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Sending A Child to College In The Fall He's my only child so be nice I have questions My son will be living in the dorms. I have an idea of the things he will need like laptop, small refrigerator, tv, etc. But what other things are good to buy without going broke. Of course the University says only their sheets will fit their "extra long" beds so what all do I need to buy or look out for? What about college roommates are they evil? Does Nursey need to check some things out? | |
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I'm doing the same thing! I'm trying to figure out this stuff too. | |
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Okay so umm...let's get a plan together My son is going to UNT and they sent this order form today with all there stuff saying ordinary sheets won't fit there beds. WTH! I mean Im already paying 3000 for the damn room Im trying not to go broke | |
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Just there sheets and towels/bathroom stuff for a pack is 200 I think it's cheaper @ Wally world | |
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Small appliances:
School Supplies:
Personal care items:
Linens:
For the laundry:
Medications and personal needs:
Other needs:
A fan, yes, my daughter's dorm room got so hot, no air conditioner. And change (quarters, more likely). Maybe you can order extra long sheets online. | |
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Great list Morning thanks So for 3000 there is no air conditioner Not liking that and Imma be broke looking at this list | |
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Morning you ever heard of the University having their own catalog for dorm stuff? | |
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I loved this place almost a one shop stop place. Bed Bath & Beyond they have a lot of things through out the summer for kids going to college. You should be able to find oversized/long sheets.
Morningsong covered EVERYthing, good job. I would get a lock box or trunk of some size so he can lock up his valuables... something he can push under his bed. Imperative, a couple of flashdrives and yes an external hard drive. My family brought my daughter assorted gift cards to fast food and dinner chain restraunts for Sunday dinners and sometimes for Sunday breakfest.
Oh, LYSOL. Yes, I'm so serious. I would consider getting the extened warranty for the laptop, the ones were if you drop it, spill coffee on it, or its stolen they'll replace and/or repair at no cost.
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Im on my way to BB&B and I was gonna by a trunk with a lock, but something smaller is better you're right. I think I'll give him my laptop that I bought in Feb-it has a warranty and I'll buy a new one Nice TD3 and I hope this is helping Rodeo too | |
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I'm sure most do now, like my son's school, but he stayed home so I dismissed paying attention to anything dorm related, but the school was so thorough about everything else I'm sure they are thorough about that too. My daughter went to a small private college so they didn't have that kind of stuff available, so "we" learned the hard way. But a lot of that stuff on that list is just normal everyday stuff that can get forgotten about in the hustle and bustle of things. The medicine kit got forgotten about, and changing from one climate/altitude, headache and cold medicines are handy. And yes, lysol, we had to clean the first day she moved in, dusty. | |
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Oh okay so I guess it a norm. This is new for us both when I went to college I stayed at home. I'm glad my son wants to experience dorm life though. Thanks for the tip about cleaning and TD3's Lysol-will do | |
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Congrats on your son's graduation and college acceptance! I graduated college a few years back and remember dorm living well. I'm also still in the university system and see/deal with undergraduates on a regular basis so I have a few suggestions.
Whatever your son used in high school will be fine. Also, I'd wait to buy this stuff at the school bookstore, and also what he needs will depend on what courses he'll be taking. Most students I've had in class now take notes on their computers (particularly in large lecture courses) so that might affect how many notebooks, if any, he'll need.
All I'm going to add is, YES!!!! SHOWER SHOES!!!!! A little plastic case to hold all bathroom supplies might be helpful if your son's dorm has communal bathrooms where you can't leave your stuff inside the showers.
See above.
Ahhh... Laundry... Well, aside from detergent, the only other thing necessary is a laundry bag. Most machines in dorms will work with money that's put on student ID cards (kind of like a debit card) so change shouldn't be necessary.
Tylenol/Advil
^ The cleaning supplies above most likely won't be used. Like I mentioned before, what you'd probably need to buy are paper towels and a tube of disinfecting wipes. I do agree, though, that you might want to bring cleaning supplies for when you first arrive. Rooms aren't always "move-in" ready.
OK! I've gone on WAY too long. I hope some of this helps! Bottom line: don't panic and don't overbuy things! | |
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OMG I love this and it's so thoughtful and considerate of what a teen will and won't use Thanks for the Congrats and you're right nowdays some things can be eliminated cuz the laptop can double as a stereo and such. This is great | |
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^^^ a lot of things you said above I was thinking too, especially with computers and smart phones, as well as other stuff, but it's a good reminder.
The cleaning stuff I'm thinking mom (or dad) will be using that first day at least so it'll be good to have it along. Every parent was cleaning that first day, those rooms had been closed up for a while. But a big tub or two of those cleaning wipes is a good idea.
And I'm thinking you're thinking surge protector (or two) along with extenstion cord, that way they don't overload but still have a lot of outlet access. | |
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You guys are great! I'm taking all this in so the first day will go smoother than expected. Love all the info-keep em coming | |
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my daughter signed up to go into the navy .. she leaves for basic in sept .. | |
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I hope every thing works well for her | |
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Some Michigan dorms do for the stuff that gets left at schools? Worth checking into but if they don't do you dollar stores near you? I would hit them and save a bundle. Also I didn't see the following: battery operated latern flashlights Umberlla picture handing materials 2 rolls of quarters [Edited 5/7/12 21:27pm] Prince's Sarah | |
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The more nights he spends at the dorm, the more money he will save (and you, if yo subsidize his lifestyle).
The guys who had nice T.V.s, computers, and (at that time, VCR) recorders, tended to stay in their dorms more than going out. I didn't have these things, so my entertainment was the bars and nightclubs---Even making as little money as I was back then, it wasn't unheard off for me to blow a few hundred in a week due to this. The guys who could find entertainment in their own dorms spent a fraction of this.
I would also buy him a whtie-noise generator They really work, and cancel out noise from outside the general listening area.
Dorms are noisy.
For those who don't know what white noise generators are, there are two kinds. the kind I'm talking about actually releases a low level sound that it outside of our hearing range. We don't perceive the sound, but it is a sound, and cancels out noises from outside our general area.
Several large corporations use it in their offices--you can have a conversation with someone near you, and someone 20 feet away will barely be able to hear mumbling because of them---yet, the office will sound quiet--almost earily quiet.
The other type, simple emits an 'ocean' sound which blocks out external noise. You hear a sound on that one though, and it's generally used for sleeping.
DO...NOT...GET...HIM....AN iPad....
I teach at a Uni, and students DO NOT use them for anything but ignoring lectures. | |
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Awesome! Glad I could help! College living is a big step, and it's good to get a handle on what you can before arriving because there are going to be so many other things that your son will have to think about (i.e. what classes to register for, where to study...). The last thing you want him to worry about is something like not having shower shoes! At the same time, it's OK if you can't cover all the bases. A lot of things you really won't be able to figure out until you're there, and if you realize after the fact that you actually needed something you didn't buy, you can always order it from Amazon. A huge part of the college/dorm experience is having your son figure these things out too. It's a pretty exciting time!
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Yes! A surge protector! Thanks! That was included in your list so I agree with you.
Speaking of cords, duct tape is good to have. Sometimes outlets are only on one side of a room so duct taping wires/cords to the ground will prevent tripping. | |
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^My condolences! Students will also use their phones and computers to not listen to lectures so there's no guarantee with technology. It ultimately is the student's loss if s/he isn't paying attention during lecture, and unfortunately, it's a lesson some need to learn the hard way. Academic advice is an entirely different thread, though. | |
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If they are going 2 school in an Urban area they might need a gun or at least a taser. | |
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Lots of places sell bedding for extra-long twin beds. Lands' End is one. (I bought flannel sheets and a fleece blanket for my niece as a graduation present.) We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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1) Ear Plugs
2) A bookcase, those books will pile up fast as hell. By my second year in college I had books stacked all over the place because I didn’t have enough shelf space
3) A removable drive, always handy when you can carry your files around. Plus, having his work backed up someplace other than his computer is always handy. He could also use Dropbox these days, but I still like to keep something extra just in case internet is not available.
4) The latest version of one of the writing handbooks (MLA, APA etc). I know it’s available online, but online leads to more distractions than necessary. If he can do some work without needing to be on the internet he may be able to get more work done.
5) One of those plastic kettle’s that heat water. Those were so fucking useful back when I was on campus. He doesn’t have to worry about cleaning it, as he can just rinse it, but it lets him make a quick cup of tea, coco, coffee, or soup without having to go out and purchase it.
6) Some kind of fold away laundry basket. These are cool because when he has dirty clothes it can sit out without looking weird, but when he’s done it can be folded away to save space.
7) Sandals for the shower. Those showers can be gross as fuck, foot fungus is not cute.
I get what people are saying about food being available on campus, especially with a meal plan, but having been there, I can tell you that the food isn’t always very good. There are also usually limited hours of operation, so when he’s up at 2am finishing that paper he should have already done, he’s going to need something easy to snack on. So some quick dry foods and snacks will be handy as well as 2 small plates, 2 small bowels, 2 cups, etc (one for him and at least a friend). Even if he doesn’t use them, they are there. "Aren't you even curious? Don't you want to see the dragon behind the door?" | |
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I totally agree about the food thing. A jar of peanut butter, crackers, instant soup or noodle bowls, nuts - any of these can be real lifesavers. I always had a little electric carafe for heating water, too (as you mention - we didn't have microwaves in our rooms back then). And I'd keep Cup o' Soup, hot chocolate, tea and instant coffee around all the time.
And a great big "yes" to earplugs. Hugely helpful. You never know when you're going to get a roommate who snores - or is just plain noisy. We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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Ending yr 2 with child #4
It's REALLY hit or miss on the small stuff
3 colleges in the past 5 yrs ( with last 2 kids ) "only our sheets will fit " was BS on all 3 schools
there are so many factors really
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Yeah, you need to get some twin xl sheets. The mattresses are longer than a regular twin bed. Don't order from the school The different things he will need will be much more inexpensive elsewhere. I bought everything at Bed Bath and Beyond, Target and Ikea when I dormed.
I think that everyone here has covered it pretty well, but again... EAR PLUGS!!! Oh lawd Girls especially are so damn loud. I probably averaged 2-3 hours hours of sleep per night because of it. I don't know how I lived through it.
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