Don't take this wrong way, but the song FUCK YOU RIGHT BACK comes to mind right now.

You don't ever need to let ANYBODY--ex or anybody else--bring you down, make you feel like shit, or anything else.

Because if somebody is going out of their way to be either a dickhead or a bitch and you're trying to keep the peace, that makes you automatically the better and more mature person in handling these affairs.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

Mine just asked me if he can claim one of the kids on his income tax this year. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!

This is the THIRD year he has asked me that.

Um no.

You can't even pay your child support and now you I'm just gonna do you a favor like that.

OMG

Go to the market and buy yourself a nice, large Salmon.

When he comes around, give him a

TotalANXiousNESS said:

Mine just asked me if he can claim one of the kids on his income tax this year. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!

This is the THIRD year he has asked me that.

Um no.

You can't even pay your child support and now you I'm just gonna do you a favor like that.

OMG

The fucking nerve.....

KidaDynamite said:

TotalANXiousNESS said:

Mine just asked me if he can claim one of the kids on his income tax this year. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!

This is the THIRD year he has asked me that.

Um no.

You can't even pay your child support and now you I'm just gonna do you a favor like that.

OMG

The fucking nerve.....

I know it's constantly. Calling me with exactly THOSE types of questions. I just say No. In the calmest and coolest tone you can imagine. He get s all worked up and I say. Sorry. My answer is still No. Goodbye. OHHHHHHHH I know it makes him mad as a hatter. I just KNOW his face is turning every shade of red and purple when he gets off that phone.

PurpleJedi said:

TotalANXiousNESS said:

Mine just asked me if he can claim one of the kids on his income tax this year. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!

This is the THIRD year he has asked me that.

Um no.

You can't even pay your child support and now you I'm just gonna do you a favor like that.

OMG

Go to the market and buy yourself a nice, large Salmon.

When he comes around, give him a

Okay, I was on the phone with my youngest son's father last month. (Sometimes I hate FB)

Anyway, we were discussing how great MY son is. And how he's so talented, honest, intelligent, and caring. (Yes, I'm partial ) He plays classical piano, is an artist, works with underprivileged children, and is an all-around 'good' man. And he just turned 20.

My ex then says, "Yep, WE did a good job, right?"

HOLDUP ----Muthafucka...YOU were never around when I was raising him. You weren't there when he broke his wrist and was screaming in the hospital bed when he was four. You never sent a card or a birthday gift. You never went to his school plays or even to his high school graduation. WHERE THE FUCK DO MEN GET THE NERVE?????

Okay...whew...I fell better now.

noimageatall said:

Okay, I was on the phone with my youngest son's father last month. (Sometimes I hate FB)

Anyway, we were discussing how great MY son is. And how he's so talented, honest, intelligent, and caring. (Yes, I'm partial ) He plays classical piano, is an artist, works with underprivileged children, and is an all-around 'good' man. And he just turned 20.

My ex then says, "Yep, WE did a good job, right?"

HOLDUP ----Muthafucka...YOU were never around when I was raising him. You weren't there when he broke his wrist and was screaming in the hospital bed when he was four. You never sent a card or a birthday gift. You never went to his school plays or even to his high school graduation. WHERE THE FUCK DO MEN GET THE NERVE?????

Okay...whew...I fell better now.

I feel you, babydaddy thinks my kids success and good behavior comes from sheer luck.

paintedlady said:

noimageatall said:

Okay, I was on the phone with my youngest son's father last month. (Sometimes I hate FB)

Anyway, we were discussing how great MY son is. And how he's so talented, honest, intelligent, and caring. (Yes, I'm partial ) He plays classical piano, is an artist, works with underprivileged children, and is an all-around 'good' man. And he just turned 20.

My ex then says, "Yep, WE did a good job, right?"

HOLDUP ----Muthafucka...YOU were never around when I was raising him. You weren't there when he broke his wrist and was screaming in the hospital bed when he was four. You never sent a card or a birthday gift. You never went to his school plays or even to his high school graduation. WHERE THE FUCK DO MEN GET THE NERVE?????

Okay...whew...I fell better now.

I feel you, babydaddy thinks my kids success and good behavior comes from sheer luck.

Yeah...it's all genetics.

noimageatall said:

paintedlady said:

I feel you, babydaddy thinks my kids success and good behavior comes from sheer luck.

Yeah...it's all genetics.

paintedlady said:

noimageatall said:

Okay, I was on the phone with my youngest son's father last month. (Sometimes I hate FB)

Anyway, we were discussing how great MY son is. And how he's so talented, honest, intelligent, and caring. (Yes, I'm partial ) He plays classical piano, is an artist, works with underprivileged children, and is an all-around 'good' man. And he just turned 20.

My ex then says, "Yep, WE did a good job, right?"

HOLDUP ----Muthafucka...YOU were never around when I was raising him. You weren't there when he broke his wrist and was screaming in the hospital bed when he was four. You never sent a card or a birthday gift. You never went to his school plays or even to his high school graduation. WHERE THE FUCK DO MEN GET THE NERVE?????

Okay...whew...I fell better now.

I feel you, babydaddy thinks my kids success and good behavior comes from sheer luck.

Ladies, y'all know...

The men ain't around except for the "disciplinin' ". It's your job to love, name, and raise the child.

And noimageatall..got a photo of your young boychik? Inquiring minds wanna see this young gentleman...

ThruTheEyesOfWonder said:

paintedlady said:

I feel you, babydaddy thinks my kids success and good behavior comes from sheer luck.

Ladies, y'all know...

The men ain't around except for the "disciplinin' ". It's your job to love, name, and raise the child.

And noimageatall..got a photo of your young boychik? Inquiring minds wanna see this young gentleman...

He wasn't even there for the disciplinin'...

here's my youngest...

ThruTheEyesOfWonder said:

paintedlady said:

I feel you, babydaddy thinks my kids success and good behavior comes from sheer luck.

Ladies, y'all know...

The men ain't around except for the "disciplinin' ". It's your job to love, name, and raise the child.

And noimageatall..got a photo of your young boychik? Inquiring minds wanna see this young gentleman...

Some of his artwork...

A tat design for a friend...

Prom...

TotalANXiousNESS said:

KidaDynamite said:

The fucking nerve.....

I know it's constantly. Calling me with exactly THOSE types of questions. I just say No. In the calmest and coolest tone you can imagine. He get s all worked up and I say. Sorry. My answer is still No. Goodbye. OHHHHHHHH I know it makes him mad as a hatter. I just KNOW his face is turning every shade of red and purple when he gets off that phone.

This is true; staying calm really is when the fun begins. You can see them try and get under your skin the way they use to so easily and there is nothing they can do about it. Also when you are calm you really can hear them and see so clearly how ludicrous what they are saying is.

My daughters father ended up married to a woman that I know he had no feelings for. She, however, was the daughter of a professor and had some money coming to her when the man died but even better was badly hurt in 2 car accidents and was due to make big $$ once the case came to trial. Well.....

She failed to report one of her chiropractor visits and somehow that led to her case being dismissed. Meanwhile she owes hundreds of thousands in medical bills and those hospitals and Doctors want to get paid. She is now struggling to protect any inheritance she has from the insurance companies lawyers.

She called me all upset.

Waited, counted 1, 2, 3,

He called saying he really never loved her, that it was me that he has never been able to get off of his mind and he badly needs for us to have another chance. After all he is my childs father and despite NEVER paying child support and seldom calling her, she means the world to him and he thinks of her every single day!

Yup.

Noimageatall, you have a beautiful son! And his artwork is just...wow.

I bet you're very very proud of him.

ThruTheEyesOfWonder said:

Noimageatall, you have a beautiful son! And his artwork is just...wow.

I bet you're very very proud of him.

I am ...can't you tell?

What saddens me? After reading all these posts I cannot understand or fathom how some men can walk away from such beautiful children. How is it possible? They do not know what they missed.

noimageatall said:

ThruTheEyesOfWonder said:

Noimageatall, you have a beautiful son! And his artwork is just...wow.

I bet you're very very proud of him.

I am ...can't you tell?

What saddens me? After reading all these posts I cannot understand or fathom how some men can walk away from such beautiful children. How is it possible? They do not know what they missed.

We're women. We put our family first. It takes a man with good character to stay with his offspring rather than go make more.

I think it boils down to hormones. Men have a continual stream of testosterone release, whereas women get larger release in 28 day intervals.

ThruTheEyesOfWonder said:

noimageatall said:

I am ...can't you tell?

What saddens me? After reading all these posts I cannot understand or fathom how some men can walk away from such beautiful children. How is it possible? They do not know what they missed.

We're women. We put our family first. It takes a man with good character to stay with his offspring rather than go make more.

I think it boils down to hormones. Men have a continual stream of testosterone release, whereas women get larger release in 28 day intervals.

Well I think that's all just bullshit to use as an excuse.

noimageatall said:

ThruTheEyesOfWonder said:

We're women. We put our family first. It takes a man with good character to stay with his offspring rather than go make more.

I think it boils down to hormones. Men have a continual stream of testosterone release, whereas women get larger release in 28 day intervals.

Well I think that's all just bullshit to use as an excuse.

Ooooooor, the other "scientific" reason...men can be just scum.

With the exception of a few of course...

I'm still cool with all of my Ex's, except one. He and I don't have bad feelings for one another...we just don't have anything to say, so we don't talk.

Its my Ex's new partners that always seem to want to start some shit with me.

So your man is still moaning my name 4 years after I left his ass? How is that MY fault? Bitch, put ur ass into it and make him forget my name.

I'll cut a bitch, I swear I will.

My last Ex gave his new woman my e-mail and shes been blowing up my inbox like no other.

I finally sent her some pics of him crawling around like a dog, he had on the works: leather, leash/choker, face mask etc

Told her to do that to him 3 times a week and call me if he acts up.

Better believe she stopped e-mailing me.

LadyCasanova said:

I'm still cool with all of my Ex's, except one. He and I don't have bad feelings for one another...we just don't have anything to say, so we don't talk.

Its my Ex's new partners that always seem to want to start some shit with me.

So your man is still moaning my name 4 years after I left his ass? How is that MY fault? Bitch, put ur ass into it and make him forget my name.

I'll cut a bitch, I swear I will.

My last Ex gave his new woman my e-mail and shes been blowing up my inbox like no other.

I finally sent her some pics of him crawling around like a dog, he had on the works: leather, leash/choker, face mask etc

Told her to do that to him 3 times a week and call me if he acts up.

Better believe she stopped e-mailing me.

dang...

PurpleJedi said:

LadyCasanova said:

I'm still cool with all of my Ex's, except one. He and I don't have bad feelings for one another...we just don't have anything to say, so we don't talk.

Its my Ex's new partners that always seem to want to start some shit with me.

So your man is still moaning my name 4 years after I left his ass? How is that MY fault? Bitch, put ur ass into it and make him forget my name.

I'll cut a bitch, I swear I will.

My last Ex gave his new woman my e-mail and shes been blowing up my inbox like no other.

I finally sent her some pics of him crawling around like a dog, he had on the works: leather, leash/choker, face mask etc

Told her to do that to him 3 times a week and call me if he acts up.

Better believe she stopped e-mailing me.

I know...fucked up of me. But he got the same warning all my partners do: DO NOT, unless otherwise stated, give my contact information to your new partner/fuck buddy etc.

Especially my fucking work e-mail. I gave him a chance to stop her...than they were both punished.

LadyCasanova said:

PurpleJedi said:

I know...fucked up of me. But he got the same warning all my partners do: DO NOT, unless otherwise stated, give my contact information to your new partner/fuck buddy etc.

Especially my fucking work e-mail. I gave him a chance to stop her...than they were both punished.

LadyCasanova said:

I'm still cool with all of my Ex's, except one. He and I don't have bad feelings for one another...we just don't have anything to say, so we don't talk.

Its my Ex's new partners that always seem to want to start some shit with me.

So your man is still moaning my name 4 years after I left his ass? How is that MY fault? Bitch, put ur ass into it and make him forget my name.

I'll cut a bitch, I swear I will.

My last Ex gave his new woman my e-mail and shes been blowing up my inbox like no other.

I finally sent her some pics of him crawling around like a dog, he had on the works: leather, leash/choker, face mask etc

Told her to do that to him 3 times a week and call me if he acts up.

Better believe she stopped e-mailing me.

LadyCasanova said:

I finally sent her some pics of him crawling around like a dog, he had on the works: leather, leash/choker, face mask etc

Wow. I'm--I'm speechless.

Understand your name better now, though.