I realize everyone has problems , but when you go out to have a good time, leave the drama in hell or the household this constantly happens when i go out 7 my friend's(who are couples) Argue in front of everyone. It is awkward and... Just not needed after a long workweek when you want to have fun for a few hours. I had to endure name-calling, phone throwing 7 tears’ and for what????? i swear i love my boys, but they are so pussy whipped by some of these women. And the women get dickmatized by the guy It is just not necessary to advertise your issues for everyone in public especially when kids are around-_- So leave your situations at the door & get your ass on the dance floor!

And idk why that is in big black font oh well

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I don't go out with fighting couples... you have ONE time to do that shit in front of me.

paintedlady said:

I don't go out with fighting couples... you have ONE time to do that shit in front of me.

That is true, i have been cool about it for awhile. But once it involves phone throwing, tears & such!

Oh i forgot to mention, one time they brought there parents. And the parents got in a serious argument over why there was not enough chicken wings lawd

Gunsnhalen said:

paintedlady said:

I don't go out with fighting couples... you have ONE time to do that shit in front of me.

That is true, i have been cool about it for awhile. But once it involves phone throwing, tears & such!

Oh i forgot to mention, one time they brought there parents. And the parents got in a serious argument over why there was not enough chicken wings lawd

I would only go out with the original friend to lunch or keep the 'catching up' to strickly phone conversations only.

Some couples lack communication, so ground rules are never established ... and yes some people want their significant others to drop all 'single activity' once they are coupled up. So, this is why I never get upset at friends who choose to stop hanging out all together and just fly solo. because even when they go out together they still fight... its that lack of communication and 'ackright'.

Besides, you really can't chill with a person who has their mind on someone else the entire time.

That person doesn't know to have balance and couples that fight.... ah hell no...

I will not even go to their BBQ on a weekend if I know they get stupid with one another.

I am a bitch though, I call the police in a heartbeat :eveillol: and I had a friend try to bring her fight to my house with her guy once... she never did that again once I threatened to call the police on her and her man because I don't do drama. She never did that mess again.

Shit I don't allow my sister to bring her boyfriend over my crib... I don't care if they were togerther for years now, don't wanna know him or hear about the BS.

He's got bebe's kids too!? All hell naw, visit me alone or just call. I don't need to be around your argumentative guy or his rotten kids I wanna kick the shit outta.

Stay home heffa.

Seriously. You gotta set the tone with some of these people.

paintedlady said:

Gunsnhalen said:

That is true, i have been cool about it for awhile. But once it involves phone throwing, tears & such!

Oh i forgot to mention, one time they brought there parents. And the parents got in a serious argument over why there was not enough chicken wings lawd

I would only go out with the original friend to lunch or keep the 'catching up' to strickly phone conversations only.

Some couples lack communication, so ground rules are never established ... and yes some people want their significant others to drop all 'single activity' once they are coupled up. So, this is why I never get upset at friends who choose to stop hanging out all together and just fly solo. because even when they go out together they still fight... its that lack of communication and 'ackright'.

Besides, you really can't chill with a person who has their mind on someone else the entire time.

That person doesn't know to have balance and couples that fight.... ah hell no...

I will not even go to their BBQ on a weekend if I know they get stupid with one another.

I am a bitch though, I call the police in a heartbeat :eveillol: and I had a friend try to bring her fight to my house with her guy once... she never did that again once I threatened to call the police on her and her man because I don't do drama. She never did that mess again.

Shit I don't allow my sister to bring her boyfriend over my crib... I don't care if they were togerther for years now, don't wanna know him or hear about the BS.

He's got bebe's kids too!? All hell naw, visit me alone or just call. I don't need to be around your argumentative guy or his rotten kids I wanna kick the shit outta.

Stay home heffa.

Seriously. You gotta set the tone with some of these people.

love this. so damn true.

paintedlady said:

Gunsnhalen said:

That is true, i have been cool about it for awhile. But once it involves phone throwing, tears & such!

Oh i forgot to mention, one time they brought there parents. And the parents got in a serious argument over why there was not enough chicken wings lawd

I would only go out with the original friend to lunch or keep the 'catching up' to strickly phone conversations only.

Some couples lack communication, so ground rules are never established ... and yes some people want their significant others to drop all 'single activity' once they are coupled up. So, this is why I never get upset at friends who choose to stop hanging out all together and just fly solo. because even when they go out together they still fight... its that lack of communication and 'ackright'.

Besides, you really can't chill with a person who has their mind on someone else the entire time.

That person doesn't know to have balance and couples that fight.... ah hell no...

I will not even go to their BBQ on a weekend if I know they get stupid with one another.

I am a bitch though, I call the police in a heartbeat :eveillol: and I had a friend try to bring her fight to my house with her guy once... she never did that again once I threatened to call the police on her and her man because I don't do drama. She never did that mess again.

Shit I don't allow my sister to bring her boyfriend over my crib... I don't care if they were togerther for years now, don't wanna know him or hear about the BS.

He's got bebe's kids too!? All hell naw, visit me alone or just call. I don't need to be around your argumentative guy or his rotten kids I wanna kick the shit outta.

Stay home heffa.

Seriously. You gotta set the tone with some of these people.

Omg i love you paintedlady , i really need to follow these rules ASAP. And some people have the nerves to bitch about other couples i'm like you just threw your phone at your man & now he is crying and banging the table! stfu

But when parents do it to , and this same incident my friend Mike his mom yelled at his gf Malissa for being aggressive with him. When even parents gotta get in on it, i'm like you all need therapy or some GTFO pills there 9.99 at Target.

i think it's totally tacky and rude-ish-cious for any couple to argue in front of friends or strangers.

i remember once along time ago. i'm over at a friend's house. her and her man start arguing. i actually go into dry heaves. that is how uncomfortable i felt.

i immediately left. when i got home i called her (my friend) and told her how their arguing in front of me was inconsiderate. never visited them again. nada, never, no more visits from me to their house on hell blvd.

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Gunsnhalen said:

paintedlady said:

I would only go out with the original friend to lunch or keep the 'catching up' to strickly phone conversations only.

Some couples lack communication, so ground rules are never established ... and yes some people want their significant others to drop all 'single activity' once they are coupled up. So, this is why I never get upset at friends who choose to stop hanging out all together and just fly solo. because even when they go out together they still fight... its that lack of communication and 'ackright'.

Besides, you really can't chill with a person who has their mind on someone else the entire time.

That person doesn't know to have balance and couples that fight.... ah hell no...

I will not even go to their BBQ on a weekend if I know they get stupid with one another.

I am a bitch though, I call the police in a heartbeat :eveillol: and I had a friend try to bring her fight to my house with her guy once... she never did that again once I threatened to call the police on her and her man because I don't do drama. She never did that mess again.

Shit I don't allow my sister to bring her boyfriend over my crib... I don't care if they were togerther for years now, don't wanna know him or hear about the BS.

He's got bebe's kids too!? All hell naw, visit me alone or just call. I don't need to be around your argumentative guy or his rotten kids I wanna kick the shit outta.

Stay home heffa.

Seriously. You gotta set the tone with some of these people.

Omg i love you paintedlady , i really need to follow these rules ASAP. And some people have the nerves to bitch about other couples i'm like you just threw your phone at your man & now he is crying and banging the table! stfu

But when parents do it to , and this same incident my friend Mike his mom yelled at his gf Malissa for being aggressive with him. When even parents gotta get in on it, i'm like you all need therapy or some GTFO pills there 9.99 at Target.

Now see... dem fukkas think that mess is NORMAL if the parents do it too.

If I were you... I'd be like

"Deeze be da rulez!!!"

1. Only (original friend) can come ova my crib, not the both of you bitches. And only for coffee, you have a 30 minute time limit/week at my crib until you can prove you are mentally stable, I can only take that hot mess in small doses.

2. If there is a problem with either of you, I don't wanna know about it. Work it out amongst yourselves.

3. I don't ever want to be around your parents, ever. Never ever. Yup... I said never.

4. I will only meet up with guys in a public setting on neutral ground were you guys can not throw sharp objects at eachother. There must be an activity involved to get the focus off what ever you two are thinking of.

5. Those are MY rules...don't like em' keep steppin'.... oh, and please take an anger management course.

The parents too.... SHM

free2bfreeda said:

i think it's totally tacky and rude-ish-cious for any couple to argue in front of friends or strangers.

i remember once along time ago. i'm over at a friend's house. her and her man start arguing. i actually go into dry heaves. that is how uncomfortable i felt.

i immediately left. when i got home i called her (my friend) and told her how their arguing in front of me was inconsiderate. never visited them again. nada, never, no more visits from me to their house on hell blvd.

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IKR?!! Seriously, no kinda ackright!

Um hello... we innocent civilians are not a part of your domestic war, so keep that mess to yourselves thanks you.

paintedlady said:

Now see... dem fukkas think that mess is NORMAL if the parents do it too.

If I were you... I'd be like

"Deeze be da rulez!!!"

1. Only (original friend) can come ova my crib, not the both of you bitches. And only for coffee, you have a 30 minute time limit/week at my crib until you can prove you are mentally stable, I can only take that hot mess in small doses.

2. If there is a problem with either of you, I don't wanna know about it. Work it out amongst yourselves.

3. I don't ever want to be around your parents, ever. Never ever. Yup... I said never.

4. I will only meet up with guys in a public setting on neutral ground were you guys can not throw sharp objects at eachother. There must be an activity involved to get the focus off what ever you two are thinking of.

5. Those are MY rules...don't like em' keep steppin'.... oh, and please take an anger management course.

The parents too.... SHM

Normally when the disrespect has become so severe between two people that they fight in public, it's a sign that the end is very near, however, you do have some mentally disturbed fools (on both sides) where they just keep arguing and stay together just to argue.

Nope I don't like to be around that nonsense either. If there's somewhere for me to walk away, I will, or I'll just leave. I don't care if I just arrived and only been at an event or outing for 5 minutes. I can take my happy ass elsewhere by my damn self and have a good time rather than sit and be miserable because a bunch of idiots don't have any better sense than to dish their personal relationship business in front of others.

I had to tell my friend I would no longer go out with her and her then husband anymore because I felt so uncomfortable. Saying shit like "I fucking hate you" is so not appropriate to do behind closed doors in a relationship let alone in front of the world, including your child.

She got offended when I told her I would no longer go out with them together. And then she didn't call me for awhile, mostly because I think she was embarrassed. They're not together anymore and even though I feel bad they have to go through a divorce, it's a relief to not have to be around their constant bitching, except for when my friend decides to start a screaming match with him over speaker phone in the car.

P.S. It's moments like these that make me so thankful to be single.

JuliePurplehead said:

I had to tell my friend I would no longer go out with her and her then husband anymore because I felt so uncomfortable. Saying shit like "I fucking hate you" is so not appropriate to do behind closed doors in a relationship let alone in front of the world, including your child.

She got offended when I told her I would no longer go out with them together. And then she didn't call me for awhile, mostly because I think she was embarrassed. They're not together anymore and even though I feel bad they have to go through a divorce, it's a relief to not have to be around their constant bitching, except for when my friend decides to start a screaming match with him over speaker phone in the car.

P.S. It's moments like these that make me so thankful to be single.

Amen to that!

JuliePurplehead said:

I had to tell my friend I would no longer go out with her and her then husband anymore because I felt so uncomfortable. Saying shit like "I fucking hate you" is so not appropriate to do behind closed doors in a relationship let alone in front of the world, including your child.

She got offended when I told her I would no longer go out with them together. And then she didn't call me for awhile, mostly because I think she was embarrassed. They're not together anymore and even though I feel bad they have to go through a divorce, it's a relief to not have to be around their constant bitching, except for when my friend decides to start a screaming match with him over speaker phone in the car.

P.S. It's moments like these that make me so thankful to be single.

As shitty as it is sometimes...I don't miss the constant bitching and the drama.

Nothing wrong with a bit of arg'in. It just shows you care!

AsherFierce said:

Nothing wrong with a bit of arg'in. It just shows you care!

WHAT

Perhaps, but in public? with tera, insults, fuckertm cell phones thrown & everything else. That is called no home training

Couples That Fuck In Public

I dig'em

I don't care what your issues are....keep that s**t at your own home. I stopped dealing w/negative people who act like asses cuz I won't allow anyone to disturb or block my positive ions.

JuliePurplehead said:

I had to tell my friend I would no longer go out with her and her then husband anymore because I felt so uncomfortable. Saying shit like "I fucking hate you" is so not appropriate to do behind closed doors in a relationship let alone in front of the world, including your child.

She got offended when I told her I would no longer go out with them together. And then she didn't call me for awhile, mostly because I think she was embarrassed. They're not together anymore and even though I feel bad they have to go through a divorce, it's a relief to not have to be around their constant bitching, except for when my friend decides to start a screaming match with him over speaker phone in the car.

P.S. It's moments like these that make me so thankful to be single.

Exactly.

It's always entertaining watching couples fight on public transportation. Then one of them moves to the other end of the subway. Great for a few laughs.

To reduce a relationship to something as simple one being pussy whipped or dickmizited is infantile.. at best. But that's not the jest of the topic.

I'm convinced some couples get off on this dumb mess... fighting in public, these fools crave an audience. Anywho... I remove myself from the situtation. I've asked people to leave my home and I've left couples/friends wherever who've clowned in public. As paintedlady said, you have one time to pull that type of stunt. I do understand how arguments can get beyond "your door" but if you can't let it go or resolve it before you go out, keep yo' az at home.

TD3 said:

To reduce a relationship to something as simple one being pussy whipped or dickmizited is infantile.. at best.

...and yet...unfortunately...many of us know people who are most definitely pussy-whipped or dickmitized, at best.

uPtoWnNY said:

It's always entertaining watching couples fight on public transportation. Then one of them moves to the other end of the subway. Great for a few laughs.

and more!

(subway bystander says, "and don't be using up my oxygen yous twos nuckle heads!")

kewlschool said:

Will Smiff & Jada don't.

That is so trashy fighting in public. I was raised to cut my eyes at the other person while in public and quietly say..."Wait till I get your ass home". You just don't act a fool in public. It's just something you don't do. Even down to when I was a child in public and showing my ass. True enough, a child doesn't know better, but many a time, my grandmother would pinch my arm in public and say...."Do you want to go in the ladies room with me".....I knew what that meant. It meant that once I got in the ladies room, I was getting my little ass beat. But even in those public instances when it was needed, she didn't do all out in the open in front of everyone.

vainandy said:

That is so trashy fighting in public. I was raised to cut my eyes at the other person while in public and quietly say..."Wait till I get your ass home". You just don't act a fool in public. It's just something you don't do. Even down to when I was a child in public and showing my ass. True enough, a child doesn't know better, but many a time, my grandmother would pinch my arm in public and say...."Do you want to go in the ladies room with me".....I knew what that meant. It meant that once I got in the ladies room, I was getting my little ass beat. But even in those public instances when it was needed, she didn't do all out in the open in front of everyone.

My mom snatched my ass out of church a couple times when I was a kid.

Genesia said:

vainandy said:

That is so trashy fighting in public. I was raised to cut my eyes at the other person while in public and quietly say..."Wait till I get your ass home". You just don't act a fool in public. It's just something you don't do. Even down to when I was a child in public and showing my ass. True enough, a child doesn't know better, but many a time, my grandmother would pinch my arm in public and say...."Do you want to go in the ladies room with me".....I knew what that meant. It meant that once I got in the ladies room, I was getting my little ass beat. But even in those public instances when it was needed, she didn't do all out in the open in front of everyone.

My mom snatched my ass out of church a couple times when I was a kid.

The fights we had were at home before church because I didn't want to go because it was sooooooo boring. Once we got there, I'd be bored and swinging my legs under the pew and she'd give me that little pinch and I'd stop it. That pinch was like her code of what was going to happen later if I didn't stop.

vainandy said:

Genesia said:

My mom snatched my ass out of church a couple times when I was a kid.

The fights we had were at home before church because I didn't want to go because it was sooooooo boring. Once we got there, I'd be bored and swinging my legs under the pew and she'd give me that little pinch and I'd stop it. That pinch was like her code of what was going to happen later if I didn't stop.

When my sisters and I were little, we wore hats to church. They had this little elastic thread to help keep them on. You were supposed to put that under your hair in back - instead of a hatpin - but we always put it under our chin.

Well, one day during church, I reached over to my sister and snapped that elastic under her chin. She let out a howl and my mom had me out in the parking lot quicker than you can say, "Thanks be to God."