer"...Hell no, a beer was $5 which was unheard of at that time so I nursed that one can for a damn hour. "Can I massage your shoulders"....Uh, no thank you. "Oh, you're hair is so pretty can I touch it"....Uh, leave it alone honey, I worked on it for an hour and you'll mess it up. Finally, I lit my cigarette and crossed my legs in a real fish pose hoping the bitch would get the message. I bet she wondered what the fuck I was doing up in there.

I was tripping out on this one guy though. His ass had to be pushing 70 and was tore up from the floor up. This bitch sat in his lap and had great big ole titties. Honey, watermelons didn't have shit on these titties. I'm talkin' big ole Louise Jefferson titties. She put them titties in his face and put his nose all up between them and jiggled them around. That old buzzard was just a'lovin' it. When he got up out of his chair, he had a wet spot in the front of his pants.

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vainandy said:

noimageatall said:

Andy I swear you need to write a book.

"Confessions of a Whore"

vainandy said:

JoeTyler said:

hmm...what???

men in the 30s and 40s are the TARGET audience of strip clubs, specially if they're still single (for whatever reason) or under the pain/boredom/bullshit of an unhappy marriage

young males in their 20s usually score in the disco, for free, since 20-something girls usually look for the same

Plus those sluts turn tricks up in there too. Those men get up in there and get horny and those women love to make that money on the side. My favorite though, was back in the 1990s when there used to be a strip club two doors down from a gay bar. When the police would get tips that those heffers were turning tricks they would send undercover officers in there and those heffers could just sense it and they weren't giving up a damn thing that night. Every time they would have a sting, a few of those horny men would wander down to the gay bar trying to get their rocks off by anybody or anything because those bitches weren't doing a damn thing on those nights.

Hell, I almost got lucky myself one night. I was going to my car and I saw a guy walking from the strip club into the parking lot of the gay bar. He was very good looking and wearing a very nice suit of all things. He kept talking about how horny he was and kept asking was any girls in the bar. I told him it was a gay bar (hell, that fucker knew what type of place it was). He kept rubbing his crotch talking how horny he was and those bitches weren't giving up shit up the street because of a rumor that the police was in there. We were on the side of the building and he asked if I would be offended if he pulled his dick out and stroked it because it was just aching. I told him go ahead. Finally, he asked if I could do something for him. I said hell yeah. He said to stand there and he would bring his car and around and it was plenty big enough to relax in. I stand there a few minutes and he pulls up in a damn hurst. I said "Hell naw, I ain't getting in that damn thing!". He said there was no dead body in it and I said I don't give a damn...Hell naw!".

DUDE, YOU ARE HILARIOUS!!!

smoothcriminal12 said:

This thread is just completely backwards.

I'm going to come out and say what everyone in this thread is really thinking, but just hasnlt said it yet.

*ahem*

If you truly don't understand why men and women of any age want to go to strip clubs then perhaps, just maybe, it is YOU that is mentally delayed.

If you believe there "should" be a myopic view of sexuality, and that everyone "should" be gravitating to that view at the same pace as well, then for certain, it is YOU that is mentally delayed.

Stymie said:

Adisa said:

The OP is LOADED with irony. But like others have stated on this thread the strip clubs, IMO, are lame a hell. That's why I only go to private parties to watch strippers.

i went to a private party and the guys paid for all my lap dances.

Yes, they wanted to watch the simulated makeout between two women. I'd pay for that also.

thread back on track:

wooohh party!!!

Adisa said:

If you truly don't understand why men and women of any age want to go to strip clubs then perhaps, just maybe, it is YOU that is mentally delayed.

If you believe there "should" be a myopic view of sexuality, and that everyone "should" be gravitating to that view at the same pace as well, then for certain, it is YOU that is mentally delayed.

First of all I didn't say I didn't understand why men want to go to a sex club. That is a cliche discussion. I wanted a discussion about the evolution of the sexual mind. But clearly with all you degenerates high fiving each other and thinking the thread is "backwards" I am discussing this in the wrong place.

Maybe all of you can plan a big Org strip club party and drown in cum and dollar bills.

Myopic view of sexuaity? You clearly don't know me as my views on sex are quite broad and risque. Again, dumb as hell respnse. I presented a view on the evolution of the mind as it relates to sex and I want to discuss that.I did NOT present a view on what the range of sexuality should be so this comment doesn't make since.

I never said everyone should gravitate to the same place. I asked for insight from others. What in hell is wrong with you people's logic? Pity you think it's fun to joke that refinement/progression is "mentally delayed" and gutter expectations at a basic, stagnant level over decades is not. #Senseless #Sad.

Stymie

If that makes me sexually immature so be it. Judging people on it is pretty jacked in my opinion.

Et tu, Brute? I sought other views while giving my own.

LOL at people passing judgement while calling this thread judgemental.

People judge in life. It's pretty standard... as your comment clearly shows.

JoeTyler said:

thread back on track:

wooohh party!!!

Well, I see that video, but I raise this this one.

No thrown dollars or skanky behavior. The art of the strip tease.....with everyone's dignity in tact:

[Edited 10/6/12 17:38pm]

Timmy84 said:

Some women in their 30s and 40s go to strip clubs to see guys so I don't get the double standard. Maybe people just enjoy going there.

To answer, I don't know if it's "mental delays" or what, like Col Angus said, there's other places men can hang out, if you go there all the time, you stand a chance of being bored with it.

[Edited 10/6/12 11:23am]

Truth. I'm not condoning it but what's the difference between guys going to strip clubs

at this age vs going to a regular club to party. The truth is a lot of times it's not even

about checking the stripper as much as it is to reel in the chicks that are going there

to check out the guys that are there and the party atmosphere that is already there.

damn, strip clubs and 00s crap music don't mix!!

the strip clubs of the 90s and 00s are less menacing/creepy/dark than they were back in the day (70s/80s); now they have that "welcome everybody, let's have some fun" vibe, not the unhealthy, depressing vibe of the Nixon era, lol

JerseyKRS said:LMFAO

some of you orgers think you just have it ALL figured out, don't you?

I'm 38 and go to strip clubs. You know why?

Because I like naked women. End of the story.

Thank you! I like them too and I'm 51. Don't see what the big deal is.

SynthiaRose said:

Wow. These responses are absolutely astounding.

The question sought insight on how at 35, 40 or 50, one has the same sexual mentality they had at 20.

But clearly no one thinks about sexual mentality, because most people are falling back on cliche answers like the thread simply asked "why do men go to strip clubs."

Well, one person did say sex and refiniement didn't go together , so I guess they don't think the sex mind evolves or refines. LOL!! and that is the most pathetic, scary thing ever. But America is the land of depraved sexuality, right? So good times!

Don't know why I expected more. Thanks for the stimulating convo! Not.

[Edited 10/6/12 13:49pm]

I'm absolutely astounded that you're absolutely astounded at our responses...

phunkdaddy said:

Timmy84 said:

Some women in their 30s and 40s go to strip clubs to see guys so I don't get the double standard. Maybe people just enjoy going there.

To answer, I don't know if it's "mental delays" or what, like Col Angus said, there's other places men can hang out, if you go there all the time, you stand a chance of being bored with it.

[Edited 10/6/12 11:23am]

Truth. I'm not condoning it but what's the difference between guys going to strip clubs

at this age vs going to a regular club to party. The truth is a lot of times it's not even

about checking the stripper as much as it is to reel in the chicks that are going there

to check out the guys that are there and the party atmosphere that is already there.

That's pretty much it in a nutshell...

SynthiaRose said:

By the way, I also took the original post that the OP thinks men are retarded because they go to strip clubs.

I couldn't give a shit about going to a strip club if I tried. I'm not paying $ to watch some random chicks dance. Nah, fuck that.

You can't start a thread off with narrow-minded, opinionated, derogatory acusations and expect "meaningful discourse".

I went to my "first" strip club last year. (I'm 41)

It was a dump. The stripper giving me a "show" had only one good titty (I am not joking).

The next one I went to was nicer, and the girls were hotter (by a factor of 10). But it was MAD expensive.

In both cases, there was not alot of toplessness. Some, but not alot.

Yet in both cases, I felt like a million dollars. Having half-naked hot (and not-so-hot) girls all over you, telling you what you want to hear, it's entoxicating.

In neither case (not even the dump) did anyone "throw" money at anyone. I placed some dollar bills in areas that ordinarily would get me slapped, stabbed or arrested...but all with their encouragement.

This type of attention (and the tits & ass everywhere) doesn't become less tantalizing with age. In fact, with the shit that life throws at you as you get older, it becomes MORE attractive.

I haven't gone since last October. If I get the opportunity to go, then i will. If not, then fine.

Like it's been said, NOT A BIG DEAL.

vainandy said:

noimageatall said:

Andy I swear you need to write a book.

"Confessions of a Whore"

Interview with a Nawlins Hooka?

RenHoek said:

vainandy said:

"Confessions of a Whore"

Interview with a Nawlins Hooka?

The Ho of Mississippi.

SynthiaRose said:

Adisa said:

If you truly don't understand why men and women of any age want to go to strip clubs then perhaps, just maybe, it is YOU that is mentally delayed.

If you believe there "should" be a myopic view of sexuality, and that everyone "should" be gravitating to that view at the same pace as well, then for certain, it is YOU that is mentally delayed.

First of all I didn't say I didn't understand why men want to go to a sex club. That is a cliche discussion. I wanted a discussion about the evolution of the sexual mind. But clearly with all you degenerates high fiving each other and thinking the thread is "backwards" I am discussing this in the wrong place.

Maybe all of you can plan a big Org strip club party and drown in cum and dollar bills.

Myopic view of sexuaity? You clearly don't know me as my views on sex are quite broad and risque. Again, dumb as hell respnse. I presented a view on the evolution of the mind as it relates to sex and I want to discuss that.I did NOT present a view on what the range of sexuality should be so this comment doesn't make since.

I never said everyone should gravitate to the same place. I asked for insight from others. What in hell is wrong with you people's logic? Pity you think it's fun to joke that refinement/progression is "mentally delayed" and gutter expectations at a basic, stagnant level over decades is not. #Senseless #Sad.

Stymie

If that makes me sexually immature so be it. Judging people on it is pretty jacked in my opinion.

Et tu, Brute? I sought other views while giving my own.

LOL at people passing judgement while calling this thread judgemental.

People judge in life. It's pretty standard... as your comment clearly shows.

It's okay, Honey Boo Boo. We all own a copy of the Sign 'O the Times lp. We understand you here.