JustErin said:

If it's a family member, they probably mean it...everyone else, they just want to fuck you.

It's true, however, it doesn't necessarily mean they will actually TRY to fuck you. They may settle for the cried on shoulder and the conversation. But in their mind, yeah...

whistle said:

It is possible for men to take a non-sexual interest in women's lives.

Most hetrosexual men... if they are using that line.

I think not.

JustErin said:

sexton said:

You forgot to include fatties and ugos.

No way, those get fucked too....just on the down low!

Are blood relatives really the only exceptions? How about if the female friend is disabled in some way--blind or deaf or an amputee?

sexton said:

JustErin said:

No way, those get fucked too....just on the down low!

Are blood relatives really the only exceptions? How about if the female friend is disabled in some way--blind or deaf or an amputee?

"As long as the bros don't know....it's a go."

sexton said:

JustErin said:

No way, those get fucked too....just on the down low!

Are blood relatives really the only exceptions? How about if the female friend is disabled in some way--blind or deaf or an amputee?

PunkMistress said:

sexton said:

Are blood relatives really the only exceptions? How about if the female friend is disabled in some way--blind or deaf or an amputee?

Exactly my reaction when I opened this thread.

sexton said:

PunkMistress said:

Exactly my reaction when I opened this thread.

But why?

whistle said:

It is possible for men to take a non-sexual interest in women's lives.

Yes, but they'd still love to fuck them

JustErin said:

whistle said:

It is possible for men to take a non-sexual interest in women's lives.

Of course! Mothers, daughters, sisters, aunts, cousins, nieces, grand-daughters, grandmothers!

JustErin said:

sexton said:

Exactly my reaction when I opened this thread.

But why?

We've been joking about it so I accept the stereoptype, but it's always disheartening at first to hear that women think all men want to get in their pants.

sexton said:

JustErin said:

But why?

We've been joking about it so I accept the stereoptype, but it's always disheartening at first to hear that women think all men want to get in their pants.

I didn't see any woman in this thread say that all men want to get in their pants.

What was said was that most women feel that most men that would use a line like this, or want to be a really close, cry on your shoulder type of friend are really just looking to hook up at some point.

JustErin said:

sexton said:

We've been joking about it so I accept the stereoptype, but it's always disheartening at first to hear that women think all men want to get in their pants.

I didn't see any woman in this thread say that all men want to get in their pants.

What was said was that most women feel that most men that would use a line like this, or want to be a really close, cry on your shoulder type of friend are really just looking to hook up at some point.

I was speaking within that context.

ThisOne said:

"If u ever need anyone talk 2 or a shoulder to cry on I'm your man" R they really saying..... "tell me your probs and then I'll shag u!" R they?

So then...I guess you really want to just "talk" huh?

sexton said:

JustErin said:

I didn't see any woman in this thread say that all men want to get in their pants.

What was said was that most women feel that most men that would use a line like this, or want to be a really close, cry on your shoulder type of friend are really just looking to hook up at some point.

I was speaking within that context.

Oh, I see.

Well, if it's disheartening because you feel it doesn't apply to you..don't be disheartened, you're the exception that was also talked about!

whistle said:

It is possible for men to take a non-sexual interest in women's lives.

Nothinbutjoy said:In my experience, a vast majority of men don't want to hear about your problems whether they want to shag you or not.

That's true in my case. I don't want to hear drama - you got a problem, stop wasting time yappin' about it. Get the shit solved. That goes for men as well as women.

sexton said:

PunkMistress said:

Exactly my reaction when I opened this thread.

I have a confession. I hate, hate HATE threads that ask questions like "what does a guy mean when he says X?" or "does a kiss on the cheek mean he expects double penetration on the third date?"

It's so bizarre to think that all men or all women or all people share the same motivations, personalities, practically the same mind! One would have to make a presumption like this to even ask such a generalized question about such a specific (and, let's face it, often utterly meaningless) behavior or phrase!

It bottles the mind.

P.S. ThisOne, I hope you don't take the above rant personally. I'm speaking about a pet peeve that I've held for a long time. In your case, I know that you create threads for fun and I'm not taking this one too seriously.

PunkMistress said:

"does a kiss on the cheek mean he expects double penetration on the third date?"

A kiss on BOTH cheeks means double penetration.

ZombieKitten said:

whistle said:

It is possible for men to take a non-sexual interest in women's lives.

That's only if they aren't hot or you are married to them

ThisOne said:

"If u ever need anyone talk 2 or a shoulder to cry on I'm your man" R they really saying..... "tell me your probs and then I'll shag u!" R they?

Eh......I'm thinking that guy may want to bone you......eventually.

whistle said:

ZombieKitten said:

That's only if they aren't hot or you are married to them

I have a non-sexual interest in your life, ZK.

ThisOne said:

ZombieKitten said:

whistle said:

I have a non-sexual interest in your life, ZK.

and you're not even married to me!!!! you're calling me ugly aren't you

PunkMistress said:

P.S. ThisOne, I hope you don't take the above rant personally. I'm speaking about a pet peeve that I've held for a long time. In your case, I know that you create threads for fun and I'm not taking this one too seriously.

this one is a real thread

i just dont get why a man would think a good time to grab titt is when a woman is confiding in him, crying and at a very low point in her life..... what's wrong with men and their timing??????????????

cant they just stop thinking about sex 4 just five minutes and b a real friend????

but yeas u r right this thread kind of sux

ThisOne said:

PunkMistress said:

P.S. ThisOne, I hope you don't take the above rant personally. I'm speaking about a pet peeve that I've held for a long time. In your case, I know that you create threads for fun and I'm not taking this one too seriously.

this one is a real thread

i just dont get why a man would think a good time to grab titt is when a woman is confiding in him, crying and at a very low point in her life..... what's wrong with men and their timing??????????????

cant they just stop thinking about sex 4 just five minutes and b a real friend????

but yeas u r right this thread kind of sux

Honestly, people really are a lot more alike than most people would like to admit. People hate stereotypes like this but most (yes, not all) are not just pulled out of thin air. Sometimes there really is some validity to a stereotype.

I think asking a question like this going on the presumption that people really are more or less alike (with some exceptions) is totally reasonable.

Horny thread this.

ThisOne said:

PunkMistress said:

P.S. ThisOne, I hope you don't take the above rant personally. I'm speaking about a pet peeve that I've held for a long time. In your case, I know that you create threads for fun and I'm not taking this one too seriously.

this one is a real thread

i just dont get why a man would think a good time to grab titt is when a woman is confiding in him, crying and at a very low point in her life..... what's wrong with men and their timing??????????????

cant they just stop thinking about sex 4 just five minutes and b a real friend????

but yeas u r right this thread kind of sux

If he was my friend I would really want him to fuck me 'til I passed out. That would make me forget about all my troubles and help me release seratonin and endorphins that would make my body feel better. The ONLY reason I would confide in a guy would be because I did want him to fuck me, shit... that's why I am not friends with chicken chested, scrawny looking, smelly toothless, ugly men. This is why most friends of the opposite sex have "fuck potential". If he's not fuckable, I stay clear of him when I am feeling down. Give me the cute guy I can kick out after he cranks me out a good one. That's what friends are for!

Emotionally, no one can fix you but yourself anyways... don't need a friend for that, just some faith in yourself.

But hey.... maybe that's just me.

he totally wants to make it all better & how better than to shag like trains. as long has he's half decent, take advantage while he's vulnerable

paintedlady said:

ThisOne said:

this one is a real thread

i just dont get why a man would think a good time to grab titt is when a woman is confiding in him, crying and at a very low point in her life..... what's wrong with men and their timing??????????????

cant they just stop thinking about sex 4 just five minutes and b a real friend????

but yeas u r right this thread kind of sux

If he was my friend I would really want him to fuck me 'til I passed out. That would make me forget about all my troubles and help me release seratonin and endorphins that would make my body feel better. The ONLY reason I would confide in a guy would be because I did want him to fuck me, shit... that's why I am not friends with chicken chested, scrawny looking, smelly toothless, ugly men. This is why most friends of the opposite sex have "fuck potential". If he's not fuckable, I stay clear of him when I am feeling down. Give me the cute guy I can kick out after he cranks me out a good one. That's what friends are for!

Emotionally, no one can fix you but yourself anyways... don't need a friend for that, just some faith in yourself.

But hey.... maybe that's just me.

yep that's you, that's what I like about cha.