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Emotionless communication You know, emails, texts, IMs, etc...
I swear texts have led to more arguments than anything else I've ever dealt with. The lack of emotion or tone in a simple sentence can create complete chaos.
It's crazy how a simple word like "sure" can be interpreted in a bunch of different ways.
I think I'm going to swear off texting! | |
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yup, although to be honest it only ever happened with ONE particular person who obviously jumped to a lot of conclusions and I was always back-pedalling and in the end it was way too exhausting to keep that shit up
anyone I text/chat with now are normal and know I would never say anything that was meant to intentionally hurt them. We can laugh off misunderstandings a whore in sheep's clothing | |
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I have to admit that I'm guilty of doing this lately just as much back.
Fucking sucks.
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99.9% of everything I say is strictly for my own entertainment | |
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No pic, dork.
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99.9% of everything I say is strictly for my own entertainment | |
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Look who's popular??
Anyway, why are my threads doing so poorly lately?
This shit always happens every year or so. I guess it's when the newest crop of orgers realize that they hate me too. | |
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i think it's any type of social media that can lead 2 that. just look at how many "fights" happen on the org because it's really just text. no vocal chords 2 hear the tone in words
but this won't change i hope in getting this across ..erin u make me
heheheh man, he has such an amazing body of music that it's sad to see him constrict it down to the basics. he's too talented for the lineup he's doing. estelle 81 | |
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WE LOVE YOU ERIN!!!! personaly i just wanna fuck the taste out yo mouth and be done BUT, HI BABY!!! i am KING BAD!!!
you are NOT... STOP ME IF YOU HEARD THIS BEFORE... | |
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"The problem with texting seems to be that you can't see the face of the person who is text messaging you nor can you hear the tone in their voice." “Transracial is a term that has long since been defined as the adoption of a child that is of a different race than the adoptive parents,” : https://thinkprogress.org...fb6e18544a | |
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I'm not sure I know what this thread is about,
I wouldn't mind fucking Erin, I guess.
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Haha!
It's picked up!
Who else would like to fuck me? With emotion or without, doesn't matter. | |
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long as we're not bein emotional an shit i ain't one for three ways, but we can tag team that ass 'til she get a better look at life, THEN I'M OUT she might try to get klinggy, you know" i am KING BAD!!!
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man, he has such an amazing body of music that it's sad to see him constrict it down to the basics. he's too talented for the lineup he's doing. estelle 81 | |
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Oh gurl. | |
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oh i know!!!!!!!! i have been there so many times ~ and mostly with the same person
if they r shitty they read what u write with the same attitude and it just messes every thing up
person 2 person is soooooooooo much better
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I hate texting. If you want to drop a short, coherent piece of information and don't expect more than maybe a short answer, a text message will do. If you want to start a conversation, fucking call them! I hate "helloooo, how are you " texts and I never answer them. In fact, I will probably avoid these people in real life too.
On the org, I also wish that we could see each others faces and hear each others voices more often, when we discuss things. I'm quite sure it would have spared me (and a lot of other people) quite some trouble, misunderstanding and a weird image.
If I really get to know someone through the internet and I actually seem to like them, my main goal is usually to meet them some day (like I did with Viv, Lisa, Phil and Val and so on, or like I will do with Herman and Iwan soon, for instance), but I also got to know some people who I really got a long with, but didn't met yet and who I'm fine with talking on the internet only. The distance makes it easier to trust and share and I quite fancy it that way. Of course, talking to someone on the net only requires both people to go the extra mile to understand the other one and to assume that the other one's intentions are positive only. | |
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I've seen this happen just by being on the org!
It's surprising how people can often misunderstand each other when you don't have tone of voice or accompanying body language working in conjunction with the words. In another forum I belong to, it's always shocking how harsh the blog founder comes across in her posts, but when you hear her speak ( via chat videos created specifically for members), she's the biggest sweetheart with the kindest nature. I rarely text or IM unless it's to confirm an appointment wit someone. | |
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TEXT??? TEXT???
i thought this was about emotionless SEX, you know, none o that fucktalk while gettin a grind on i am KING BAD!!!
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Absolutely agree with you on this one. | |
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i don't text. i just come out and tell my friends not to waste my time with that. lots of people i know are the same way and we avoid a lot of pointless aggravation in this fashion. so, to sum up, hahahahaha to those of you who let yourselves in for this mess.. *
*signed, cranky old git | |
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that's why i use www.tango.me so i can do face to face with my daughters. they don't get to make faces i can't see i am KING BAD!!!
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The lack of "emotion" as you call it, in printed text, has led to quite a few arguments here on the Org as well.
By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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well fuck you too... oh, that's not whut you meant, nevermind i am KING BAD!!!
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By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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well now, is this how it's gonna be with you? i demand that if you gonna say somethin like that that we be able to understand it. THIS IS AMERIKKKA DAMNIT!!! i am KING BAD!!!
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