Okay, so tonight we were supposed to meet up after a group meeting and.....he WASN'T there at all. So, I'm guessing he got stage fright and freaked out or perhaps he's married. I have no idea but I sent him an email saying, "Sorry you missed the meeting, hopefully we can meet up for coffee some other time." He never misses meetings at all, so it's weird he missed tonight....

So, I guess Viagra DOESN'T give all the "older guys" confidence afterall.....

maybe he's an orger

ThisOne said:

maybe he's an orger

It's not likely but hey if he is, so be it

You should REALLY move on...he ain't the one for a lot of reasons.

It's his move now. If he doesn't call or contact you...then just move on.

To be honest...he don't sound like a keeper.

ThruTheEyesOfWonder said:

It's his move now. If he doesn't call or contact you...then just move on.

To be honest...he don't sound like a keeper.

Dude didn't show, didn't call ahead of time, why entertain a call now? Word: if he does call and says (let's say)...his hair caught fire....tell him, wow that's too bad and you hope he's ok but you're in the middle of washing your hair and need to go.

Obviously he's already disrespecting on so many levels.

WhatdoUwantme2do said:

ThruTheEyesOfWonder said:

It's his move now. If he doesn't call or contact you...then just move on.

To be honest...he don't sound like a keeper.

Dude didn't show, didn't call ahead of time, why entertain a call now? Word: if he does call and says (let's say)...his hair caught fire....tell him, wow that's too bad and you hope he's ok but you're in the middle of washing your hair and need to go.

Obviously he's already disrespecting on so many levels.

Agreed, so yeah perhaps I can schedule the next coffee date and not show....he has all the signs of a married man I reckon...Either that or he's so used to being told "no" that he ain't ready for "Yes". LOL

SeventeenDayze said:

WhatdoUwantme2do said:

Dude didn't show, didn't call ahead of time, why entertain a call now? Word: if he does call and says (let's say)...his hair caught fire....tell him, wow that's too bad and you hope he's ok but you're in the middle of washing your hair and need to go.

Obviously he's already disrespecting on so many levels.

Agreed, so yeah perhaps I can schedule the next coffee date and not show....he has all the signs of a married man I reckon...Either that or he's so used to being told "no" that he ain't ready for "Yes". LOL

Hard to speculate. Don't do anything right now, and don't stoop to his level by not showing, I would say. Let's see if he explains himself. If he don't or you don't hear from him at all... That speaks volumes right there.

He stood you up.... he shouldn't get a second chance. He blew his opportunity. Move on.

paintedlady said:

He stood you up.... he shouldn't get a second chance. He blew his opportunity. Move on.

Enough said.

missfee said:

paintedlady said:

He stood you up.... he shouldn't get a second chance. He blew his opportunity. Move on.

Enough said.

Yeah, but then that would put an end to this thread.
And to be honest, I'd kinda like to see how close Part II of this "Older White Guy" series can get to Part I.
I mean, I know that most sequels usually aren't better than their predecessors, but still,
this could be one of those rare moments that it does.

I say we give it a chance.
Who knows....
this could end up being the Godfather Part II of all threads....

SeventeenDayze said:

WhatdoUwantme2do said:

Dude didn't show, didn't call ahead of time, why entertain a call now? Word: if he does call and says (let's say)...his hair caught fire....tell him, wow that's too bad and you hope he's ok but you're in the middle of washing your hair and need to go.

Obviously he's already disrespecting on so many levels.

Agreed, so yeah perhaps I can schedule the next coffee date and not show....he has all the signs of a married man I reckon...Either that or he's so used to being told "no" that he ain't ready for "Yes". LOL

why do you even put energy into thinking about doing stuff like this?

Ottensen said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Agreed, so yeah perhaps I can schedule the next coffee date and not show....he has all the signs of a married man I reckon...Either that or he's so used to being told "no" that he ain't ready for "Yes". LOL

why do you even put energy into thinking about doing stuff like this?

Ivy pointed out in the first OWG thread that Seventeen LIKES drama I guess creating/entertaining drama is what she will continue do until she gets bored

JOYJOY said:

Ottensen said:

why do you even put energy into thinking about doing stuff like this?

Ivy pointed out in the first OWG thread that Seventeen LIKES drama I guess creating/entertaining drama is what she will continue do until she gets bored

Hahaha well, dude just wrote me back and said sorry for missing the meeting but will be at the one next week (it only meets once a week). So, I haven't written him back but now I really know something's up. Cause if dude were really single, would he wait an entire week before trying to see me again or is it just a convenient excuse to get home late to wifey because "the meeting ran late"

GTFOH old dude, your game is weak!!!!!!

SeventeenDayze said:

WhatdoUwantme2do said:

Dude didn't show, didn't call ahead of time, why entertain a call now? Word: if he does call and says (let's say)...his hair caught fire....tell him, wow that's too bad and you hope he's ok but you're in the middle of washing your hair and need to go.

Obviously he's already disrespecting on so many levels.

Agreed, so yeah perhaps I can schedule the next coffee date and not show....he has all the signs of a married man I reckon...Either that or he's so used to being told "no" that he ain't ready for "Yes". LOL

Game playing. I swear I have a hard time believing you are in your thirties.

Do the right thing and move on to the next one.

JOYJOY said:

Ottensen said:

why do you even put energy into thinking about doing stuff like this?

Ivy pointed out in the first OWG thread that Seventeen LIKES drama I guess creating/entertaining drama is what she will continue do until she gets bored

Thank you. This thread will go on for 15 pages like the last one did.

Vendetta1 said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Agreed, so yeah perhaps I can schedule the next coffee date and not show....he has all the signs of a married man I reckon...Either that or he's so used to being told "no" that he ain't ready for "Yes". LOL

Game playing. I swear I have a hard time believing you are in your thirties.

Do the right thing and move on to the next one.

Did you read the most recent comment I wrote? Or, did you just zero in on the comment that you thought you could ridicule me about the most just to make yourself feel better?

SeventeenDayze said:

Vendetta1 said:

Game playing. I swear I have a hard time believing you are in your thirties.

Do the right thing and move on to the next one.

Did you read the most recent comment I wrote? Or, did you just zero in on the comment that you thought you could ridicule me about the most just to make yourself feel better?

Yeah I really could post about things you hadn't said yet.

And no, I do not ridicule you, you do that to yourself. And make myself feel better? No. I've been trying to tell you things because I have made mistakes in the past and hope you could possibly learn from it. Instead, you choose to skip over my responses to you because I am not saying what you want to hear.

Vendetta1 said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Did you read the most recent comment I wrote? Or, did you just zero in on the comment that you thought you could ridicule me about the most just to make yourself feel better?

Yeah I really could post about things you hadn't said yet.

And no, I do not ridicule you, you do that to yourself. And make myself feel better? No. I've been trying to tell you things because I have made mistakes in the past and hope you could possibly learn from it. Instead, you choose to skip over my responses to you because I am not saying what you want to hear.

Vendetta, that's SO not true, I have been listening to folks. Remember, I have not responded to dude's email about "meeting up next week" because I find it to be, for lack of a better word, triflin' that he'd pull a move like that. He's either married or impotent or heaven forbid both

Or maybe he's scared that I might be more than he could handle? Who knows, LOL.....

Seems like Brooklirican and Older Dude are pretty much the same---scared boys pretending to be men....

SeventeenDayze said:

Vendetta1 said:

Game playing. I swear I have a hard time believing you are in your thirties.

Do the right thing and move on to the next one.

Did you read the most recent comment I wrote? Or, did you just zero in on the comment that you thought you could ridicule me about the most just to make yourself feel better?

He is NOT a man of his word. He stood you up.

But being stood up also means that he also does NOT respect your time. If you stay available to this man it will set a precedent that will allow him to keep you on the back burner while you make him a priority in your life. He is showing you that he doesn't value you the way you deserve to be valued.

If a man stands a woman up, her proper response should be to halt all further communication. He doesn't deserve any courtesy of any explanations of why you chose to leave him alone since he didn't respect you enough to call you and BEFORE your date to cancel regardless of his circumstances. Your time is valuable too dammit!

So him being married is a moot point, that man just doesn't respect you. That alone should be enough reason to leave his trifling ass alone. You do NOT need to contact him for answers, you already got your answer when he didn't even bother to call/text you and not show up.

ALL this I am sure you already know... I just spelled it out for younger ladies not to allow a loser to play games with them.

paintedlady said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Did you read the most recent comment I wrote? Or, did you just zero in on the comment that you thought you could ridicule me about the most just to make yourself feel better?

He is NOT a man of his word. He stood you up.

But being stood up also means that he also does NOT respect your time. If you stay available to this man it will set a precedent that will allow him to keep you on the back burner while you make him a priority in your life. He is showing you that he doesn't value you the way you deserve to be valued.

If a man stands a woman up, her proper response should be to halt all further communication. He doesn't deserve any courtesy of any explanations of why you chose to leave him alone since he didn't respect you enough to call you and BEFORE your date to cancel regardless of his circumstances. Your time is valuable too dammit!

So him being married is a moot point, that man just doesn't respect you. That alone should be enough reason to leave his trifling ass alone. You do NOT need to contact him for answers, you already got your answer when he didn't even bother to call/text you and not show up.

ALL this I am sure you already know... I just spelled it out for younger ladies not to allow a loser to play games with them.

Agreed painted, I have no tolerance for a guy pulling a stunt like that and not even being nice enough to call or whatever or even pinpoint a day to re-schedule that's NOT centered around a meeting...on to the next one!

SeventeenDayze said:

Agreed painted, I have no tolerance for a guy pulling a stunt like that and not even being nice enough to call or whatever or even pinpoint a day to re-schedule that's NOT centered around a meeting...on to the next one!

I think in this day and age there is simply no excuse.

He deserves no consideration.... that place were you volunteer/work isn't a good place to meet men it seems. Its a sanctuary for jerks.

angel345 said:

paintedlady said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Agreed painted, I have no tolerance for a guy pulling a stunt like that and not even being nice enough to call or whatever or even pinpoint a day to re-schedule that's NOT centered around a meeting...on to the next one!

I think in this day and age there is simply no excuse.

He deserves no consideration.... that place were you volunteer/work isn't a good place to meet men it seems. Its a sanctuary for jerks.

Yeah Jerk Sanctuary indeed, I guess they go there to pick up girls who are real weak-minded I suppose!!!!

SeventeenDayze said:

Okay, so tonight we were supposed to meet up after a group meeting and.....he WASN'T there at all. So, I'm guessing he got stage fright and freaked out or perhaps he's married. I have no idea but I sent him an email saying, "Sorry you missed the meeting, hopefully we can meet up for coffee some other time." He never misses meetings at all, so it's weird he missed tonight....

So, I guess Viagra DOESN'T give all the "older guys" confidence afterall.....

you actually decided to go for it??????

Visionnaire said:

missfee said:

Enough said.

Yeah, but then that would put an end to this thread.
And to be honest, I'd kinda like to see how close Part II of this "Older White Guy" series can get to Part I.
I mean, I know that most sequels usually aren't better than their predecessors, but still,
this could be one of those rare moments that it does.

I say we give it a chance.
Who knows....
this could end up being the Godfather Part II of all threads....

I kinda with this.

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morningsong said:

Visionnaire said:

Yeah, but then that would put an end to this thread.
And to be honest, I'd kinda like to see how close Part II of this "Older White Guy" series can get to Part I.
I mean, I know that most sequels usually aren't better than their predecessors, but still,
this could be one of those rare moments that it does.

I say we give it a chance.
Who knows....
this could end up being the Godfather Part II of all threads....

I kinda with this.

Meh. The org doesn't have to fire like it once did. At one time that thread about how old is too old to be hot or whatever would have ended in multiple bannings and all kinds of crazies woulda came out of the woodwork. For whatever the reason, physical appearance used to get as low down and flaming as a race thread.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

morningsong said:

I kinda with this.

Meh. The org doesn't have to fire like it once did. At one time that thread about how old is too old to be hot or whatever would have ended in multiple bannings and all kinds of crazies woulda came out of the woodwork. For whatever the reason, physical appearance used to get as low down and flaming as a race thread.

Oh I'm not all into race baiting, flame throwing stuff. I'm just curious how this situation turns out, it could go all kinds of ways.