LaVisHh said:

But even those friendly smiles etc means one has been looked at and judged and givena slight once over no matter how respectable the response is



I semi agree in that its only natural..but even those who dress conservatively..those who dress nice, those who dress slutty etc are judged and given the once over. Lets say a woman is dressed in simple jeans and a t-shirt and sneakers at a grocvery store. Sometimes people are looking thinking "Hmmm, not bad" "in a slinky dress she would be.." It doesn't matter what anypne wears, objectification etc. is still happening. Just being a woman makes that happen (part of the bio part). And same oes for women doing it to men too I'm sure. It just seems that froma womans point of view it must be a bit more scary and uncomfortable to be in that positioon with men being the ones doing the judging, objectifying etc .


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[This message was edited Thu Feb 27 12:14:43 PST 2003 by rdhull]

All very good points,

Black suede...



think 1999 video
[This message was edited Thu Feb 27 10:35:23 PST 2003 by Supernova]

LaVisHh said:

I think my main point in what I said is that in all situations women are objectified etc..at the grocery store, in the parking lot, in a club etc. It seems non stop and all around, not just in specific situations. ALL women too regardles of looks. If someone is what society deams as lets say uigly, they are first goiven the once over and judged "oh lookit her..ooo damn , she s nasty" etc. Thats something I couldnt hang with day by day and I know that some women must use this to their advantage as a coping strategie in their behavior etc in which I don't blame them. And just because Im aware of this doesnt excuse my damn self from or for doing it

Supernova said:

Black suede knee high with high heels

I have a boot fetish too. But mine is more in the buying of them. I cannot walk by a shoe store without instatly drooling. It's an all-out shoe fetish, but I've been concentrating on boots for the last few months.

But most women are like that, right??

no wonder u have that big ass tongue on your avatar...u liking the boots...u suppose 2 be knockin the boots...not licking them!

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

lol, but whats gripfasts?

rdhull said:

mine are burgundy, tho'.

rdhull said:

mine are burgundy, tho'.

I have a boot fetish

Me too!

Cowboy boots, with the right cut, nice heel and tip, ooohhh Lawd

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

Those are nice!

they'd betta be, they cost me like $125...

thanx!

I have a few grip fasts styles then..I have a hard time keeping them from going loose. I almost hate them but its all about style.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

all this boot talk is making me horny

me I have 5 pairs of boots

I might break mine out now. I hate driving in the rain.

No comment from you, Natsume!

rdhull said:

What types do you wear?

RiccoTheArtist said:

Black cowboy motorcycle type boot
Plain motorcycle boot HD style
One pair of Ropers
2 pair of fast grip low cut style
A Doc Marten

thats 6 not 5

I can't believe I am participating in this ridiculous thread, but I see RD needs some support. Don't worry man, lots of people think boots are sexy. I'm with you on this one.

My missus has a ludicrously large collection of boots, all of them equally difficult to walk in. We get a lot of taxis, coz she's too slow moving around in her heels.

Lets see... she has a pair of nice faux leather (we are vegetarians after all) knee boots with 5" stiletto heels. And a nice pair of black PVC thigh boots with 7.5" heels. And some funky lace-up knee boots. Loads more. She has far too much footwear actually, I think it's time I spent some money on myself for a change!

ian said:

You should post some pics of her in those boots.

bkw said:

I'm sure she'd love that Coz as we all know, Prince.org people are not a bunch of psycho stalker types at all. Right?

LaVisHh said:

And I feel you on this. I cant imagine the shit yall go through. I mean justy getting looks and stares and judgements. How fucking creepy that must be no matter how one looks. Something like this happened to me a few weeks ago where I was aware that I would be objectified lol. It was the weirdest feeling. I almost was intimidated inside and felt like I was 12 inches high and so damn vulnerable. I cant imagine having to go through life like that. We men are truly assholes and disrespectful even withpout knowing but its also biological in some aspects I think. Nevertheless I feel ya and feel for you.

I was struggling with bags of shopping

Lleena said:

What did you buy?