Spinlight said:

nursev said:

aww Spin be nice

That's just a reality, especially so in the gay world. Some men simply don't want the investment and they get even more discouraged when the other person is aggressive. Sitting around trying to get into someone's mind is useless. If he was really that into you, you wouldn't have to ask.

Damn...it sounds harsh, but u have a point.

Terrib3Towel said:

Well, this makes the third time I've been dissed.

Oh well. You win some you lose some.

You aren't "being dissed". You assumed something was going on when it CLEARLY wasn't. I mean, do you even know if the guy is gay? Because how would expect a straight guy to respond? Ya know?

And I'm really, REALLY not trying to be mean to you at all, but you can actually sense how uptight you're being about this online. I can't imagine what it's like in the "real world". Don't be desperate! You're too young to be actin' like it's your last chance! I'm sure there are plenty of people out there who WILL BE interested in you. One to the next one.

dizzidecazz said:

I think you should stay up late at night going through all of the photos of him on facebook thinking about how you can make him want you. Make sure you go through all of his photo albums because people often don't tag themselves in thier own photos. lol. It's also a good idea to check all his friends photos who haven't made them private for untagged photos of him too. That's often where you'll find the hot photos from a holiday he took a year or two ago. That way you can find out more about him and realise you have soooo much incommon. lol. Also, try to find out where he lives so you can keep an eye on his house to see what time he comes and goes, and even more importantly, who he's coming and going with. lol.

Alternatively, you could suck it up and move on and hopefully avoid some jail time. lol.

Like I said, maybe he just wanna be friends. I mean chances are if he wanted you, he'd let you know. Just saying. Chalk it up to experience and move on...

dizzidecazz said:

I think you should stay up late at night going through all of the photos of him on facebook thinking about how you can make him want you. Make sure you go through all of his photo albums because people often don't tag themselves in thier own photos. lol. It's also a good idea to check all his friends photos who haven't made them private for untagged photos of him too. That's often where you'll find the hot photos from a holiday he took a year or two ago. That way you can find out more about him and realise you have soooo much incommon. lol. Also, try to find out where he lives so you can keep an eye on his house to see what time he comes and goes, and even more importantly, who he's coming and going with. lol.

Alternatively, you could suck it up and move on and hopefully avoid some jail time. lol.

What the fuck. I certainly hope this is meant to be a sarcastic comment.

Please tell us what happened monday?

We all live vicariously through the orgers who do have a life!

How did he act? Were you cool?

dJJ said:

Please tell us what happened monday?

We all live vicariously through the orgers who do have a life!

How did he act? Were you cool?

He did give an update. See post #78.

Terrib3Towel said:

Ok so in class today we acted natural, I didn't bring anything up and we talked casually.

Should I be like, "did you get my text?"

Yep, he's definitely not interested. On to the next one...

missfee said:

dJJ said:

Please tell us what happened monday?

We all live vicariously through the orgers who do have a life!

How did he act? Were you cool?

He did give an update. See post #78.

Ooops.

@Terrib3Towel: You did great! Especially the casual talk. Hope you feel good about how you handled it. Maybe next time you will first find out if he's good enough for you. In stead of chasing somebody you don't really know as if he is your saviour. Your to nice for that.

Will you keep us posted? I def need the gossip.

Dave1992 said:

dizzidecazz said:

I think you should stay up late at night going through all of the photos of him on facebook thinking about how you can make him want you. Make sure you go through all of his photo albums because people often don't tag themselves in thier own photos. lol. It's also a good idea to check all his friends photos who haven't made them private for untagged photos of him too. That's often where you'll find the hot photos from a holiday he took a year or two ago. That way you can find out more about him and realise you have soooo much incommon. lol. Also, try to find out where he lives so you can keep an eye on his house to see what time he comes and goes, and even more importantly, who he's coming and going with. lol.

Alternatively, you could suck it up and move on and hopefully avoid some jail time. lol.

What the fuck. I certainly hope this is meant to be a sarcastic comment.

Hahaha gotta love the sarcasm

GoldDolphin said:

Dave1992 said:

What the fuck. I certainly hope this is meant to be a sarcastic comment.

Hahaha gotta love the sarcasm

I didn't know what to think about the comment. It could've been sarcastic but the way he wrote it it's almost like "wait a minute..." Yeah I hope that was sarcastic on his part.

Terrib3Towel said:

I'm a GUY and I'm in college. My friend told me it happens sometimes and that I should stop thinking about him. Which is easier said than done lol.

Have you ever got it through your head that he is maybe straight and is not interested?

He's not interested, move on.

Timmy84 said:

GoldDolphin said:

Hahaha gotta love the sarcasm

I didn't know what to think about the comment. It could've been sarcastic but the way he wrote it it's almost like "wait a minute..." Yeah I hope that was sarcastic on his part.

@Timmy & Dave: Are you two being sarcastic by doubting it is meant as sarcastic?

dJJ said:

Timmy84 said:

I didn't know what to think about the comment. It could've been sarcastic but the way he wrote it it's almost like "wait a minute..." Yeah I hope that was sarcastic on his part.

@Timmy & Dave: Are you two being sarcastic by doubting it is meant as sarcastic?

Nah I just want dude to confirm he was joking. I don't know with some folks...

Timmy84 said:

Nah I just want dude to confirm he was joking. I don't know with some folks...

Now that there's doubt about whether I use sarcasm or not, there's no point in me clarifying because my answer could be read as sarcasm... or not. Sorry, but you're just going to have to work it out yourself. Here's a hint though, the answer lies within the message itself.

dizzidecazz said:

Timmy84 said:

Nah I just want dude to confirm he was joking. I don't know with some folks...

Now that there's doubt about whether I use sarcasm or not, there's no point in me clarifying because my answer could be read as sarcasm... or not. Sorry, but you're just going to have to work it out yourself. Here's a hint though, the answer lies within the message itself.

Dude, you're giving ME a headache. But hey go for what you know.

Are yall still here?

I have my sights set on somebody new.

Terrib3Towel said:

Are yall still here?

I have my sights set on somebody new.

Is the new guy texting you?

I haven't approached said person yet..I'm slowly working up enough confidence lol.

Terrib3Towel said:

Are yall still here?

I have my sights set on somebody new.

Yep, we're here. So tell us about this new guy ?

Terrib3Towel said:

I haven't approached said person yet..I'm slowly working up enough confidence lol.

Why do you like him?

What traits do you feel attracted to?

What values, hobbies, taste, background etcetera do you share?

Why would you want to invest your time in him instead of investing your time in yourself and create a life for yourself that makes you happy?

Terrib3Towel said:

I haven't approached said person yet..I'm slowly working up enough confidence lol.

I don't know. Maybe you need to work on yourself before working up to another dead end...

I don't really want a long-term relationship, just someone that I can have with. Ya know?