KCOOLMUZIQ said:

missfee said:

It's official, celebrities just don't need to get married.

U owe me an apology. I never post false info.....

I don't owe you anything. Your original post says that they are getting a divorce. From the article I posted from a credible news site, the couple has confirmed a separation. Big difference.

HEIDI KLUM She Couldn't Take Seal's Temper Anymore

Terrib3Towel said:

They were like night and day anyway..literally.

That is so wrong on too many levels.

missfee said:

KCOOLMUZIQ said:

Deadflow3r said:

I hope this is just a rumor.

I don't really care about either of them much but I completely believed their relationship was real and now I feel taken . The Will Smiths marriage looked phony to me all along and so do most others.

No one can keep a fake marriage going for over 15 years....Plus have a successful career including there kids.....

Many people do.

They no longer sleep with their spouse long before anyone files for divorce.

One or both of the partners starts sleeping with other people.

They choose people to sleep with who are also married or who understand that they are not wanting to go public with the new romance/ friend with benifits situation.

Most often people keep a marriage together because they still have minors to raise.

The second reason is that there would be a big financial mess if they were to seperate.

It takes both time and money to end a marriage and many people decide to just go on with their lives and leave the marriage legally in tact.

So sad for them. I hope this doesn't get too ugly in the media, especially after gushing all over them in the past, cause I'd definitely would have to tune it out.

Gunsnhalen said:

WOW

Lord, they have a great family, Heidi talks about how big his dick is & is always smiling as if she is getting the sweet dickens each night. And there never in the press for issues....

So i am actually shocked by this

Ohhhh, so that's why she married him!

morningsong said:

So sad for them. I hope this doesn't get too ugly in the media, especially after gushing all over them in the past, cause I'd definitely would have to tune it out.

It already has, have you ever seen Seal?

Terrib3Towel said:

morningsong said:

So sad for them. I hope this doesn't get too ugly in the media, especially after gushing all over them in the past, cause I'd definitely would have to tune it out.

It already has, have you ever seen Seal?

That's not nice.

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When you think with your sex then with your heart, this happens. She didn't know Seal had a temper before they were bumping uglies?

Deadflow3r said:

KCOOLMUZIQ said:

No one can keep a fake marriage going for over 15 years....Plus have a successful career including there kids.....

Many people do.

They no longer sleep with their spouse long before anyone files for divorce.

One or both of the partners starts sleeping with other people.

They choose people to sleep with who are also married or who understand that they are not wanting to go public with the new romance/ friend with benifits situation.

Most often people keep a marriage together because they still have minors to raise.

The second reason is that there would be a big financial mess if they were to seperate.

It takes both time and money to end a marriage and many people decide to just go on with their lives and leave the marriage legally in tact.

That's true. Some of my mother's friends have this "arrangement" with their husbands.

But that isn't the case with The Smith's. There marriage has always been "Intact"...Can't understand why people keep thinking there marriage is fake. They have never been in any kind of scandal or drama involving anything. Drugs included..

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Lawd Habmurcy. Seriously?

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missfee said:

Deadflow3r said:

Many people do.

They no longer sleep with their spouse long before anyone files for divorce.

One or both of the partners starts sleeping with other people.

They choose people to sleep with who are also married or who understand that they are not wanting to go public with the new romance/ friend with benifits situation.

Most often people keep a marriage together because they still have minors to raise.

The second reason is that there would be a big financial mess if they were to seperate.

It takes both time and money to end a marriage and many people decide to just go on with their lives and leave the marriage legally in tact.

That's true. Some of my mother's friends have this "arrangement" with their husbands.

I honestly think it happens even more with normal folks!

Here the hell we go again "Their marriage is intact"...

Deadflow3r said:

missfee said:

That's true. Some of my mother's friends have this "arrangement" with their husbands.

I honestly think it happens even more with normal folks!

Yep. I have family members who lived separately from their husbands, never divorced, yet when the estranged husbands passed, they reaped all the benefits...life insurance, social security, etc.

missfee said:

Here the hell we go again "Their marriage is intact"...

It seems like you've had to deal with this one a lot.

missfee said:

Deadflow3r said:

I honestly think it happens even more with normal folks!

Yep. I have family members who lived separately from their husbands, never divorced, yet when the estranged husbands passed, they reaped all the benefits...life insurance, social security, etc.

I don't know anybody who took it that far, but I have some friends who stayed married for many years after they seperated in order to get all the benefits that come from taking part in that institution and having kids. It's actually very illegal, though, that's why they call it a legal seperation. They could have been turned in by family or friends, because a lot of people knew. She eventually wanted to get remarried, so they got a divorce.

Cerebus said:

missfee said:

Yep. I have family members who lived separately from their husbands, never divorced, yet when the estranged husbands passed, they reaped all the benefits...life insurance, social security, etc.

I don't know anybody who took it that far, but I have some friends who stayed married for many years after they seperated in order to get all the benefits that come from taking part in that institution and having kids. It's actually very illegal, though, that's why they call it a legal seperation. They could have been turned in by family or friends, because a lot of people knew. She eventually wanted to get remarried, so they got a divorce.

It is illegal?

my cousin is married to a man that has been living with another woman for years. she has a multitude of health issues, lupus being one, and I honestly think health insurance is one of the reasons they are together.

Timmy84 said:

When you think with your sex then with your heart, this happens. She didn't know Seal had a temper before they were bumping uglies?

Many artists have tempers. Artistic temperment is real

Deadflow3r said:

Timmy84 said:

When you think with your sex then with your heart, this happens. She didn't know Seal had a temper before they were bumping uglies?

Many artists have tempers. Artistic temperment is real

All people have tempers.

Thing is if you know someone is that temparamental, this is why something like anger management is sometimes considered. You gonna divorce over someone's temper? Then maybe she expected something more out of the marriage than someone who loses their temper like that. And I don't get people who stay in marriage but are doing it in unfriendly terms. I guess I can see why one would stay for a child but even that's ridiculous in my honest opinion.

Deadflow3r said:

Cerebus said:

I don't know anybody who took it that far, but I have some friends who stayed married for many years after they seperated in order to get all the benefits that come from taking part in that institution and having kids. It's actually very illegal, though, that's why they call it a legal seperation. They could have been turned in by family or friends, because a lot of people knew. She eventually wanted to get remarried, so they got a divorce.

It is illegal?

my cousin is married to a man that has been living with another woman for years. she has a multitude of health issues, lupus being one, and I honestly think health insurance is one of the reasons they are together.

Like all things related to marriage, taxes, medical insurance and the like, its complicated and in some cases varies from state to state. But yes, depending on whether or not they've done the paperwork to become legally seperated or not, and maybe even if they have, they could be bending some laws.

If they're doing everything above board it seems like they'd be safe, though.

My friends were not. They were doing things like keeping all the bank records and paycheck addresses under one address (even though they didn't live together) and filing their taxes jointly as a married couple, claiming all their children together. And that's just part of the mess they were runnin'.

Timmy84 said:

Thing is if you know someone is that temparamental, this is why something like anger management is sometimes considered. You gonna divorce over someone's temper? Then maybe she expected something more out of the marriage than someone who loses their temper like that. And I don't get people who stay in marriage but are doing it in unfriendly terms. I guess I can see why one would stay for a child but even that's ridiculous in my honest opinion.

First of all, don't get married to begin with.

Second, I totally agree with the not staying together for the kids concept. In most cases, so long as the parents can act like adults and work to make sure both parents spend time with them, the kids end up being happier and better adjusted than if they grew up in an unhappy home.

Cerebus said:

missfee said:

Here the hell we go again "Their marriage is intact"...

It seems like you've had to deal with this one a lot.

you don't know the half of it. See your orgnote.

Timmy84 said:

When you think with your sex then with your heart, this happens. She didn't know Seal had a temper before they were bumping uglies?

It was that "mandingo" mentality that blinded her.

missfee said:

Timmy84 said:

When you think with your sex then with your heart, this happens. She didn't know Seal had a temper before they were bumping uglies?

It was that "mandingo" mentality that blinded her.

Sadly, it blinds a lot of y'all. *siiigh*

Cerebus said:

missfee said:

It was that "mandingo" mentality that blinded her.

Sadly, it blinds a lot of y'all. *siiigh*

Well....never trust a big dick and a smile.