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had my share of chicks telln me to fuck off shortly after they do theyre version of fuckin me so what the hell its flipped oh well .. people do what they do. Move on | |
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After I typed my last message, I was thinking that I also know a lot of women do the exact same thing to men, using them knowing full well they don't really care about them. But, it just seems to be a little more prevelant among men. I just rack it up as a game that both men & women play with each other. Glad I'm not a part of that foolishness. "It's not nice to fuck with K.B.! All you haters will see!" - Kitbradley
"The only true wisdom is knowing you know nothing." - Socrates |
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I like to look at it as a stop sign.
Stop calling him/accepting his calls, stop texting/responding to his text messages, stop wishing, hoping, praying he will change his mind, just STOP.
I denounce my original response...I told her to be friends with him later if he was worthy of being a friend, but damn that. She just needs a good old stop sign. Sometimes, all of us could use one. [Edited 1/19/12 17:47pm] [Edited 1/19/12 17:48pm] I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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"It's not nice to fuck with K.B.! All you haters will see!" - Kitbradley
"The only true wisdom is knowing you know nothing." - Socrates |
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I second that. He and the friend are jerks. | |
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I don't understand this. | |
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Women do this all the time, too.
Best advice: He's told you who he is. Believe him, and move on. | |
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I personally would not go out with a friend's ex, even if I liked them. That to me is an unwritten rule in friendship if it's a close friendship. | |
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There's three sides to this story. Something all should consider. | |
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She has not even said they were more than just friends at any point. | |
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JustErin said:
She has not even said they were more than just friends at any point. I've only read OP which I understood to mean that after 6 months of believing she was in a relationship with this guy she is devastated to hear from him that he never considered her to be more than a friend. It's not like a guy either to define that a relationship IS one at all, so I can't blame her for being upset. He at some point realised that she views it as a relationship and so to untangle himself defines it as friendship in hindsight, freeing himself to move on to the next thing. Someone else also pointed out the do vs say thing. You know from he things a guy DOES that you are a priority. Like drive long distances to see you, to drop other plans unasked to be with you, is happy when you call, isn't too busy at work or a ton of other excuses. I don't generally think women wait for a guy to define it as a relationship before it becomes one, do they  a whore in sheep's clothing | |
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