oh you live together?

oh thats fine

however once i did that and i ended up texting her whilst she was in bed with her fast asleep boyfriend.

ahhh halycon days!

christ knows how i didnt get a good kicking weekly!

thanks for all the replys....well she came back herself after works outing and she admitted herself this morning that she shouldnt have asked ...she said he is gay but his sexuality has nothing to do with it ..he could be straight...gay....bi-sexual or like animals....its just the fact i dont know him and i have a four year old girl here......she agreed she was in the wrong...

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now i have unique's reply image stuck in my head ....

blackbob said:

thanks for all the replys....well she came back herself after works outing and she admitted herself this morning that she shouldnt have asked ...she said he is gay but his sexuality has nothing to do with it ..he could be straight...gay....bi-sexual or like animals....its just the fact i dont know him and i have a four year old girl here......she agreed she was in the wrong...

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now i have unique's reply image stuck in my head ....

did you release your pent up frustration inside his anus cavity?

i think u should have let her bring him home - it seems like u dont trust her and that's not a good thing

i think she was being honest with you and she gave u an oportunity to show trust in her which u didnt.... sorry Bob but i dont agree whith u on this one

toots said:

Id say u and gf fuck hard and loud and make his ass hear it if possible then he may not do it again...but id sure as sam hill say ur not staying the night aagain for a encore

it coulda back fired and kept him up all night tryin to put the kid back to sleep too

nothin worse that i could imagine is havin your girl screemin in the other room whilest

one is tryin to sleep

I think that the awkward part is that you don't know this dude.

Had you gotten to know him previously, and could gauge him (and his intentions) then you wouldn't be so put off by the suggestion (or maybe MORE so actually).

Do what feels best. If it makes you that uncomfortable, then she should respect your wishes.

ThisOne said:

i think u should have let her bring him home - it seems like u dont trust her and that's not a good thing

i think she was being honest with you and she gave u an oportunity to show trust in her which u didnt.... sorry Bob but i dont agree whith u on this one

But even the trust issue aside, sometimes you just want have a quiet night home with the miss and family undisturbed. I mean, I can totally see not wanting an outsider to disturb that.

Plus, why would his wife ask such a thing, and what is the other guy thinking by even proposing such or agreeing to such a thing. It just seems a bit strange to me.

KingBAD said:

kewlschool said:

Why can't he just go home? That's what normally people do.

And no he can't spend the night.

blackbob said:

thanks for all the replys....well she came back herself after works outing and she admitted herself this morning that she shouldnt have asked ...she said he is gay but his sexuality has nothing to do with it ..he could be straight...gay....bi-sexual or like animals....its just the fact i dont know him and i have a four year old girl here......she agreed she was in the wrong...

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now i have unique's reply image stuck in my head ....

your welcome (and a respectful) 2 u for being a great dad and a faithful mate.

blackbob said:

hi ...been a while since i have posted here...looking for views on this...my long time girlfriend with whom i have a house with now for 5 years has just phoned me to ask me it would be ok to bring a guy she works with back to the house tonight to stay overnight...she has been on a works outing all day and she is now on the way back...seemingly the guy lives on the other side of the city and they are both working tomorrow morning...i dont know this guy at all and ...if i am being honest...i wasnt too happy that she would even consider asking that...a guy i dont know at all coming over to stay the night ?...we have a hyperactive four year old girl and its a tiring day watching her so i would really just like to relax at night....

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i told her i would rather she didnt bring any guys over to stay the night as she wouldnt like it if it was the other way around...just wondering if you have any views on this ?...am i being unreasonable here or what ?.....thanks for reading

You aren't being unreasonable. You made the correct decision in my eyes. You don't know the guy and you all have a child in the house. Why your girlfriend would even suggest this is beyond me. I don't think it anything to do with you having trust issues with her, I believe you are thinking with a sound mind. Instincts don't ever steer you wrong.

Hey bob, Not trying to clown your lady but I think you may need a new chick bruh. That's disrespectful to you as a man for her to even ask you that.

blackbob said:

hi ...been a while since i have posted here...looking for views on this...my long time girlfriend with whom i have a house with now for 5 years has just phoned me to ask me it would be ok to bring a guy she works with back to the house tonight to stay overnight...she has been on a works outing all day and she is now on the way back...seemingly the guy lives on the other side of the city and they are both working tomorrow morning...i dont know this guy at all and ...if i am being honest...i wasnt too happy that she would even consider asking that...a guy i dont know at all coming over to stay the night ?...we have a hyperactive four year old girl and its a tiring day watching her so i would really just like to relax at night....

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i told her i would rather she didnt bring any guys over to stay the night as she wouldnt like it if it was the other way around...just wondering if you have any views on this ?...am i being unreasonable here or what ?.....thanks for reading

Damn, what a way to ask for a threesome. All slick and shit. "He's a coworker and lives on the other side of town...would be too much for him to drive all the way back there blah blah blah"

Females are some major players. Makes me sad for my species. Well....almost.

BobbyDrake said:

Hey bob, Not trying to clown your lady but I think you may need a new chick bruh. That's disrespectful to you as a man for her to even ask you that.

This.

Sounds mighty suspect to me. Why the hell does she care that he lives "across town." He came "across town" to get his ass to work didn't he? Unless this guy is ultra effeminate, I would be very, very suspect. Well, at least she asked you and just didn't show up with this man at the house, but I don't think she should have even asked you that with you all having a young daughter in the house. She might know this man just as a coworker, but he could be a damn freak or child molester. You never know...

Shyra said:

Sounds mighty suspect to me. Why the hell does she care that he lives "across town." He came "across town" to get his ass to work didn't he? Unless this guy is ultra effeminate, I would be very, very suspect. Well, at least she asked you and just didn't show up with this man at the house, but I don't think she should have even asked you that with you all having a young daughter in the house. She might know this man just as a coworker, but he could be a damn freak or child molester. You never know...

blackbob said:

NDRU said:

This seems reasonable

But it could be totally innocent. It just depends on your relationship. If my gf asked me this, I would probably trust her and say "of course your co-worker can sleep on the couch for a night."

And I would keep my eyes wide open.

i know...i was in two minds about it but i just dont feel comfortable with it...its mainly just the fact that a stranger is coming over to your house when you just want to chill out and relax for a few hours...i do trust her...just dont think its right...

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thanks for the replys..

I agree with you dude. I wouldn't feel comfortable with it either. It just seems and feel

weird. Another man who is not related to your girlfriend should make you feel a little uneasy particularly when he's invading your space. Would your girlfriend really feel comfortable if the situation were reverse? I would just simply say no respectfully especially with a daughter in the house.

unique said:

blackbob said:

thanks for all the replys....well she came back herself after works outing and she admitted herself this morning that she shouldnt have asked ...she said he is gay but his sexuality has nothing to do with it ..he could be straight...gay....bi-sexual or like animals....its just the fact i dont know him and i have a four year old girl here......she agreed she was in the wrong...

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now i have unique's reply image stuck in my head ....

did you release your pent up frustration inside his anus cavity?

U Uniquely nasty!

Robert you better wear two towels comin' out the shower.

wow your mrs has got more neck than a giraffe!!..

Workmate was going to sleep over after working so many extra hours and then wear the same clothes (and presumably underwear) the next day?

How did this plan come about? Were there alternatives? Was he planning to sleep at the office, maybe? Did he miss the last tram, train or bus?

Your girlfriend may have been innocent in all of this, but the guy? Something smells fishy about him.

ScissorsRockPaper said:

Workmate was going to sleep over after working so many extra hours and then wear the same clothes (and presumably underwear) the next day?

How did this plan come about? Were there alternatives? Was he planning to sleep at the office, maybe? Did he miss the last tram, train or bus?

Your girlfriend may have been innocent in all of this, but the guy? Something smells fishy about him.

he seemingly didnt have his car for some reason ...but he got picked up by his dad eventually.....they have a uniform in work...my girlfriend knows him well ...they work beside each other most days....i am sure he would be fine but it just doesnt feel right having a guy you dont know personally staying the night....?...maybe its a caveman instinct here but it just isnt right...

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now if it was a hot female workmate wanting to stay the night...then thats a whole different scenario

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again..thanks for all the replys...most think i did the right thing...always interesting to get different views on these dilemmas...cheers..

imago said:

ThisOne said:

i think u should have let her bring him home - it seems like u dont trust her and that's not a good thing

i think she was being honest with you and she gave u an oportunity to show trust in her which u didnt.... sorry Bob but i dont agree whith u on this one

But even the trust issue aside, sometimes you just want have a quiet night home with the miss and family undisturbed. I mean, I can totally see not wanting an outsider to disturb that.

Plus, why would his wife ask such a thing, and what is the other guy thinking by even proposing such or agreeing to such a thing. It just seems a bit strange to me.

'Why' is not the issue because Bobs wife is being honest about the situation ~ but now that Bob said no she wont ask again and instead she will prob start sneaking about...

if this guy is out to get into her pants Bob would have been smarter to allow him to stay the night.... like the saying goes 'keep your enemies close'

WoW i just impressed myself ~ i mean i can easily b the org 'dear abby' - but i dont have time

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