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Thread started 12/27/11 7:29pm

SeventeenDayze

Guys and Desperate Girls (an update from a previous thread)

So, I decided to start a new thread since the last time I posted about "Do Guys Prefer Desperate Chicks" here's a bit of a summary and update below for those who might not have read the first thread.

Ok, I'm gonna make a seriously long and ridiculous story short but....There's a guy I do volunteer work with who spends a lot of time and effort who tries to get others to hate me and it's driving me up the wall because all these people have since turned on me. It wasn't always like this we used to get along really well but then it changed....

Oddly enough, it happened around the same time that this guy saw me hanging out with another guy and it made him really pissed off. He was out with his gf at the time and saw me with the guy friend and planted this huge kiss on her while in front of me and the other guy. His gf looked really pissed off to say the least. Since then, he doesn't speak to me, gives me dirty looks and tries to humiliate me in public!

He never made any attempt to be my boyfriend but is still holding a grudge about this crap from weeks ago. He had a gf, so why the hell does he care who I'm hanging out with?

When we DO talk, it's these crazy email fights that sometimes last all day. We go through periods of ignoring each other or fighting online all day. I mean seriously.....do some guys really act like this because they have suppressed attraction or something?


This guy has done and said horrible things about me, so I'm really not interested in asking him out but why can't he and I just leave each other alone? Why do we keep bickering so much? Why can't we just forget about each other? What's wrong with me? Normally I can just walk away and ignore a guy for being this way but I'm STILL having a hard time with this, help!

I absolutely do NOT want to quit because of him, and others have told me that he's bent on getting me to quit. I don't know what to do anymore because he refuses to sit down and talk about it but continues to act like this. The orgnization is run by a bunch of hippies so it's not like discipline is an option. I cannot let this guy win but I cannot deal with this much longer, now what?

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Reply #1 posted 12/27/11 11:19pm

MacDaddy

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Reply #2 posted 12/27/11 11:32pm

Ottensen

How old are you guys? I find it really difficult to grasp that there are adults who actually behave this way hmm

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Reply #3 posted 12/28/11 5:40am

SeventeenDayze

MacDaddy said:

[img:$uid]http://i800.photobucket.com/albums/yy281/iwanigor/drama.jpg[/img:$uid]

How many times are you going to post this? Isn't this spamming? lol

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Reply #4 posted 12/28/11 5:41am

SeventeenDayze

Ottensen said:

How old are you guys? I find it really difficult to grasp that there are adults who actually behave this way hmm

Yes believe it or not, we are grown/adults....the problem is that I do NOT want to quit because of this clown but this whole situation is driving me crazy. It takes a lot of nerve not to try to be my boyfriend then act all offended when you see me with another guy. Just stupid....

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Reply #5 posted 12/28/11 5:47am

Rightly

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I like desperate girls, brings out the best in them.

I wouldn't throw them into a desperate situation, but I'll be around to pick up the pieces. Scavenger style!

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I've got a pretty firm grip on the obvious!
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Reply #6 posted 12/28/11 5:49am

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MacDaddy said:

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Reply #7 posted 12/28/11 6:23am

MacDaddy

SeventeenDayze said:

MacDaddy said:

[img:$uid]http://i800.photobucket.com/albums/yy281/iwanigor/drama.jpg[/img:$uid]

How many times are you going to post this? Isn't this spamming? lol

Well, to be honest I did remove it from the other thread and decided it was more appropriate here

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Reply #8 posted 12/28/11 6:49am

SeventeenDayze

MacDaddy said:

SeventeenDayze said:

How many times are you going to post this? Isn't this spamming? lol

Well, to be honest I did remove it from the other thread and decided it was more appropriate here

biggrin

Ha, not cool wink

Well yeah I'm not really thrilled about the whole situation to tell the truth. This guy seems like a Drama King/Queen for sure...

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Reply #9 posted 12/28/11 7:02am

MacDaddy

SeventeenDayze said:

MacDaddy said:

Well, to be honest I did remove it from the other thread and decided it was more appropriate here

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Ha, not cool wink

Well yeah I'm not really thrilled about the whole situation to tell the truth. This guy seems like a Drama King/Queen for sure...

Ok, I wasn't really trying to take the piss, but it does seem that you're feeding this drama yourself as well.

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