dJJ said:

I am not sure if understand the discussion.

Ho is short for whore, right?

And a whore is a woman or man who delivers sex for (little) money, right?

And Kardashian girls make their own money, don't they? They don't need to sleep with some guy to make money, now do they?

I think my neighbour married (ugly, fat, loud and has moneY) with a young girl (she had to go back to Suriname after her study) and they got a beautiful baby, because she saw an opportunity to have a decent life. She has a decent husband, not pretty, but one who provides for her, is nice, reasonable and who provides her with the opportunity to build up a life for herself. I don't call that a ho, I call than realistic and sensible.

I don't understand the hatred to women by man.

I think in the author's case... she is describing 'ho' as a lover/mistress or bed buddy....

a woman who is in an open relationship with a man who has commitments elsewhere.

That a women should 'understand her role' and not impose on the wife at home or try to tear up the family unit that the man established before meeting said 'ho'.

That 'hos' stalk husbands because want MORE out of the established extra-maritial affair... knowing full well what they signed up for.

I think it is not a standard prostitute thing but more of a mistress role.

Then I do not understand what the author means by 'bitch' or 'boo' exactly....

vainandy said:

A good whore does not want to break the man's marriage up. If anything, she's going to make sure that wife doesn't find out about her because she doesn't want the wife out of the picture. A good whore gets that dick and that money and then sends the motherfucker home for the wife to put up with his bullshit. Being a whore is like being an aunt or uncle. You can always send the motherfuckers home when they start showing their ass. No honey, keep that stupid wife around and keep her ass happy.

Andy breaks it down as usual...

dJJ said:

I am not sure if understand the discussion.

Ho is short for whore, right?

Yup.

And a whore is a woman or man who delivers sex for (little) money, right?

Not necessarily...some actually make a great deal of money or gain other goods and services for their efforts.

And Kardashian girls make their own money, don't they? They don't need to sleep with some guy to make money, now do they?

Highly debatable considering some of their past actions or did you not know about the sex tape and sham marriages, etc.?

I think my neighbour married (ugly, fat, loud and has moneY) with a young girl (she had to go back to Suriname after her study) and they got a beautiful baby, because she saw an opportunity to have a decent life. She has a decent husband, not pretty, but one who provides for her, is nice, reasonable and who provides her with the opportunity to build up a life for herself. I don't call that a ho, I call than realistic and sensible.

As Paintedlady said, it's a book about the mistress who tries to gain more from a liason than she is entitiled to by using destructive tactics to disrupt her lover's primary relationship.

I don't understand the hatred to women by man.

paintedlady said:

dJJ said:

I am not sure if understand the discussion.

Ho is short for whore, right?

And a whore is a woman or man who delivers sex for (little) money, right?

And Kardashian girls make their own money, don't they? They don't need to sleep with some guy to make money, now do they?

I think my neighbour married (ugly, fat, loud and has moneY) with a young girl (she had to go back to Suriname after her study) and they got a beautiful baby, because she saw an opportunity to have a decent life. She has a decent husband, not pretty, but one who provides for her, is nice, reasonable and who provides her with the opportunity to build up a life for herself. I don't call that a ho, I call than realistic and sensible.

I don't understand the hatred to women by man.

I think in the author's case... she is describing 'ho' as a lover/mistress or bed buddy....

a woman who is in an open relationship with a man who has commitments elsewhere.

That a women should 'understand her role' and not impose on the wife at home or try to tear up the family unit that the man established before meeting said 'ho'.

That 'hos' stalk husbands because want MORE out of the established extra-maritial affair... knowing full well what they signed up for.

I think it is not a standard prostitute thing but more of a mistress role.

Then I do not understand what the author means by 'bitch' or 'boo' exactly....

I'm curious about that myself. She seems to be using controversy and humor to make her points. It's supposedly based on real life conversations and encounters though.

vainandy said:

babynoz said:

vainandy said:

A good whore does not want to break the man's marriage up. If anything, she's going to make sure that wife doesn't find out about her because she doesn't want the wife out of the picture. A good whore gets that dick and that money and then sends the motherfucker home for the wife to put up with his bullshit. Being a whore is like being an aunt or uncle. You can always send the motherfuckers home when they start showing their ass. No honey, keep that stupid wife around and keep her ass happy.

Andy breaks it down as usual...

yup

babynoz said:

Thanks freeda...at first I was taken aback by the title but it seems like a tongue in cheek thing.

It's only ten bucks so I may check it out...it looks amusing.

forgot to key in "your welcome." the book seems very interesting. i'm on the def to buy it asap.

paintedlady said:

dJJ said:

I am not sure if understand the discussion.

Ho is short for whore, right?

And a whore is a woman or man who delivers sex for (little) money, right?

And Kardashian girls make their own money, don't they? They don't need to sleep with some guy to make money, now do they?

I think my neighbour married (ugly, fat, loud and has moneY) with a young girl (she had to go back to Suriname after her study) and they got a beautiful baby, because she saw an opportunity to have a decent life. She has a decent husband, not pretty, but one who provides for her, is nice, reasonable and who provides her with the opportunity to build up a life for herself. I don't call that a ho, I call than realistic and sensible.

I don't understand the hatred to women by man.

I think in the author's case... she is describing 'ho' as a lover/mistress or bed buddy....

a woman who is in an open relationship with a man who has commitments elsewhere.

That a women should 'understand her role' and not impose on the wife at home or try to tear up the family unit that the man established before meeting said 'ho'.

That 'hos' stalk husbands because want MORE out of the established extra-maritial affair... knowing full well what they signed up for.

I think it is not a standard prostitute thing but more of a mistress role.

Then I do not understand what the author means by 'bitch' or 'boo' exactly....

Affirmative.

Now that bitch/boo thing; I'm just starting from to catch onto that from reading urban internet tabloids. They're just represent notch levels on the relationship belt. Boo being a little sweeter, and one step closer to nbeing "wifey" (the LTR woman), and bitch being a ride or die Bonnie to the man's metaphorical Clyde. Use Joceline Hernandez from Love & Hop as the archtype for the latter

Ottensen said:

paintedlady said:

I think in the author's case... she is describing 'ho' as a lover/mistress or bed buddy....

a woman who is in an open relationship with a man who has commitments elsewhere.

That a women should 'understand her role' and not impose on the wife at home or try to tear up the family unit that the man established before meeting said 'ho'.

That 'hos' stalk husbands because want MORE out of the established extra-maritial affair... knowing full well what they signed up for.

I think it is not a standard prostitute thing but more of a mistress role.

Then I do not understand what the author means by 'bitch' or 'boo' exactly....

Affirmative.

Now that bitch/boo thing; I'm just starting from to catch onto that from reading urban internet tabloids. They're just represent notch levels on the relationship belt. Boo being a little sweeter, and one step closer to nbeing "wifey" (the LTR woman), and bitch being a ride or die Bonnie to the man's metaphorical Clyde. Use Joceline Hernandez from Love & Hop as the archtype for the latter

Now why did that explanation of the bitch/boo thing just make me feel so old and out of touch?

"PIMPS UP, WHOES DOWN.

SQUARES DON'T WANNA THINK 'BOUT FUCKIN ARROUN.

I'M JUST HERE TO RESS, DRESS, AND FINNESS.

YOU SEE ME AND KNOW I'M THE MAN

WHUT THE FUCK WAS YO FIRST GUESS.

SEE. THESE WHOES JUST SELL PUSSY FOR ME.

YOU AND HER AIN'T THE TWO, WE AIN'T THE THREE

AND MOST OF ALL TRICK, I AIN'T THE ONE

NOW BACK THE FUCK UP OFF ME SON!!!"

real pimps do real thangs

when you hear it and like it,

you better work it into yo repitwahh (fuck you if you know how to spell it )

KingBAD said:

"PIMPS UP, WHOES DOWN.

SQUARES DON'T WANNA THINK 'BOUT FUCKIN ARROUN.

I'M JUST HERE TO RESS, DRESS, AND FINNESS.

YOU SEE ME AND KNOW I'M THE MAN

WHUT THE FUCK WAS YO FIRST GUESS.

SEE. THESE WHOES JUST SELL PUSSY FOR ME.

YOU AND HER AIN'T THE TWO, WE AIN'T THE THREE

AND MOST OF ALL TRICK, I AIN'T THE ONE

NOW BACK THE FUCK UP OFF ME SON!!!"

real pimps do real thangs

when you hear it and like it,

you better work it into yo repitwahh (fuck you if you know how to spell it )

LMAO!!!!!!

Even Monica knows a Ho's place

Ottensen said:

paintedlady said:

I think in the author's case... she is describing 'ho' as a lover/mistress or bed buddy....

a woman who is in an open relationship with a man who has commitments elsewhere.

That a women should 'understand her role' and not impose on the wife at home or try to tear up the family unit that the man established before meeting said 'ho'.

That 'hos' stalk husbands because want MORE out of the established extra-maritial affair... knowing full well what they signed up for.

I think it is not a standard prostitute thing but more of a mistress role.

Then I do not understand what the author means by 'bitch' or 'boo' exactly....

Affirmative.

Now that bitch/boo thing; I'm just starting from to catch onto that from reading urban internet tabloids. They're just represent notch levels on the relationship belt. Boo being a little sweeter, and one step closer to nbeing "wifey" (the LTR woman), and bitch being a ride or die Bonnie to the man's metaphorical Clyde. Use Joceline Hernandez from Love & Hop as the archtype for the latter

Dayum...Ottie be droppin' da knowledge!

babynoz said:

Ottensen said:

Affirmative.

Now that bitch/boo thing; I'm just starting from to catch onto that from reading urban internet tabloids. They're just represent notch levels on the relationship belt. Boo being a little sweeter, and one step closer to nbeing "wifey" (the LTR woman), and bitch being a ride or die Bonnie to the man's metaphorical Clyde. Use Joceline Hernandez from Love & Hop as the archtype for the latter

Dayum...Ottie be droppin' da knowledge!

Yes she sure does!

BlackCandle said:

http://www.youtube.com/wa...WPn250wAB0 I love them Hoes!

couldn't resist it! st it!

babynoz said:

dJJ said:

I am not sure if understand the discussion.

Ho is short for whore, right?

Yup.

And a whore is a woman or man who delivers sex for (little) money, right?

Not necessarily...some actually make a great deal of money or gain other goods and services for their efforts.

And Kardashian girls make their own money, don't they? They don't need to sleep with some guy to make money, now do they?

Highly debatable considering some of their past actions or did you not know about the sex tape and sham marriages, etc.?

I think my neighbour married (ugly, fat, loud and has moneY) with a young girl (she had to go back to Suriname after her study) and they got a beautiful baby, because she saw an opportunity to have a decent life. She has a decent husband, not pretty, but one who provides for her, is nice, reasonable and who provides her with the opportunity to build up a life for herself. I don't call that a ho, I call than realistic and sensible.

As Paintedlady said, it's a book about the mistress who tries to gain more from a liason than she is entitiled to by using destructive tactics to disrupt her lover's primary relationship.

I don't understand the hatred to women by man.

Weird phenomenon.

I mean, if one wants sex outside of marriage, there are brothels, right?

Those girls can actually do something with the money they earn. They can save up and invest it something. Build some capital for themselves.

A mistress gets what? Clothes and parfume? She can't build independance on that.

Now watch Tyler Perry follow suit, and come up with something like "Diary Of A Mad Ho"

free2bfreeda said:

BlackCandle said:

http://www.youtube.com/wa...WPn250wAB0 I love them Hoes!

couldn't resist it! st it!

Ho cake?

dJJ said:

babynoz said:

Weird phenomenon.

I mean, if one wants sex outside of marriage, there are brothels, right?

Those girls can actually do something with the money they earn. They can save up and invest it something. Build some capital for themselves.

A mistress gets what? Clothes and parfume? She can't build independance on that.

I know a few women getting their rents paid, furishings and cars bought over their mistress roles.

Depends on the guy.... I had an offer like that myself but the guy was gross... no teefuses. :skincrawl:

paintedlady said:

dJJ said:

Weird phenomenon.

I mean, if one wants sex outside of marriage, there are brothels, right?

Those girls can actually do something with the money they earn. They can save up and invest it something. Build some capital for themselves.

A mistress gets what? Clothes and parfume? She can't build independance on that.

I know a few women getting their rents paid, furishings and cars bought over their mistress roles.

Depends on the guy.... I had an offer like that myself but the guy was gross... no teefuses. :skincrawl:

all about that rent

dJJ said:

babynoz said:

Weird phenomenon.

I mean, if one wants sex outside of marriage, there are brothels, right?

Those girls can actually do something with the money they earn. They can save up and invest it something. Build some capital for themselves.

A mistress gets what? Clothes and parfume? She can't build independance on that.

Just like any other situation, some playgirls are smarter than others....the smart ones make money and the dumb ones just make trouble,

babynoz said:

dJJ said:

Weird phenomenon.

I mean, if one wants sex outside of marriage, there are brothels, right?

Those girls can actually do something with the money they earn. They can save up and invest it something. Build some capital for themselves.

A mistress gets what? Clothes and parfume? She can't build independance on that.

Just like any other situation, some playgirls are smarter than others....the smart ones make money and the dumb ones just make trouble,

The smart girls make money and keep that to themselves. They don't use their money to 'buy' love from some guy.

The smart girls make themselves happy. Smart girls don't expect that some random guy or the guy they married, will make them happy

dJJ said:

babynoz said:

Just like any other situation, some playgirls are smarter than others....the smart ones make money and the dumb ones just make trouble,

The smart girls make money and keep that to themselves. They don't use their money to 'buy' love from some guy.

The smart girls make themselves happy. Smart girls don't expect that some random guy or the guy they married, will make them happy

" yo, this SLIM.

that whoe cindy all outta pocket and up in a pimp's bizzness.

i got that ass under PIMP ARREST. she got the right to fuck wit

a suckah but she choose to fuck wit a PIMP and cain't nare one

of y'all git her from up undah this shit. KIDNAPPED??? the whoe come wit

choosin fees. SHE AIN'T RUNNIN FROM THE PIMPIN... SHE RUNNIN TO IT!!!

the bitch mine, whutz her's is mine, AND she gonna mind. SO the next time

you see that whoe in traffic REMEMBER, she UNDER NEW MANAGEMENT!!!

but don't sweat that shit nigga, YOU JUST LOST YO BITCH TO A REAL PIMP...

YOU KOW???"

KingBAD said:

dJJ said:

The smart girls make money and keep that to themselves. They don't use their money to 'buy' love from some guy.

The smart girls make themselves happy. Smart girls don't expect that some random guy or the guy they married, will make them happy

" yo, this SLIM.

that whoe cindy all outta pocket and up in a pimp's bizzness.

i got that ass under PIMP ARREST. she got the right to fuck wit

a suckah but she choose to fuck wit a PIMP and cain't nare one

of y'all git her from up undah this shit. KIDNAPPED??? the whoe come wit

choosin fees. SHE AIN'T RUNNIN FROM THE PIMPIN... SHE RUNNIN TO IT!!!

the bitch mine, whutz her's is mine, AND she gonna mind. SO the next time

you see that whoe in traffic REMEMBER, she UNDER NEW MANAGEMENT!!!

but don't sweat that shit nigga, YOU JUST LOST YO BITCH TO A REAL PIMP...

YOU KOW???"

Sometimes I really, really, really, truly don't like you!

dJJ said:

KingBAD said:

" yo, this SLIM.

that whoe cindy all outta pocket and up in a pimp's bizzness.

i got that ass under PIMP ARREST. she got the right to fuck wit

a suckah but she choose to fuck wit a PIMP and cain't nare one

of y'all git her from up undah this shit. KIDNAPPED??? the whoe come wit

choosin fees. SHE AIN'T RUNNIN FROM THE PIMPIN... SHE RUNNIN TO IT!!!

the bitch mine, whutz her's is mine, AND she gonna mind. SO the next time

you see that whoe in traffic REMEMBER, she UNDER NEW MANAGEMENT!!!

but don't sweat that shit nigga, YOU JUST LOST YO BITCH TO A REAL PIMP...

YOU KOW???"

Sometimes I really, really, really, truly don't like you!

NOW,i just report the news, i don't make it

dJJ said:

babynoz said:

Just like any other situation, some playgirls are smarter than others....the smart ones make money and the dumb ones just make trouble,

The smart girls make money and keep that to themselves. They don't use their money to 'buy' love from some guy.

The smart girls make themselves happy. Smart girls don't expect that some random guy or the guy they married, will make them happy

Yeah, I was once young and dumb, but betcha I won't try that mess no more

KingBAD said:

dJJ said:

Sometimes I really, really, really, truly don't like you!

NOW,i just report the news, i don't make it

You're something else So your pimp name was SLIM?

paintedlady said:

dJJ said:

Weird phenomenon.

I mean, if one wants sex outside of marriage, there are brothels, right?

Those girls can actually do something with the money they earn. They can save up and invest it something. Build some capital for themselves.

A mistress gets what? Clothes and parfume? She can't build independance on that.

I know a few women getting their rents paid, furishings and cars bought over their mistress roles.

Depends on the guy.... I had an offer like that myself but the guy was gross... no teefuses. :skincrawl:

Where I used to work ( for law enforcement), there used to be a lot of that mess going on. They have one of the highest divorce rate.

I don't know how it happened but after reading this thread I ended up reading about some of history's most famous courteseans (hoes) and now I'm all caught up into the intrigue of it. I think I was looking for the word that the French used like in that movie GiGi, and the rules involved in those arrangements. This ain't nothing new and there have always been rules.