These fools have me down to a tee. I couldn't describe my self ANY better. Really!

Openess:
Like someone who can sleep comfortably on either side of the bed, you are equally at home with ideas andbeliefs thatyouhave held fora longtimeandwithnewways of thinkingandbelieving thatgrowoutofyour intellectualcuriosity.

Your sense ofwhoyouareandwhatyour place isintheworldaround yourestson values andprinciplesthatarethesolid groundyouwalkupon.You'vetested them, they work for you,andmuch ofthetimeyouarecontenttotrustthem,thatis,until some provocative new idea slips in from a conversation, book or some flight ofyour active imagination."Hmmmm.What'sthis.Never thoughtofitbefore." Andoffyougo, exploring.

Since you love to learn, you've alwaysbeenteachable;youabsorbnewinformation, which means you are well-educated in thingsthatmatter toyou.Sometimes your intellectual exploring will lead you back to where you started; the"nextnewthing" proves tooshalloworimpractical to you. But once in a while a new idea or belief will dislodge you from thegroundyou've stoodupon;itissocompellingandpersuasive thatyoustepaway from thetried-and-trueandembrace this notionthatisbrandnew to you.

Because you hold both solid beliefs and are open to new ideas, you are accepting of other peopleandother ways of thinking and believing. You are flexible enoughto listen to something new and different, or something outside of your comfort zone; if it works for you,you'll take it in,and if not,you'll let it go.In this sense,you know who you are: you are neither closed-minded nor wildly open-minded, but walk some where near the middle of the intellectual road.

Agreeable:

You are important. So are other people, especially if they are in trouble.You have a tender heart,but you know how to establish and keep personal boundaries.You are empathetic and compassionate, but you also believe that it's best if people solve their own problems and learn to take care of themselves,if they areable.

Youare deeply moved by the needs of others, but you know that if you don't take good care of yourself,you'll wind up being of no use to anyone. So yours is a thoughtful compassion. You strive to bef air and sensible,taking care of others while also taking care of yourself.

When someone really is in trouble, you like to collaborate with them toward a solution; they dotheir part,you do yours. You consider carefully, and respond in a sensible way; they do their part,and together you move through the difficulty.

You seldom act impulsively; rather,when a problem arises, you take your time to think through the situation.This contemplative quality usually means that you'll arrive at a diplomatic solution, one that's fair for the other person and also fair to you. It's frequently a win/win situation.

Extroverted:

Lucky you! Youenjoy your own company as much as you enjoy the company of others. Youare a great conversationalist and thrive in the wonderful kinds of connections you knowhowto have withyour family andfriends.Youalsoequally enjoy your own company, whether sittingina favorite chair withyour bookandsoftmusic playingor meandering in thewoodsby yourself. You like coming home to your family or your roommate;but if no oneishome,youfindquiet,solitary timetobejust as pleasurable. What a great combination to enjoy being outgoing and to be just as comfortable being reserved. Lucky you!!

Because you are so amiable and relaxed, you are comfortable with almost any group of family or friends. Whether they are pumped up and lively or calm and subdued, you remain at ease. If someone needs to take over the conversation, you are comfortable takingthelead;youcanalsolay backandletsomeoneelsebeincharge.Ifthe conversationgetsrowdy,your moderatedemeanor willoftendrawitdowntoa more temperate level.Ifsomeoneinthegrouplosestheircool, youwillmostlikely maintain your poise, andifthey get nasty youknowhowtokeepa civil tongue.

Youmay findyourselfoutofbalanceonoccasion. Ifyou're alone toomuch,youmay need to get in touchwithsomeone. Ifyouspendtoomuch timewithyour family and friends, you may need to sneak off for a day by yourself, to putter and read and clear your headof thenoise of toomuch conversation. Whenyou're atyour best,youlive with a rhythm oftimewithothers,timealone,timewithothers,timealone It'sa satisfying, comfortable balance. Lucky you!

conscientiousness:

When there'sa job to be done, like most people you want to know what the goal is and when it's to be completed. For you, that's a start. Next you want to know what the plan is to get to the goal.So you lay outa plan, or at least the major points of a plan: "Organize the kitchen sometime this spring" or"Get the project at work done as soon as possible." You don't need an in-depth specification of every little detail; in fact you prefer notto work thatway.Youlay outyour goals,developa generalplan,andthen you get thingsdone.

Youbelieve inintuitionas well as organization.Assuch,youtrustimpulses as much as strategies andyou value spontaneity as much as youdoefficiency. Ina word,you like to keep it flexible. When you set out to accomplish a task, you prefer to have some room to maneuver. Like an artist, you find that the best way to reacha goal is notalways in a straight line. Some of the most productivetimes foryouarethe unplannedmoments ofinspiration and creativity thatjust come toyou.Whileyoudo keep to a general plan, those times of pure vision and originality are what really drive you.

Some of the people who rely completely on an organized approach to getting things donemay besurprised at your efficiency. But there is a definite method to your approach. With a creative flair that others may not have anticipated, the original plan gets met and there are often a few extra accomplishments along the way. Your comfort zone starts with a taskand a plan but it alsorequiresthefreedom tobeable to go with your instincts and impulses so that you can not just accomplish the task, you also have the option to explore something brand new along the way.


Emotional Stability:

In some ways, you've got the best of emotional worlds. When emotions rise upfrom inside you or are brought forth from a conversation by a friend, you know how to engage them. You deal with sadness, fear, joy, anger - whatever comes up - in ways that are perceptive and flexible. You can adapt to whatever level of emotion is appropriate to the moment. At other times, you are able to cope with your emotions in a more reserved manner.Because you are aware of what does and does not make emotional sense in a particular situation, you will decide when it is an appropriate time to express your emotions and when it would be best to keep them to yourself.

All of this gives you a rich emotionallife. You are free to express your passionsabout certain subjects with appropriate people. But you are also emotionally adaptable; if the conversation needs to be more cerebral, you'll keep it "inyour head" and talk calmly through whatever issue is on the table.This emotional awareness serves you well. You seldom get in over your head, either by opening up to the wrong person or by triggering in someone else's emotions they may not be able to deal with.




Do these follow the fortune-teller.concept of just saying things about someone that they'd like to be true....or are the actually accurate and true assesments of me based in accurately and true studies of.personalities.


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Don't they hate the gays?

That site gives me the eebie jeebies.

JustErin said:

I unno...maybe, nothing screamed out a hate for tune, they didn't have rainbows all over the place either. it kinda gives me the heebie jeebies too...didn't really use it after I did all the set up crap...cost too much damn money.




Any other eharminy users feel their assesments were eeriely accurate. Kinda overly positive...they didn't take any time to point out the negative aspects of my profile. I guess positivity is their focus though, that's appropriate.
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What kind of info did you give them?

Was it this part ?"

Free Personality Profile

Receive your Free Personality Profile and get matched just by taking our Relationship Questionnaire."?

Nothing screamed out hate for the gays because gays are not mentioned or allowed on the site at all.

They do strictly male for female matching.

KoolEaze said:

It was some like 200 question questionaire

And these assessments can insinuate the negative aspects of "U"...but it doesn't spell them out at all...neither will I.

Spinlight said:

Ain't nothing worng with that...no?

BobGeorge909 said:

Spinlight said:

Nothing screamed out hate for the gays because gays are not mentioned or allowed on the site at all.

They do strictly male for female matching.

Ain't nothing worng with that...no?

Not to me, no, but I know it is a sticking point for some gays.

Nevermind the fact we have literally endless amounts of sites centered around gay men (not lesbians).

Spinlight said:

Nothing screamed out hate for the gays because gays are not mentioned or allowed on the site at all.

They do strictly male for female matching.

They do have a link though that takes you to a site for gays and lesbians:

http://www.compatiblepartners.net/eHarmony/

KoolEaze said:

Spinlight said:

Nothing screamed out hate for the gays because gays are not mentioned or allowed on the site at all.

They do strictly male for female matching.

They do have a link though that takes you to a site for gays and lesbians:

http://www.compatiblepartners.net/eHarmony/

Ah, looks like this is a new development resulting from a class action lawsuit in 2010.

Now we just need to convert Chik-fil-a!

Oops...double post
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BobGeorge909 said:

Spinlight said:

Nothing screamed out hate for the gays because gays are not mentioned or allowed on the site at all.

They do strictly male for female matching.

Ain't nothing worng with that...no?

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Is this deja vu?