Terrib3Towel said:

nursev said:

So... no text

Nope..

I'm so over this bastard.

Im being nosey...did u go there with him? if u dont wanna answer its cool

Lol.

Hell to the no!!

Terrib3Towel said:

Lol.

Hell to the no!!

I think we really could have been really good friends, with or without a sexual relationship. He seems really nice and sweet.

Monday is gonna be awkwarrrrrd.

Terrib3Towel said:

I think we really could have been really good friends, with or without a sexual relationship. He seems really nice and sweet.

Monday is gonna be awkwarrrrrd.

Ya'll work together? That's bad bizness

Oh no, we're in the same class lol.

Only two more weeks to go until its finished. Can't wait!!

Terrib3Towel said:

I think we really could have been really good friends, with or without a sexual relationship. He seems really nice and sweet.

Monday is gonna be awkwarrrrrd.

"in (polite) silence/quietness and confidence shall be your strength." is 30:15

[slight modified version]

monday find cheer in knowing "you're a shinning star." and your polite silence and outward calm confidence will not allow you to feel in need of his attention., aka: "needy"

Terrib3Towel said:

Basically there's a guy I like, but I'm super shy and can't bring myself to ask him out. He gave me his number and I texted him, but I haven't gotten a text back. I know he worked today, but its like 10:30, nobody works that late.

Screw love. I'm dying alone.

This is exactly your problem. The steps from "he doesn't text back" to "he's not interested in me" to "screw love, i'm dying alone" are a bit bigger than that in real life.

I think you should just chill. If you'd chill, you'd have no problem waiting for a text back and wouldn't worry that much; you wouldn't be afraid to ask someone out and wouldn't seem to be pushing everything into the "love" direction (which, to me personally, can be very annoying and suffocating). If he really isn't interested in you (maybe because he has the feeling you're either "love" or "screw love!" and he finds that exhausting) than you chilling will make it easier for you to cope with it.

Just read you're still at school.

Damn, girl, CHILL!

There's a long, long way to go before you might even have a remote reason to say "screw love, i'm dying alone"! And besides, what is "love" anyway?

Terrib3Towel said:

I'm a GUY and I'm in college. My friend told me it happens sometimes and that I should stop thinking about him. Which is easier said than done lol.

Doesn't make a difference - you're still behaving like a girl in high-school.

Terrib3Towel said:

I'm a GUY and I'm in college. My friend told me it happens sometimes and that I should stop thinking about him. Which is easier said than done lol.

Your friend gave you excellent advice. It would only be easier said than done if there was any emotional connection at some point on BOTH ends. Since, from what I've read, that this isn't the case, then it shouldn't be a problem for you to just go about your business. You're acting like this guy is the only guy in the world to like or something when he's not. Let it go!

Terrib3Towel said:

I'm a GUY and I'm in college. My friend told me it happens sometimes and that I should stop thinking about him. Which is easier said than done lol.

I think your friend gave solid advice.

You dramatize the situation, making it much more important than it is. Creating your own dispair and unhappiness.

You met a nice guy. You texted him. He doesn't text back.

That's all.

You just met, it's not that you two have been together for 20 years and he just had a fatal car accident.

Maybe he's just not that into you. He's occupied with other things than immediately responding to you. That is not something to be so upset about. Unless you really have no self love. In that case, the problem is not this guy, but you not working on your own issues.

So, start working on yourself or just keep on stressing out about every passing boy who does/does not text you.

I wish you well.

And just be nice to him on monday. Play it by ear.

dJJ said:

Terrib3Towel said:

I'm a GUY and I'm in college. My friend told me it happens sometimes and that I should stop thinking about him. Which is easier said than done lol.

I think your friend gave solid advice.

You dramatize the situation, making it much more important than it is. Creating your own dispair and unhappiness.

You met a nice guy. You texted him. He doesn't text back.

That's all.

You just met, it's not that you two have been together for 20 years and he just had a fatal car accident.

Maybe he's just not that into you. He's occupied with other things than immediately responding to you. That is not something to be so upset about. Unless you really have no self love. In that case, the problem is not this guy, but you not working on your own issues.

So, start working on yourself or just keep on stressing out about every passing boy who does/does not text you.

I wish you well.

And just be nice to him on monday. Play it by ear.

If he doesnt text you back he's not sure if he's interested or not, if he does text you back in a day or two it means he has you on his "reserve plan" or "booty call".... That's how it usually works.. People who are interested in getting to know you, will text you as soon as they can, I mean it's a simple text not a damn phone call...

Terrib3Towel said:

ThisOne said:

what did u say in your text message???

I asked if he would like to hang out sometime.

if he is straight he may b scared ~ when u see him just let him know that you just want to b friends and that you r not interested in what's in his pants!!!!!!

.................yet

Ok so in class today we acted natural, I didn't bring anything up and we talked casually.

Should I be like, "did you get my text?"

Maybe he just wanna be your friend idk... I'll take your friend's advice.

if he was interested, he would have responded. if he couldn't but STILL wanted to, he would have brought it up today.

I would say he's not interested and stop wasting your time on him. Find someone that is interested in you.

I think you should stay up late at night going through all of the photos of him on facebook thinking about how you can make him want you. Make sure you go through all of his photo albums because people often don't tag themselves in thier own photos. lol. It's also a good idea to check all his friends photos who haven't made them private for untagged photos of him too. That's often where you'll find the hot photos from a holiday he took a year or two ago. That way you can find out more about him and realise you have soooo much incommon. lol. Also, try to find out where he lives so you can keep an eye on his house to see what time he comes and goes, and even more importantly, who he's coming and going with. lol.

Alternatively, you could suck it up and move on and hopefully avoid some jail time. lol.

Terrib3Towel said:

Ok so in class today we acted natural, I didn't bring anything up and we talked casually.

Should I be like, "did you get my text?"

Nah, it's a wrap!

Well, this makes the third time I've been dissed.

Oh well. You win some you lose some.

Terrib3Towel said:

Well, this makes the third time I've been dissed.

Oh well. You win some you lose some.

his loss

Aww Thanks!!

If this thread is any indication of your intensity, I can't blame him for avoiding you.

Terrib3Towel said:

Aww Thanks!!

ur welcome on to the next cutie n ur class

Spinlight said:

If this thread is any indication of your intensity, I can't blame him for avoiding you.

aww Spin be nice

nursev said:

Spinlight said:

If this thread is any indication of your intensity, I can't blame him for avoiding you.

aww Spin be nice

That's just a reality, especially so in the gay world. Some men simply don't want the investment and they get even more discouraged when the other person is aggressive. Sitting around trying to get into someone's mind is useless. If he was really that into you, you wouldn't have to ask.