So....how soon after meeting somebody do you generally make your move and start steaming up the windows or knocking the headboard into the wall?

How soon is too soon? How long of a wait is too long of wait? (and yes....all types of sexual contact count)

...this is going to be interesting...

Single woman and 40.....

by the 3rd date I wanna get my pussy sucked, IF we make it that far.

PurpleJedi said:

...this is going to be interesting...

uh huh

Depends.

If I'm super hot for him, why wait?

I don't look at it as giving up anything, I look at it as getting what I want.

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i thought it was a diet thread.

did someone say cookie???

paintedlady said:

Single woman and 40.....

by the 3rd date I wanna get my pussy sucked, IF we make it that far.

10 minutes?

......

Will they go stale if you don't?

IamFunkay7 said:

WTF ?

Machaela said:

IamFunkay7 said:

WTF ?

I know, it's not even Dancer.

MyNameIsPiper said:

Will they go stale if you don't?

It's been a long time since i've been in that situation. In the past it's been too soon.... like, right away.

But I think if I had to do it all over again i'd like to at least get their name before 'giving up the cookie'.

(i have never herd that term before. I do hope i'm talking about the same thing as everyone else).

Machaela said:

IamFunkay7 said:

WTF ?

Buck dancing?

With the person I am currently in a relationship with...I went for the money shot the first night.

We started below the waist and moved up. We didn't actually get around to kissing until

the 3rd night

JustErin said:

Depends.

If I'm super hot for him, why wait?

I don't look at it as giving up anything, I look at it as getting what I want.

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paintedlady said:

Single woman and 40.....

by the 3rd date I wanna get my pussy sucked, IF we make it that far.

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Depends on the dude.

If he fine as hell and talking right then he can get half a cookie and a cinnabon on the first date. By the 4th date he can have the buffett.

If he fine but acting stupid and arrrogant then I will make him think he's gonna get the cookie then politely leave him to fend for himself.

If he ugly and boring well.....no cookie for you! Matter of fact...why are you breathing the same air as me? GET GONE!

..... for me it depends.

there were times when it took a few years with some dudes--they would just be around and keep sniffing around me. They weren't ugly or anything, they were usually good friends but I didn't have a primal attraction (I guess they would wear me down with time)

My goal for anyone I wanted to get serious with was 3 months.....by then you usually got to see them show their ass if they just wanted a hit and run.

There have been occassions where it was less than 24 hours.......I mean if he had my blood boiling and the time was right.....hell yea.......

DoffieParker said:

i thought it was a diet thread.

it is if you choose to be celibate.....

retina said:

paintedlady said:

Single woman and 40.....

by the 3rd date I wanna get my pussy sucked, IF we make it that far.

[img:$uid]http://s10.postimage.org/uhxb7zw0p/4437640_man_with_vacuum_cleaner.jpg[/img:$uid]

... wrong appliance.

i remember my husband when we first met----all hesitant and scared to taste the cookie......he knew his ass was gonna get hooked..........

MyNameIsPiper said:

Will they go stale if you don't?

paintedlady said:

retina said:

[img:$uid]http://s10.postimage.org/uhxb7zw0p/4437640_man_with_vacuum_cleaner.jpg[/img:$uid]

... wrong appliance.

I just think it's funny when women use the word "sucked" for that. Sure, there can be a bit of sucking going on too, but the licking is the main event, no?

I'm also confused by "eaten". It's not like I want to take a big bite out of it and swallow. lol

I'm a foreigner.

The last time I gave up the cookie to someone I made him wait about a month.

He's been coming back for 23 years.

it's mine! ALL mine!!!!

^^^

Note to self: XxAxX doesn't share the cookie.