i was talking 2 my neighbour this afternoon and he confessed 2 me how he urinated on his ex wife's car just out of spite

i dont get why he would do this, he seems like an ok person

or maybe its just that i dont know 2 many ppl.....

so anyway tell me what the nastiest thing is that u have u done out of spite????

and.... do u think it helps get over the hurt????

my x left some thing behind that he treasures

I've hit people out of spite; including friends.

Then I learned to first control my anger, and then to find ways not to become angry as easily. Now I don't act out of spite or anger.

Dave1992 said:

I've hit people out of spite; including friends.

Then I learned to first control my anger, and then to find ways not to become angry as easily. Now I don't act out of spite or anger.

thats a good sign of maturity..... i tend 2 let things go and never worry about revenge ~ the way i c it karma is always around the corner!!!

i just dont get it... what did he accomplish by peeing on her tyres like a stray dog???? i'm still shocked!!!!!

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I didn't do this myself mind you...

But I knew someone who told me he was so mad at some girl he hated that he scrubbed the toilet with her toothbrush and then put it back in the cabinet.

I made sure never to make him angry at me.

noimageatall said:

I didn't do this myself mind you...

But I knew someone who told me he was so mad at some girl he hated that he scrubbed the toilet with her toothbrush and then put it back in the cabinet.

I made sure never to make him angry at me.

i was actually paranoid that my x was doing this 2 me!!!

so every day n night i would take my 'spare' one into the bathroom 2 use

when he left i threw the suspect one away

ThisOne said:

noimageatall said:

I didn't do this myself mind you...

But I knew someone who told me he was so mad at some girl he hated that he scrubbed the toilet with her toothbrush and then put it back in the cabinet.

I made sure never to make him angry at me.

i was actually paranoid that my x was doing this 2 me!!!

so every day n night i would take my 'spare' one into the bathroom 2 use

when he left i threw the suspect one away

That might be why I always keep my toothbrush in a safe place in my bedroom.

noimageatall said:

ThisOne said:

i was actually paranoid that my x was doing this 2 me!!!

so every day n night i would take my 'spare' one into the bathroom 2 use

when he left i threw the suspect one away

That might be why I always keep my toothbrush in a safe place in my bedroom.

Nothing. I'd just go on with my life & avoid talking to/coming in contact with that person. I'm not into revenge like that. Two wrongs don't make a right......

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Tittypants said:

Nothing. I'd just go on with my life & avoid talking to/coming in contact with that person. I'm not into revenge like that. Two wrongs don't make a right......

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me 2 thats how i am!!!!

mind u...... i do have a special brew 4 the beer cups he left behind

ThisOne said:

Tittypants said:

Nothing. I'd just go on with my life & avoid talking to/coming in contact with that person. I'm not into revenge like that. Two wrongs don't make a right......

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me 2 thats how i am!!!!

mind u...... i do have a special brew 4 the beer cups he left behind

Unfortunately, if somebody hurts me to the point of revenge, it is likely that I cannot seriously rule anything out. Out of the need not to incriminate myself....I'll just say i haven't killed anybody to my knowledge.

It also depends on what was done...everything is not worth the attention. Taking a pen from my desk is not the same as trying to physically hurt a family member.

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I'm usually subtle when I want to hurt the person who has hurt me. It always been more satisfying to me to have the person all confused and wondering what the hell happened way after I've done whatever it is to them. I can be extremely calculating and cunning when I want to.

Slashing tires, pouring bleach on clothes and throwing them out the window, crank calling their job that mess is way too easy and attracts way too much attention, not to mention wastes too much energy and YOU end up looking like the fool. I use as less energy on the person as possible.

Tittypants said:

Nothing. I'd just go on with my life & avoid talking to/coming in contact with that person. I'm not into revenge like that. Two wrongs don't make a right......

My philosphy on the matter.

Yeah, I could've taken her toothbrush and scrubbed my butthole with it, and I had a strong urge to pour bleach all over her lover's clothes that I recently found neatly folded in my old drawer...

...but ultimately what does it gain me?

I rather just go on with my life and try to avoid her as much as humanly possible (have to see her at least twice a week, sometimes four, depending on what my schedule with the kids is).

She can and will be replaced. My dignity however...not so easy to replace.

PurpleJedi said:

Tittypants said:

Nothing. I'd just go on with my life & avoid talking to/coming in contact with that person. I'm not into revenge like that. Two wrongs don't make a right......

My philosphy on the matter.

Yeah, I could've taken her toothbrush and scrubbed my butthole with it, and I had a strong urge to pour bleach all over her lover's clothes that I recently found neatly folded in my old drawer...

...but ultimately what does it gain me?

I rather just go on with my life and try to avoid her as much as humanly possible (have to see her at least twice a week, sometimes four, depending on what my schedule with the kids is).

She can and will be replaced. My dignity however...not so easy to replace.

To both posts.

I grew up with people that would "one up" me if I were to get back at them in any way. They would escalate things to an extreme, so I didn't want to have to stab a sibling over the last slice of cheese.

I would just let them have at it, fighting over the ridiculous was just a waste of time. In time their own selfishness would allow them to reap what they would sow and they would be the means to their own self-destruction and misery.

When I was a teen I was mean for a bit, but never to anyone who didn't already have it coming. I never hit anyone unless it was out of self-defense.

So, I am not one to try to get even because if I do its like engaging in some sort of co-miseration and I can't get caught into that whole "crab in a barrel" life style... heck, I run from people with that type of drama now.

The best part is that I am teaching my kids to stay away from spiteful people. They are awesome and kind and compassionate, and if someone doesn't treat them right then I teach them to move on and give of themselves to people who deserve their time and love.

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ThisOne said:

so anyway tell me what the nastiest thing is that u have u done out of spite????

Cut mfers out of my life completely - they become 'dead' to me - I don't acknowledge their existence.

uPtoWnNY said:

ThisOne said:

so anyway tell me what the nastiest thing is that u have u done out of spite????

Cut mfers out of my life completely - they become 'dead' to me - I don't acknowledge their existence.

Yep! That's the best revenge you can possibly take on someone, especially if they have an over-inflated ego.

uPtoWnNY said:

ThisOne said:

so anyway tell me what the nastiest thing is that u have u done out of spite????

Cut mfers out of my life completely - they become 'dead' to me - I don't acknowledge their existence.

That goes without saying for certain members of my ex's family who thought they'd benefit (personally and financially) from my divorce and who helped stir shit up on both sides to expedite the process.

Not only did I fuck up their plans, but the only communication they get from me is via unnecessarily-detailed (as in "long-ass") letters to their lawyer, which they get billed for to sit and read.

If I never speak to them for the rest of my natural life, I will be JUST FINE.

uPtoWnNY said:

ThisOne said:

so anyway tell me what the nastiest thing is that u have u done out of spite????

Cut mfers out of my life completely - they become 'dead' to me - I don't acknowledge their existence.

...and that usually hurts the most . Spite and all the energy one has to put in it is for suckas.

My philosophy (learned from my mother):

Never argue with an idiot. He'll just drag you down to his level and beat you with experience.

I don't do revenge. Nobody's worth becoming an asshole over.

Schadenfreude is another matter entirely.

Genesia said:

My philosophy (learned from my mother):

Never argue with an idiot. He'll just drag you down to his level and beat you with experience.

I don't do revenge. Nobody's worth becoming an asshole over.

Schadenfreude is another matter entirely.

Had to google that.

Set them up to where someone else does something to them.

ThisOne said:

i was talking 2 my neighbour this afternoon and he confessed 2 me how he urinated on his ex wife's car just out of spite

i dont get why he would do this, he seems like an ok person

or maybe its just that i dont know 2 many ppl.....

so anyway tell me what the nastiest thing is that u have u done out of spite????

and.... do u think it helps get over the hurt????

my x left some thing behind that he treasures

There was a show some years ago about hidden cameras in the work place

One waitress had a customer that came in regulary that seemed to purposely make her job harder. She had enough, and had a bad cold one day (they showed the video) she stuck her finger in her nose and drew out the nastiest glob of snot and put it in his coffee

Another one was a kid that worked at a donut show had a similar kind of customer, this person would be there at the opening of the shop with an attitude with his specialty list of demands. The kid(they showed the video) jerked off right onto the guys glazed dounuts and evened it out lol

the first one made me want to vomit... "they blurred her face while interviewing her and she said this is why you treat your waitress nice"

the 2nd one made me laugh I couldn't help that one

We had a indirect incident with our dept (Arborist) had to do with the natural preserving of a park(in a very wealthy neighborhood) and a guy who was very overly active in following people around questioning them on what they were doing in the park including our workers who were their to trim trees, he would follow dog walkers take pictures of people and he was just a major A hole.

Well someone finally had enough of him and found out where he lived.

He left one morning to go to work and when he tried to back out of his driveway all the tires on his car fell off and the car hit the ground.

I'm not one to get revenge but I could understand whoever did that, and so did everyone else who heard the story.

I'm not a vindictive person and to be honest, if a woman I was interested in turned out to be the vindictive type, that would most likely be a deal-breaker. One of my friends has a wife who is very vindictive and you just know that if she would feel unjustly treated by him, or - shiver - if he would leave her one day, she would do everything in her power to crush him. It must be so discomforting to live with that knowledge.

I wouldn't waste my time. To really "hate" someone requires me to exert energy on them and my time is more important than them.

My former boss was a real c*unt. I thought it would have been hilarious to make up fake delivery/take-out menus (being sure to point out "We're open 24 hours!") with her phone number on them and distribute them all over her neighborhood so she'd get phone calls all day and night. I never did anything though. I'm still waiting for Karma to kick her ass...

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yanowha said:

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the part of the movie that made me

well, the boyfriend i had dated 2 years before i met my husband was very abusive, and he cheated on me with many women. when i found out, we broke up, and i sent him a gift in the mail, it was wrapped to look like a box of beautiful chocolates, but inside of it was dog crap. it just made me feel so much better to send that to him. it's the only time i ever did anything out of revenge to someone who hurt me. i honestly don't regret it either. God forgive me.

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PurpleJedi said:

Tittypants said:

Nothing. I'd just go on with my life & avoid talking to/coming in contact with that person. I'm not into revenge like that. Two wrongs don't make a right......

My philosphy on the matter.

Yeah, I could've taken her toothbrush and scrubbed my butthole with it, and I had a strong urge to pour bleach all over her lover's clothes that I recently found neatly folded in my old drawer...

...but ultimately what does it gain me?

I rather just go on with my life and try to avoid her as much as humanly possible (have to see her at least twice a week, sometimes four, depending on what my schedule with the kids is).

She can and will be replaced. My dignity however...not so easy to replace.

that would be very difficult to deal with.