JustErin said:

This thread should be doing better.

JustErin said:

This thread should be doing better.

It should. It´s a sex thread in GD.

JustErin said:

jon1967 said:

is that what ppl are in it for ?

In what? Sex?

What other reason is there?

So having an orgasm is the only thing that you get out of having sex?

Serious said:

JustErin said:

In what? Sex?

What other reason is there?

So having an orgasm is the only thing that you get out of having sex?

"we don't have to have sex to have an orgasm"

KingBAD said:

I can still enjoy sex without an orgasm but an orgasm is much much nicer. Just sayin'

Sex without orgasm = frozen cheese pizza

Sex with orgasm = fresh baked pizza with the cheese, the meat, the peppers and all that other good stuff.

HotGritz said:

I can still enjoy sex without an orgasm but an orgasm is much much nicer. Just sayin'

Sex without orgasm = frozen cheese pizza

Sex with orgasm = fresh baked pizza with the cheese, the meat, the peppers and all that other good stuff.

I agree that orgasms are great, but I enjoy the "way to my orgasms" so much too. If I had to choose between only having orgasms without all the rest of the sex or only sex without having orgasms I would choose the sex without orgasms.

Serious said:

JustErin said:

Serious said:

So having an orgasm is the only thing that you get out of having sex?

It is the reason to have it. For my orgasm and his...for our pleasure

I would still enjoy sex a lot without coming, the whole thing is pleasure, not just my or his orgasms. Even though yes it is kinda frustrating if for whatever reason I don't come. And if he would not come it would be even more frustrating I guess. But it's not that when I come 5 times the sex is 5 times better than when I come one time.

I'd say ultimately we are responsible for our own, because it happens in our own bodies and we have to allow it to happen.

The other person (in the tradition of all great vices) is simply an enabler

Serious said:

JustErin said:

Serious said: It is the reason to have it. For my orgasm and his...for our pleasure

I would still enjoy sex a lot without coming, the whole thing is pleasure, not just my or his orgasms. Even though yes it is kinda frustrating if for whatever reason I don't come. And if he would not come it would be even more frustrating I guess. But it's not that when I come 5 times the sex is 5 times better than when I come one time.

i could not handle that. the idea of my man not coming is just wrong. i would love to orgasm but even if I don't, i'd like to know he did because guess what. IT WILL KEEP HIM COMING BACK!

HotGritz said:

Serious said:

I would still enjoy sex a lot without coming, the whole thing is pleasure, not just my or his orgasms. Even though yes it is kinda frustrating if for whatever reason I don't come. And if he would not come it would be even more frustrating I guess. But it's not that when I come 5 times the sex is 5 times better than when I come one time.

i could not handle that. the idea of my man not coming is just wrong. i would love to orgasm but even if I don't, i'd like to know he did because guess what. IT WILL KEEP HIM COMING BACK!

There are plenty of men who won't keep cummin back, nut or no nut. Also, just because he's

nuttin with you don't mean he ain't nuttin with someone else as well. I hate it when we talk about

men cummin back to us as if it all depends on whether we bang him like screen door caught

in a hurricane. We can give him that good pussy all night and still get burned.

I'm no martyr, if I can't get off when I'm with you there is something wrong. If you want me

to keep cummin back the same rules apply. The idea of my partner, man or woman, not cummin

kills me, but the idea of ME not cummin should matter just as much, or more, to my partner. The

min my partner starts to act like a one sided nut aint a thang I'm gone.

I'm always really all over the place with these kinds of questions.

My orgasm is on me, for the most part.

It IS my job to tell you whats working for me and whats not, I can't expect you to be a mind

reader or just KNOW that I need you to pull my hair and spank my ass while you ride me like

were racing in the kentucky derby.

It IS my job to move my body in ways that enhance my pleasure.

It IS my job to make sure my mind is in the right place to get off...

and it IS my job to be honest about where my mind is and the fact that I may not always get off.

That doen't mean I won't fuck you, like someone already said, sex can be good without the nut.

BUT, if you can't keep it up beyond two-five pumps, were going to have to work on that.

If you're not willing to be open minded about what I need, don't go crying to your friends when

I come home smelling like hot pussy.

Don't ask me what I'm thinking about if you can't handle ANY possible answer.

If you can't talk about sex like you're grown, don't expect me to fuck you like you're grown.

In a way, we are responsible for each other.

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mm yes pls

i enjoy this responsibility

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