PurpleJedi said:

Tittypants said:

Nothing. I'd just go on with my life & avoid talking to/coming in contact with that person. I'm not into revenge like that. Two wrongs don't make a right......

My philosphy on the matter.

Yeah, I could've taken her toothbrush and scrubbed my butthole with it, and I had a strong urge to pour bleach all over her lover's clothes that I recently found neatly folded in my old drawer...

...but ultimately what does it gain me?

I rather just go on with my life and try to avoid her as much as humanly possible (have to see her at least twice a week, sometimes four, depending on what my schedule with the kids is).

She can and will be replaced. My dignity however...not so easy to replace.

I'm happy you've decided not to stoop that low [even though I am certain you can't stand you ex-wife ]. Of course I've never been in your situation, but it's nice to know someone can fight those urges for something like that....

This stank bitch I thought was my friend calls herself running her mouth about me behind my back. I get a call from a REAL friend who tells me what's up. I immediately cut the bitch out of my life without even telling her why, but she knows exactly why I stopped talking to her because she comes to my apartment with FAKE ASS TEARS (fake to me, at least ) in her eyes talking some bullshit like I shouldn't believe everything I hear and that I should have checked with her first. And guess what, I don't say a fucking word to her, NOT ONE. She finally gets the hint and leaves. I'm thinking I won't ever hear from her again, but this persistant bitch sends me a three-page long text message basically about how she doesn't want or friendship to end and blah blah blah. NO REPLY, and I delete her number from my phone. AND THEN THE BITCH STILL WON'T STOP, she calls the my friend who told me what she said about me and basically calls her a liar. Mind you, my friend is ghetto fabulous and doesn't take too kindly to being called a liar, so they get into a huge fight on facebook and the lying bitch almost got her windows shot up .

So anyways, the day I cut that bitch out of my life is the day my life drastically improved. I should have never became friends with her in the first place, but we live and learn I suppose. It's very upsetting when people think you're her friends go behind your back and lie about you. But I'm better off now, and because of what that bitch did I'll always keep my guard up from now on.

Me...I"m normally not a spiteful person. But that doesn't mean I don't have thoughts about it.

The first insitinct I get when I'm hurt is..."Beat that ASS!". But I rarely ever act out on it. Although getting mental images of me beating their ass makes me feel somewhat better.

I normally just walk away and cut them out of my life. Never speak to them again. Just leave.

And live well. That's the best revenge.

ThruTheEyesOfWonder said:

And live well. That's the best revenge.