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Is having sex chats with strangers in chatrooms cheating? Caught my partner texting this same guy he met in some chatroom.all sexual talk whilst our sex life is rubbish. He doesn't think it's cheating - just harmless fun. Is it worth splitting up over?
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If you think it is cheating and worth splitting up over, then it is.
But I don't think it's nearly as bad as actually sleeping with someone else. Emotional cheating does not carry risk of disease or pregnancy. We ogle porn and celebrities, so it's a bit of a gray area.
But it's your feelings that matter My Legacy
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And why is your sex life rubbish? Are you partly to blame for that? It does not excuse cheating, but it's something to think about. My Legacy
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So, they exchanged numbers and now have gone to texting instead of a chat room??? ~~~~~ Oh that voice...incredible....there should be a musical instrument called George Michael... ~~~~~ | |
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The fact that one person is having an issue and the other is not concerned about it is the issue. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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How many of those texts included pics of Peenie Weenies? 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Ex-Moderator | I wouldn't put up with it, but I also have made that clear to my bf. In my mind, if you wouldn't want your partner to know about it it's probably cheating.
If you haven't already talked about it, I'd explain how it makes you feel and talk through your expectations of each other. Whether or not you break up based on what's already happened is up to you. |
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IMO its cheating.. ESPECIALLY since they have now crossed over to exchanging phone numbers..
So sorry
[Edited 4/30/12 15:25pm] ~~~~~ Oh that voice...incredible....there should be a musical instrument called George Michael... ~~~~~ | |
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tinaz said:
So, they exchanged numbers and now have gone to texting instead of a chat room??? Yes. | |
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Thanks guys | |
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I agree with Tina... "Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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Im so sorry peppeken.. ~~~~~ Oh that voice...incredible....there should be a musical instrument called George Michael... ~~~~~ | |
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duh i have twitter .... just ask for it . | |
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Not good. | |
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run away. find someone cool enough for you | |
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^ sorry. inner child posting.
talk to your partner about how you feel. see if it is something he will work on with you | |
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This is a good point.
We all know sleeping with someone is cheating, but if you have not discussed what the lines are, some people might think flirting is okay, sexting is okay (I certainly think it's crossing the line!) or whatever. My Legacy
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NDRU said: And why is your sex life rubbish? Are you partly to blame for that? It does not excuse cheating, but it's something to think about. ... He can't get it up or come! | |
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It's not sounding good for this guy My Legacy
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If he wouldn't do it openly, with you there, or ask your permission beforehand, it's cheating.
Right?
That's how I've always looked at it. If he didn't want you to know about it or share in it with you then I think a line has been crossed. But that's just my two cents. | |
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maybe he needs a fucking poncho. bitches be all up on his dick, meaning, his dick be all up on it own dang self yeah!
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I think it's cheating too
the partners focus is distracted. I don't know. I think both are just as bad, but just different. The idea of someone you love having physically cheated 1nce vs Emotionally which tends to be an ongoing thing. Can probably hurt a person on the inside for a longer period of time that a 1 time hook up.
But that probably depends on the indivuals state of being too | |
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He can get it up
that probably means he is either masturbating or actually having sex with someone | |
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Yes Coming out of lurkdom in 2011 | |
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Thanks guys he is now dumped for good! | |
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Sorry.... but I agree with the above. Go with your gut feeling...... Only you know what you will tolerate. Good luck sweetie. | |
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