missfee said:

Cerebus said:

Sadly, it blinds a lot of y'all. *siiigh*

Well....never trust a big dick and a smile.

That's a million dollar t-shirt idea right there.... or a couple thousand, at least.

Cerebus said:

missfee said:

Well....never trust a big dick and a smile.

That's a million dollar t-shirt idea right there.... or a couple thousand, at least.

Hey I'd wear it. That shit is true. You really can't trust a big dick with a smile. Especially when he KNOWS how to work that big dick.

Cerebus said:

Timmy84 said:

Thing is if you know someone is that temparamental, this is why something like anger management is sometimes considered. You gonna divorce over someone's temper? Then maybe she expected something more out of the marriage than someone who loses their temper like that. And I don't get people who stay in marriage but are doing it in unfriendly terms. I guess I can see why one would stay for a child but even that's ridiculous in my honest opinion.

First of all, don't get married to begin with.

Second, I totally agree with the not staying together for the kids concept. In most cases, so long as the parents can act like adults and work to make sure both parents spend time with them, the kids end up being happier and better adjusted than if they grew up in an unhappy home.

Right. It ain't nothing wrong with two parents living in different homes just as long as both parents are there for the kids regardless of their relationship. Getting divorced and still be friendly enough to raise your children is the best step when a marriage crumbles. Let's hope Seal and Heidi do it for their kids...

And I definitely agree with the "mandingo" mentality. There's a good group of women who want someone with a mandingo dick.

Plus the house turns toxic and the kids become quite aware they are the reason their parents hate each other.

lazycrockett said:

Plus the house turns toxic and the kids become quite aware they are the reason their parents hate each other.

Yeah. Which is why I can't understand folks thinking staying together for the kids is actually a smart decision. They need to know what it may do to the child or children caught in the middle of their crumbling affairs.

Heidi's marriage wont survive cause seal gets a little crazy.

Timmy84 said:

lazycrockett said:

Plus the house turns toxic and the kids become quite aware they are the reason their parents hate each other.

Yeah. Which is why I can't understand folks thinking staying together for the kids is actually a smart decision. They need to know what it may do to the child or children caught in the middle of their crumbling affairs.

OR folks marrying just because they HAVE KIDS together. If you aren't in love, why put the kids through such misery just to say you have a "family". What you will end up with is a dysfunctional family.

missfee said:

Cerebus said:

That's a million dollar t-shirt idea right there.... or a couple thousand, at least.

Hey I'd wear it. That shit is true. You really can't trust a big dick with a smile. Especially when he KNOWS how to work that big dick.

I can see someone making a shirt saying "never trust a big ___ " and putting a rooster on it.

missfee said:

Timmy84 said:

Yeah. Which is why I can't understand folks thinking staying together for the kids is actually a smart decision. They need to know what it may do to the child or children caught in the middle of their crumbling affairs.

OR folks marrying just because they HAVE KIDS together. If you aren't in love, why put the kids through such misery just to say you have a "family". What you will end up with is a dysfunctional family.

That's what happened with Ike and Tina Turner allegedly lol but that marriage confuses me because Ike said they weren't even legally married. Apparently Tina just took his name. Yeah Ike whatever.

Timmy84 said:

missfee said:

OR folks marrying just because they HAVE KIDS together. If you aren't in love, why put the kids through such misery just to say you have a "family". What you will end up with is a dysfunctional family.

That's what happened with Ike and Tina Turner allegedly lol but that marriage confuses me because Ike said they weren't even legally married. Apparently Tina just took his name. Yeah Ike whatever.

They confused the fuck out of me anyway because I could have sworn that Tina wrote somewhere that she looked at Ike as more like a big brother, rather than a mate. But then she got preggers and the rest is history. I somehow felt that, that story was bullshit. I don't know why, but my instincts tell me that Tina wanted that dick. She may have not wanted his trifling ass too long after, but at one point, she wanted Ike's ass.

Damn how the hell did we go from Seal's mandigo dick, to the Smith's, to Ike and Tina???

missfee said:

Timmy84 said:

That's what happened with Ike and Tina Turner allegedly lol but that marriage confuses me because Ike said they weren't even legally married. Apparently Tina just took his name. Yeah Ike whatever.

They confused the fuck out of me anyway because I could have sworn that Tina wrote somewhere that she looked at Ike as more like a big brother, rather than a mate. But then she got preggers and the rest is history. I somehow felt that, that story was bullshit. I don't know why, but my instincts tell me that Tina wanted that dick. She may have not wanted his trifling ass too long after, but at one point, she wanted Ike's ass.

Yeah Tina fell under the same mandingo curse as Heidi. Once I read on Playboy that Tina mentioned that Ike indeed had a "big member" but then claimed she wasn't impressed by it. Yeah right Tina. I love ya girl but come on now! Plus the way her songs with Ike were especially in the '60s (when they fell in love apparently), you can't tell me Tina wasn't singing all those songs about Ike, what makes it odder is Ike wrote all those songs where Tina confesses about her troubles with love! She even attempted suicide because his ass was constantly cheating on her.

missfee said:

Damn how the hell did we go from Seal's mandigo dick, to the Smith's, to Ike and Tina???

To me it's all related. Celebrity marriages are no better than non-celebrity marriages. Just as long as we're not talking about food, we good.

missfee said:

Damn how the hell did we go from Seal's mandigo dick, to the Smith's, to Ike and Tina???

It's the org.

Timmy84 said:

missfee said:

Damn how the hell did we go from Seal's mandigo dick, to the Smith's, to Ike and Tina???

To me it's all related. Celebrity marriages are no better than non-celebrity marriages. Just as long as we're not talking about food, we good.

Well I bet she was eatin' that dick... but that's probably not what you meant, really.

Cerebus said:

Timmy84 said:

To me it's all related. Celebrity marriages are no better than non-celebrity marriages. Just as long as we're not talking about food, we good.

Well I bet she was eatin' that dick... but that's probably not what you meant, really.

Timmy84 said:

missfee said:

They confused the fuck out of me anyway because I could have sworn that Tina wrote somewhere that she looked at Ike as more like a big brother, rather than a mate. But then she got preggers and the rest is history. I somehow felt that, that story was bullshit. I don't know why, but my instincts tell me that Tina wanted that dick. She may have not wanted his trifling ass too long after, but at one point, she wanted Ike's ass.

Yeah Tina fell under the same mandingo curse as Heidi. Once I read on Playboy that Tina mentioned that Ike indeed had a "big member" but then claimed she wasn't impressed by it. Yeah right Tina. I love ya girl but come on now! Plus the way her songs with Ike were especially in the '60s (when they fell in love apparently), you can't tell me Tina wasn't singing all those songs about Ike, what makes it odder is Ike wrote all those songs where Tina confesses about her troubles with love! She even attempted suicide because his ass was constantly cheating on her.

I know right. Now maybe she didn't want to marry him, I'll believe that much, but she definitely wanted, and did, get that dick. She just be saying that shit now because the aftermath was so bad. Which it was. But don't deny it as if you never wanted Ike and just "tolerated" him because you wanted a career. Please Tina

missfee said:

Timmy84 said:

Yeah Tina fell under the same mandingo curse as Heidi. Once I read on Playboy that Tina mentioned that Ike indeed had a "big member" but then claimed she wasn't impressed by it. Yeah right Tina. I love ya girl but come on now! Plus the way her songs with Ike were especially in the '60s (when they fell in love apparently), you can't tell me Tina wasn't singing all those songs about Ike, what makes it odder is Ike wrote all those songs where Tina confesses about her troubles with love! She even attempted suicide because his ass was constantly cheating on her.

I know right. Now maybe she didn't want to marry him, I'll believe that much, but she definitely wanted, and did, get that dick. She just be saying that shit now because the aftermath was so bad. Which it was. But don't deny it as if you never wanted Ike and just "tolerated" him because you wanted a career. Please Tina

Plus they were both fighting like cats and dogs for 20 years!

Timmy84 said:

missfee said:

I know right. Now maybe she didn't want to marry him, I'll believe that much, but she definitely wanted, and did, get that dick. She just be saying that shit now because the aftermath was so bad. Which it was. But don't deny it as if you never wanted Ike and just "tolerated" him because you wanted a career. Please Tina

Plus they were both fighting like cats and dogs for 20 years!

Ah lawd. Okay let's get back to Mandingo and Heidi.

Timmy84 said:

missfee said:

They confused the fuck out of me anyway because I could have sworn that Tina wrote somewhere that she looked at Ike as more like a big brother, rather than a mate. But then she got preggers and the rest is history. I somehow felt that, that story was bullshit. I don't know why, but my instincts tell me that Tina wanted that dick. She may have not wanted his trifling ass too long after, but at one point, she wanted Ike's ass.

Yeah Tina fell under the same mandingo curse as Heidi. Once I read on Playboy that Tina mentioned that Ike indeed had a "big member" but then claimed she wasn't impressed by it. Yeah right Tina. I love ya girl but come on now! Plus the way her songs with Ike were especially in the '60s (when they fell in love apparently), you can't tell me Tina wasn't singing all those songs about Ike, what makes it odder is Ike wrote all those songs where Tina confesses about her troubles with love! She even attempted suicide because his ass was constantly cheating on her.

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KCOOLMUZIQ said:

Timmy84 said:

Yeah Tina fell under the same mandingo curse as Heidi. Once I read on Playboy that Tina mentioned that Ike indeed had a "big member" but then claimed she wasn't impressed by it. Yeah right Tina. I love ya girl but come on now! Plus the way her songs with Ike were especially in the '60s (when they fell in love apparently), you can't tell me Tina wasn't singing all those songs about Ike, what makes it odder is Ike wrote all those songs where Tina confesses about her troubles with love! She even attempted suicide because his ass was constantly cheating on her.

This statement is true. Tina doesn't want any D--- now or ever.....

Are you kidding me?

knew I shouldnt have posted on this thread.

missfee said:

Timmy84 said:

Plus they were both fighting like cats and dogs for 20 years!

Ah lawd. Okay let's get back to Mandingo and Heidi.

Right. Now what's going to happen and were there signs of trouble in the beginning?

Timmy84 said:

missfee said:

Ah lawd. Okay let's get back to Mandingo and Heidi.

Right. Now what's going to happen and were there signs of trouble in the beginning?

Oh, they'll probably divorce. Most likely. Sometimes trouble isn't brought to the forefront. I find it hard to believe (though it could be possible) that they've "grown apart" when just a month ago I've seen pics of them looking lovingly and happier more than ever. Now if its true that she is divorcing him based on his temper...well can we really fault her for that? It could possibly be scaring the kids. Sure big dicks are great, but there's always some dramatical shit with them.

missfee said:

Timmy84 said:

Right. Now what's going to happen and were there signs of trouble in the beginning?

Oh, they'll probably divorce. Most likely. Sometimes trouble isn't brought to the forefront. I find it hard to believe (though it could be possible) that they've "grown apart" when just a month ago I've seen pics of them looking lovingly and happier more than ever. Now if its true that she is divorcing him based on his temper...well can we really fault her for that? It could possibly be scaring the kids. Sure big dicks are great, but there's always some dramatical shit with them.

I was thinking the same. Like if Seal had a nasty temper, it would probably leave a negative reaction with the kids. My thing with it if she knew all along that Seal was known to throw temper tantrums, why marry him, why have his babies? But I guess because Seal showed a nice side that she was willing to "work it out". I'm guessing that what happens with some couples. Some folks know about some spouses who act a fool but if that said spouse had a nice side to them then they may think they could bring more of that side and if more of that nasty side show up, then it makes it hard to stay together. I just hope they do what's right for each other and their children.

Timmy84 said:

missfee said:

Oh, they'll probably divorce. Most likely. Sometimes trouble isn't brought to the forefront. I find it hard to believe (though it could be possible) that they've "grown apart" when just a month ago I've seen pics of them looking lovingly and happier more than ever. Now if its true that she is divorcing him based on his temper...well can we really fault her for that? It could possibly be scaring the kids. Sure big dicks are great, but there's always some dramatical shit with them.

I was thinking the same. Like if Seal had a nasty temper, it would probably leave a negative reaction with the kids. My thing with it if she knew all along that Seal was known to throw temper tantrums, why marry him, why have his babies? But I guess because Seal showed a nice side that she was willing to "work it out". I'm guessing that what happens with some couples. Some folks know about some spouses who act a fool but if that said spouse had a nice side to them then they may think they could bring more of that side and if more of that nasty side show up, then it makes it hard to stay together. I just hope they do what's right for each other and their children.

It's the same old song really. Some women marry based off of the wining and dining and the Walmart loads of attention they are being shown by their mate. They know something is off in the back of their head, but they ignore it because after all "this guy is the most romantic, most attentive man I've ever met". But after they marry, the more negative atttributes are brought to the forefront and they stay hoping that one day their guy will change for the better, but when that doesn't happen then they "grow apart". You really have to be careful who you marry these days because men DO NOT CHANGE. Especially after you seal the deal....now I haven't been married before, but I do have friends who are married who swear by that.

missfee said:

Timmy84 said:

I was thinking the same. Like if Seal had a nasty temper, it would probably leave a negative reaction with the kids. My thing with it if she knew all along that Seal was known to throw temper tantrums, why marry him, why have his babies? But I guess because Seal showed a nice side that she was willing to "work it out". I'm guessing that what happens with some couples. Some folks know about some spouses who act a fool but if that said spouse had a nice side to them then they may think they could bring more of that side and if more of that nasty side show up, then it makes it hard to stay together. I just hope they do what's right for each other and their children.

It's the same old song really. Some women marry based off of the wining and dining and the Walmart loads of attention they are being shown by their mate. They know something is off in the back of their head, but they ignore it because after all "this guy is the most romantic, most attentive man I've ever met". But after they marry, the more negative atttributes are brought to the forefront and they stay hoping that one day their guy will change for the better, but when that doesn't happen then they "grow apart". You really have to be careful who you marry these days because men DO NOT CHANGE. Especially after you seal the deal....now I haven't been married before, but I do have friends who are married who swear by that.

That's why people need to do their investigations but do it in a way where they're not caught.

Timmy84 said:

missfee said:

It's the same old song really. Some women marry based off of the wining and dining and the Walmart loads of attention they are being shown by their mate. They know something is off in the back of their head, but they ignore it because after all "this guy is the most romantic, most attentive man I've ever met". But after they marry, the more negative atttributes are brought to the forefront and they stay hoping that one day their guy will change for the better, but when that doesn't happen then they "grow apart". You really have to be careful who you marry these days because men DO NOT CHANGE. Especially after you seal the deal....now I haven't been married before, but I do have friends who are married who swear by that.

That's why people need to do their investigations but do it in a way where they're not caught.

Well to me, folks SHOW you who they are when you are dating them. That's what dating is about. Learning about the person who you potentially may or may not want a future with. The problem is when people get these unrealistic ideas and expectations about how things will be, when really they aren't on the same page with their significant other. Trust me, I know. I learned a true lesson about being caught in the clouds and then finally waking up to realize that the man I was with really didn't want the type of relationship that I wanted or thought I had, with him. It hurts like hell, but I dodged a strong bullet, because I didn't end up married or had kids by his sorry ass.

missfee said:

Timmy84 said:

That's why people need to do their investigations but do it in a way where they're not caught.

Well to me, folks SHOW you who they are when you are dating them. That's what dating is about. Learning about the person who you potentially may or may not want a future with. The problem is when people get these unrealistic ideas and expectations about how things will be, when really they aren't on the same page with their significant other. Trust me, I know. I learned a true lesson about being caught in the clouds and then finally waking up to realize that the man I was with really didn't want the type of relationship that I wanted or thought I had, with him. It hurts like hell, but I dodged a strong bullet, because I didn't end up married or had kids by his sorry ass.

Yeah and some folks who still see their partner for what they are still take the plunge so I'm glad you dodged that bullet.