SUPRMAN said:

JoeTyler said:

I don't get why any man with a girlfriend, or a married man, could possibly want to watch/buy porn

many men say: "0h, I keep watching porn because my wife just won't do the stuff you see in a porn movie", or "see, I love my wife, but she's just not as hot as a pornstar", or "meh, jerking off to porn twice a week is harmless, who cares, it's not cheating"...

ant that's ridiculous; they should have known better...or they should have married someone else (a more sexually active woman, a hotter woman, or whatever)

Do you really expect someone's sexual interest/fantasy life dies because they married?

Who gets everything they want in a partner?

You may as well say, if she were just available to him when he wanted it (whatever "it" is) then he wouldn't be watching porn.

The point of this study is that his watching porn gives her an inferiority complex. She's obviously not enough for him or enough of what he wants.

uhh, but that's why I said, : she's upset because the pornstar is hotter than her, and/or the pornstar does things that she just won't do, for whatever reason...

JoeTyler said:

sextonseven said:

Many men would say that isn't the type of woman you marry.

yeah, I'm laughing, I mean it, don't get me wrong, but in the USA A LOT of people still think that sexual experimention, strong sexual appetite,"weird" sexual activities, etc are directly linked to addiction/depravity/infidelity

the perpetual conservative myth that a "good" wife should be a prune who occasionally enjoys missionary sex...

Sad for all parties involved.

Women who are treated rigth by their lovers, feel secure save and confident. So they dare to involve themselves more. Both parties end up with better sex => better relationship => both happier

If someone's a prude, chances are you picked the wrong partner to fuck with.

it's complicated because many men would like to do "things" that are not even necessary to begin with, and I completely understand/support the gfs/wifes who are not into "it" at all, you know what I mean

I mean, some of the stuff that you can find in a porn movie (specially a 00s movie) is just ridiculous

dJJ said:

JoeTyler said:

I don't get why any man with a girlfriend, or a married man, could possibly want to watch/buy porn

many men say: "0h, I keep watching porn because my wife just won't do the stuff you see in a porn movie", or "see, I love my wife, but she's just not as hot as a pornstar", or "meh, jerking off to porn twice a week is harmless, who cares, it's not cheating"...

ant that's ridiculous; they should have known better...or they should have married someone else (a more sexually active woman, a hotter woman, or whatever)

Agree.

I think I can recognize sex partners who watch porn and those who don't. The porn watchers have a very limited array of skill and fantasy. They just want to re-enact a porn video. Boring lovers.

shouldn't it be the other way around?

JoeTyler said:

it's complicated because many men would like to do "things" that are not even necessary to begin with, and I completely understand/support the gfs/wifes who are not into "it" at all, you know what I mean

I mean, some of the stuff that you can find in a porn movie (specially a 00s movie) is just ridiculous

Yeah porn itself is complicated because you never know what taste your spouse may be into that you're into it yourself so I can see how it'll be difficult for couples to enjoy the same thing if one spouse gets off on one side of porn than the other gets off on.

JoeTyler said:

dJJ said:

Agree.

I think I can recognize sex partners who watch porn and those who don't. The porn watchers have a very limited array of skill and fantasy. They just want to re-enact a porn video. Boring lovers.

shouldn't it be the other way around?

Neh. Well, it's not scientifically proven. It's just a total lack of building up sexual tension. These kind of guys copy the common stuf. It's just the tricks that make him come fast or just pumping. As I said, boring.

Timmy84 said:

JoeTyler said:

I completely understand/support the gfs/wifes who are not into "it" at all, you know what I mean

I mean, some of the stuff that you can find in a porn movie (specially a 00s movie) is just ridiculous

Yeah porn itself is complicated because you never know what taste your spouse may be into that you're into it yourself so I can see how it'll be difficult for couples to enjoy the same thing if one spouse gets off on one side of porn than the other gets off on.

yeah

other than that (watching stuff his wife won't do) is the only reason I can think of; other than that, I don't know why the hell a married man could want to keep watching porn regularly, I truly can't

fetichism, perhaps?? big tits, 18-19 years old sex, S&M????

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Sex is something I would rather be doing instead of watching other people do it,

Everything looks so phony till it's just silly...like Godzilla movies.

What about watching porn to... you know get thing's going?

I know me & my ex boyfriend did that... and i felt nothing wrong with it. It's just a fun thing to do Grant it i don't watch porn often. But i still do sometimes...

I don't see an issue with it as long as it's not addiction as many stated here. But watch it for fun to get thing's going or whatever can actually be fun

Men have been hiding porn from their wives long before the days of the internet. Some of them didn't even hide it inside their house and would hide it outdoors. I used to love to play in the ditch because I would always find a stash of dirty magazines that some man had hidden from his wife.

Most of the men have been faithful to their wives, they just like to look at porn. The way I see it, the wives should be glad they're just looking at porn rather than going out and cheating with another woman. But then again, let the wives bitch all they want to the men because I'm always right here to satisfy these men would they get tired of hearing all the bitching.

babynoz said:

Sex is something I would rather be doing instead of watching other people do it,

CarrieMpls said:

That says more about the women with them than the guys.

I would tend to agree.

Here's the thing:

People like sex.

While having it is their first choice, when they can't have it, watching it is very appealing to them. Heterosexual women tend to watch it less than everybody else (due to societal shaming), but it is still appealing to them.

Does watching people having sex negatively effect committed relationships? Probably. But so do a kajillion other things. Personally, I would put it far down the list of impediments to a healthy, long-term relationship.

I enjoy the occasional pornograph and I don't find it troublesome. I think the problems arise (no pun intended) when desensitization occurs. I'm reminded of a Norm MacDonald appearance on Stern, where he joked about this, saying, 'This chick's only taking six cocks up her ass?! What the H.?!'