why is it everytime i meet a guy online they want me to look at their dick, and if i refuse to take sexy pictures of myself for them, or whatever...they unfriend me??? wtf. i just want to cry sometimes. what is wrong with me??? i can't take it anymore.

Coz they are pervs or online predators.

ZombieKitten said:

I just found marriage proposals in my FB "other" messages folder

Nothing wrong with you, its just that most folks online are just hunting for meat (sex) only under the guise of a "relationship" or "becomming friends".

Most online guys are ONLY interested in sex dear. like, 99% of the men. It is what it is.

Know this and expect accordingly.

why don't you mention a name or two...

if you put them on BLAST it cutz that shit kinda short

ZombieKitten said:

I just found marriage proposals in my FB "other" messages folder

DAMN...stupid Timeline...I thought I'd deleted those.

paintedlady said:

Nothing wrong with you, its just that most folks online are just hunting for meat (sex) only under the guise of a "relationship" or "becomming friends".

Most online guys are ONLY interested in sex dear. like, 99% of the men. It is what it is.

Know this and expect accordingly.

Wait... ...what else exactly is there on the internet besides sex and the Org???

Since I'm still new to this whole internet thing, I was quite apprehensive about joining this site.
See, I usually don't wear any pants when I'm on the internet, bcuz I watch alot of onion-booty porn (on the net, it's free, y'know....), & therefore, not wearing any pants eliminates one of the steps in my masturbating process.
So when I joined this site, I still didn't know how this whole online correspondence thing worked, & I was afraid that many of y'all might be able to see me from where y'all are.
And I didn't want any of y'all to be looking at my dick, men or female (not that I'm ashamed of it, it's just that I like to keep my private life, well, y'know.....private. I mean, there is a reason why our dicks, balls & pussies are referred to as private parts).

So, what I'm trying to say is that,
none of the ladies here on the org have to worry about me.
I'm not the kind of guy that wants any one of y'all to be lookin' at my dick (heck, the few times that I was able to convince a woman to give me a blowjob, I had her either close her eyes, or wear a blindfold...).
I guess it all boils down to how I was raised. To be a gentleman.

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PurpleJedi said:

PurpleJedi said:

paintedlady said:

Nothing wrong with you, its just that most folks online are just hunting for meat (sex) only under the guise of a "relationship" or "becomming friends".

Most online guys are ONLY interested in sex dear. like, 99% of the men. It is what it is.

Know this and expect accordingly.

Wait... ...what else exactly is there on the internet besides sex and the Org???

SHOES!!!

paintedlady said:

Most online guys are ONLY interested in sex dear. like, 99% of the men. It is what it is.

Know this and expect accordingly.

Yep! That's what the average guy is interested in. If you expect anything more, it will have to develop after you've had lots of sex.

luv4u said:

Visionnaire said:

Since I'm still new to this whole internet thing, I was quite apprehensive about joining this site.
See, I usually don't wear any pants when I'm on the internet, bcuz I watch alot of onion-booty porn (on the net, it's free, y'know....), & therefore, not wearing any pants eliminates one of the steps in my masturbating process.
So when I joined this site, I still didn't know how this whole online correspondence thing worked, & I was afraid that many of y'all might be able to see me from where y'all are.
And I didn't want any any of y'all to be looking at my dick, men or female (not that I'm ashamed of it, it's just that I like to keep my private life, well, y'know.....private. I mean, there is a reason why our dicks, balls & pussies are referred to as private parts).

So, what I'm trying to say is that,
none of the ladies here on the org have to worry about me.
I'm not the kind of guy that's wants any one y'all to be lookin' at my dick (heck, the few times that I was able to convince a woman to give me a blowjob, I hand her either close her eyes, or wear a blindfold...).
I guess it all boils down to how I was raised. To be a gentleman.

flyorra said:

why is it everytime i meet a guy online they want me to look at their dick, and if i refuse to take sexy pictures of myself for them, or whatever...they unfriend me??? wtf. i just want to cry sometimes. what is wrong with me??? i can't take it anymore.

flyorra said:

why is it everytime i meet a guy online they want me to look at their dick, and if i refuse to take sexy pictures of myself for them, or whatever...they unfriend me??? wtf. i just want to cry sometimes. what is wrong with me??? i can't take it anymore.

Nothing wrong with you. Those dudes are losers. And if the unfriend you, their loss.

JustErin said:

luv4u said:

Coz they are pervs or online predators.

Bullshit. It doesn't make them either. I personally find the behaviour annoying but no way do I automatically think guys that do this thing (and most guys DO do this kinda thing) are pervs or worse...online predators.

Prove it.

flyorra said:

why is it everytime i meet a guy online they want me to look at their dick, and if i refuse to take sexy pictures of myself for them, or whatever...they unfriend me??? wtf. i just want to cry sometimes. what is wrong with me??? i can't take it anymore.

...Do you hang out on Tinychat alot?

That's where most of those types, are.

Having said that - even there that's kinda rare, so I'm wondering if it isn't just that you appear to be an 'easy target' to those types. A friend of mine is the same way - those guys tend to make a beeline for women who appear to be really friendly and feminine and passive, because they think they can pretty much say or do whatever to you and that you wont' really stand up for yourself and make a fuss about it.

Basically you have to learn how to be more of a bitch or a hardass or at least project that vibe to kind of keep them off of you.

Also - don't take this the wrong way, I'm not trying to imply anything about you because I don't know you - but if you have a sexual or flirty picture up at these sites, swap it out for something more tame. Even shit like midriff tops and cleavage showing - get rid of it, because that's the other thing they gravitate to, is someone they think looks hyper-sexual and like an 'easy lay' - whether that's true or not.

luv4u said:

JustErin said:

luv4u said: Bullshit. It doesn't make them either. I personally find the behaviour annoying but no way do I automatically think guys that do this thing (and most guys DO do this kinda thing) are pervs or worse...online predators.

Prove it.

I MOST CERTAINLY AM NOT!!!

wait a minit,

whut are we talkin about again???

I've never done such a thing. Not a still photo, or on a cam. I think my aversion to all types of photographic imagery is pretty well documented.

I've had more women masturbate for me on a cam (live, not a still photograph), without even knowing what I look like, than I can count on one hand. And it wasn't even very hard to get them to do it.

People are strange. People are horny. Men AND Women.

Look at it from a different angle - at least you know those guys are the ones you wouldn't want to be with long-term. It used to take people months or years to figure that out.

JustErin said:

luv4u said:

Coz they are pervs or online predators.

Bullshit. It doesn't make them either. I personally find the behaviour annoying but no way do I automatically think guys that do this thing (and most guys DO do this kinda thing) are pervs or worse...online predators.

No. SOME guys do it. And the reason SOME women have interaction with them is becasue they're the type of women who are looking to find a man online. A LOT of men (AND women) NEVER go online for that purpose. Therefore, they AREN'T doing that kind of thing.

Generalizations are dangerous and lazy.

You trying to find him?

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Cerebus said:

I've never done such a thing. Not a still photo, or on a cam. I think my aversion to all types of photographic imagery is pretty well documented.

I've had more women masturbate for me on a cam (live, not a still photograph), without even knowing what I look like, than I can count on one hand. And it wasn't even very hard to get them to do it.

People are strange. People are horny. Men AND Women.

Look at it from a different angle - at least you know those guys are the ones you wouldn't want to be with long-term. It used to take people months or years to figure that out.

Yeah. I was just going to say women that do this just as much as men.

It's like personal porn.

Visionnaire said:

Since I'm still new to this whole internet thing, I was quite apprehensive about joining this site.
See, I usually don't wear any pants when I'm on the internet, bcuz I watch alot of onion-booty porn (on the net, it's free, y'know....), & therefore, not wearing any pants eliminates one of the steps in my masturbating process.
So when I joined this site, I still didn't know how this whole online correspondence thing worked, & I was afraid that many of y'all might be able to see me from where y'all are.
And I didn't want any of y'all to be looking at my dick, men or female (not that I'm ashamed of it, it's just that I like to keep my private life, well, y'know.....private. I mean, there is a reason why our dicks, balls & pussies are referred to as private parts).

So, what I'm trying to say is that,
none of the ladies here on the org have to worry about me.
I'm not the kind of guy that wants any one of y'all to be lookin' at my dick (heck, the few times that I was able to convince a woman to give me a blowjob, I had her either close her eyes, or wear a blindfold...).
I guess it all boils down to how I was raised. To be a gentleman.

[Edited 5/23/12 21:25pm]

There's something about your posts I find extremely witty and hilarious!

Both men and women sometimes wish to see very personal pictures of the people they have talked to on the internet (and often engaged in sex talk with), but never seen in real life. Even I find the found quite arousing.

In my case, it's probably because it breaks a certain taboo border between being very, very close and still keeping that healthy and safe distance through the computer screen. You know that someone, somewhere in the world took a very sexually explicit picture of them and pressed that button to send it to you, trusting you and wanting to share with you.

Looking at pictures of naked strangers (e.g. "real" porn) doesn't do much for me, but having someone I know through the internet send me pictures of their naked body can be very thrilling.

It's not about whether people "only think of sex" and whether "we're all superficial assholes". People do it for the same reason they go to the movies together or have sex together - fun, entertainment, excitement. You just have to make sure you find the partner who is willing to engage in the same things you are willing to engage in.

luv4u said:

one of the coolest ppl i ever met is someone i met from here

and no i have not seen his.....

ThisOne said:

one of the coolest ppl i ever met is someone i met from here

and no i have not seen his.....

Check your orgnotes

Cerebus said:

JustErin said:

luv4u said: Bullshit. It doesn't make them either. I personally find the behaviour annoying but no way do I automatically think guys that do this thing (and most guys DO do this kinda thing) are pervs or worse...online predators.

No. SOME guys do it. And the reason SOME women have interaction with them is becasue they're the type of women who are looking to find a man online. A LOT of men (AND women) NEVER go online for that purpose. Therefore, they AREN'T doing that kind of thing.

Generalizations are dangerous and lazy.

So you based your so called non-generalized answer on what? The number of men that did this kind of thing with you versus those that did not? What women have told you have happened to them online? I'm just curious to know what makes you more qualified than me to give an answer on this topic.

Just because you do not engage in this type of thing does not make it automatically drop from "most" to "some".

We are not talking about people who just go online not looking to talk or meet someone, we are talking about those who do.

And my comment was no more a generalization than yours was.