do your partners political views , musical tastes or favorite food affect sexuality?

A partner doesn't have to be into anything and everything I'm into.

Football better be one thing they are into. I've found I can't compromise there. It doesn't work.

You don't have to be into Prince as long as you understand that I am. If the idea that I can listen to 12+ hours of Prince in a day is a problem . . . well, it's probably not gonna work.

Political affiliation, food or music preference shouldn't be a major problem.

As Suprman said, as long as the person understands what I'm into, it shouldn't be a problem.

One thing, though, is that I go to a lot of concerts. I don't see the point in being with someone who doesn't want to do the things that I like to do. I'm not saying he has to go to every single one, but it's nice to have a date once in a while at those things. Also, someone who will try to talk me out of going will not work. (When I was engaged, my EX-fiance told me that Prince was a waste of money, and that neither one of us was going to the shows. )

I am very active with the Alumni Association at my alma mater. One guy told me that only "losers" hold onto their schools, and was quite cruel with his comments about me watching the football games and going to things like Homecoming and Reunion Weekend.

Religion is a sore spot. I'm not saying that he has to be religious or go to my church, but differences in belief (or lack of belief) could cause a problem if we're looking to get serious.

One of my friends dated someone of another faith who was open to her beliefs, and even attended church with her a few times. She married him, and he threw her Bible away and forbade her to worship that way anymore. Now she has to follow his religion...

Religion, politics, sports teams- if he does not try to force his opinions on me, then we're cool...

I've abandoned all hope that I could find someone hot that's into decent music a long time ago.

I couldn't be with a girl that eats meat , i think

Thankfully my gf doesn't

For a potential girlfriend:

Political affiliation would matter a lot since it would reflect her core values.

Food and music preference wouldn't matter much at all. Except if she was a vegan nazi who would scream "murder!" every time I wanted to eat meat.

For a sexual partner:

Political affiliation wouldn't matter much at all if there were other things about her that were sexy. For example I think Sarah Palin is incredibly hot even though she is an ignorant dumbass.

I couldn't care less what she thinks about food or music.

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stating the truth has fuck all to do with being a vegan nazi

Dewrede said:

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stating the truth has fuck all to do with being a vegan nazi

Sorry, you're disqualified to be my girlfriend.

retina said:

Dewrede said:

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stating the truth has fuck all to do with being a vegan nazi

Sorry, you're disqualified to be my girlfriend.

retina said:

Dewrede said:

^

stating the truth has fuck all to do with being a vegan nazi

Sorry, you're disqualified to be my girlfriend.

retina said:

Dewrede said:

^

stating the truth has fuck all to do with being a vegan nazi

Sorry, you're disqualified to be my girlfriend.

I could find a sexy quality in almost any man.... regardless of political views or diet.

Although, as soon as I saw a cigarette in his hand he would be listed under "disqualified" instantly.

Kissing is important to me. Can't be dealing with some dude with hot ass breath a coated tongue and gritty looking banana yellow teeth.

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I have non of that and i smoke

paintedlady said:

I could find a sexy quality in almost any man.... regardless of political views or diet.

Although, as soon as I saw a cigarette in his hand he would be listed under "disqualified" instantly.

Kissing is important to me. Can't be dealing with some dude with hot ass breath a coated tongue and gritty looking banana yellow teeth.

I've abandoned all hope that I could find someone hot that doesn't smoke a long time ago.

paintedlady said:

I could find a sexy quality in almost any man.... regardless of political views or diet.

Although, as soon as I saw a cigarette in his hand he would be listed under "disqualified" instantly.

Kissing is important to me. Can't be dealing with some dude with hot ass breath a coated tongue and gritty looking banana yellow teeth.

I concur.

novabrkr said:

I've abandoned all hope that I could find someone hot that doesn't smoke a long time ago.

i dont know man I once had a date with this chick she smelled weird and didnt likke my music and i didnt like her music and so after the movies I just hailed a cab for her and sent her home , no hard feelings ha ha ha

she was conservaitive, too.

i once knew this conservative borderline racist chick butt she was giving it to all them non-white ghettoish thugs ha ha a ha and now she dont wanna know nuttin about it ha ha ah

I´d bang conservative chikcs butt relationship is a no no. but I´d like to see what they up to sexually. they probably do it just like non-conservative folks ha ha

I once knew this chick she liked shitty techno music and I lost interest cuz the music sucked plus she liked ugly shoes. also cant stand if her girlfreinds stupid.

RufusRawfield said:

do your partners political views , musical tastes or favorite food affect sexuality?

sexually uptight partners OR conservative and naasty?

now some of yall probably know by now that there aint no shame in my game when it comes to the pleasures of the flesh. butt what i´d like to know is;

if yall could choose btween a real horny , conservative partner, i mean real kinky and and nasty . and a liberal butt uptight and not sooo horny kinda down to earth person what ? would be your prefrence? or what if she or he real hott butt somehow against your peeps ? i m sort of ina delemma bout this

what if she´s not into Prince? Waht if she´s into Lady gaga and the Black Eyed Peas? Would you continue the relationshop? What if she likes food that turn you off? What if she doesn´t respect your Playstation needs? I mean I knew this girl she was into the Cure I didn´t like the Cure but now I reminisce and think I should ´ve given it a try you know just cause she into The Cure dont mean she aint pretty but I was stubborn like that.

nothing seriuos just askin for some input cuz i know some of you are really flexible

Whats that sayin.. when the lights are off everyone looks the same. Or is it something using a paper bag??? whatever

chocolate1 said:

As Suprman said, as long as the person understands what I'm into, it shouldn't be a problem.

One thing, though, is that I go to a lot of concerts. I don't see the point in being with someone who doesn't want to do the things that I like to do. I'm not saying he has to go to every single one, but it's nice to have a date once in a while at those things. Also, someone who will try to talk me out of going will not work. (When I was engaged, my EX-fiance told me that Prince was a waste of money, and that neither one of us was going to the shows. )

I am very active with the Alumni Association at my alma mater. One guy told me that only "losers" hold onto their schools, and was quite cruel with his comments about me watching the football games and going to things like Homecoming and Reunion Weekend.

Religion is a sore spot. I'm not saying that he has to be religious or go to my church, but differences in belief (or lack of belief) could cause a problem if we're looking to get serious.

One of my friends dated someone of another faith who was open to her beliefs, and even attended church with her a few times. She married him, and he threw her Bible away and forbade her to worship that way anymore. Now she has to follow his religion...

Religion, politics, sports teams- if he does not try to force his opinions on me, then we're cool...

My goodness! That guy who told you that was probably jealous.

And your friend, if she is truly a believer of her religious belief, then she wouldn't LET her husband tell her that she HAD to follow his belief after marrying him. Do I hear annulment or divorce? I'm sorry, I just can't let anyone, let alone a man, control me like that. It's extremely unacceptable.

yes and no

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For me, a man's preference that differs from mine isn't a problem, as long as his belief's aren't forced upon mine, then we are good. But once my opinion is made to be downplayed, or made to seem like its dumb or something, then we will have problems. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and or preference, so unless that person is carrying their beliefs in a smug and condenscending way, then I don't think it should make them less attractive. I mean I don't really eat pork, so if I meet a guy who has to have two pork chops a week, and bacon every morning for breakfast then it wouldn't bother me.

Things that make a man less attractive (in my opinion):

Bad breath

Bad Hygiene

No motivation

Lack of goals

Priorities out of order

Rudeness

Just my

missfee said:

For me, a man's preference that differs from mine isn't a problem, as long as his belief's aren't forced upon mine, then we are good. But once my opinion is made to be downplayed, or made to seem like its dumb or something, then we will have problems. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and or preference, so unless that person is carrying their beliefs in a smug and condenscending way, then I don't think it should make them less attractive. I mean I don't really eat pork, so if I meet a guy who has to have two pork chops a week, and bacon every morning for breakfast then it wouldn't bother me.

Things that make a man less attractive (in my opinion):

Bad breath

Bad Hygiene

No motivation

Lack of goals

Priorities out of order

Rudeness

Just my

butt what if he´s good in bed...bad breath and bad higiene butt a true stud? a rude fucker,,living on welfare but with different priorities...maybe , you know....just different priorities

very pashionate though....very much hott blood boiling hott you know...just with different priorities nahmean? like..do you dislike guys with a playstation?

RufusRawfield said:

missfee said:

For me, a man's preference that differs from mine isn't a problem, as long as his belief's aren't forced upon mine, then we are good. But once my opinion is made to be downplayed, or made to seem like its dumb or something, then we will have problems. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and or preference, so unless that person is carrying their beliefs in a smug and condenscending way, then I don't think it should make them less attractive. I mean I don't really eat pork, so if I meet a guy who has to have two pork chops a week, and bacon every morning for breakfast then it wouldn't bother me.

Things that make a man less attractive (in my opinion):

Bad breath

Bad Hygiene

No motivation

Lack of goals

Priorities out of order

Rudeness

Just my

butt what if he´s good in bed...bad breath and bad higiene butt a true stud? a rude fucker,,living on welfare but with different priorities...maybe , you know....just different priorities

very pashionate though....very much hott blood boiling hott you know...just with different priorities nahmean? like..do you dislike guys with a playstation?

What she said Bad breath and bad hygiene are a deal breaker.. I mean how am I supposed to get turned on if u repulse me... You cannot tell me u would still have sex w/a crusted mouth yellow teeth girl who cooch smelled like rotten tuna left out in the sun. I dont care how fine she is

sunflower7 said:

RufusRawfield said:

butt what if he´s good in bed...bad breath and bad higiene butt a true stud? a rude fucker,,living on welfare but with different priorities...maybe , you know....just different priorities

very pashionate though....very much hott blood boiling hott you know...just with different priorities nahmean? like..do you dislike guys with a playstation?

What she said Bad breath and bad hygiene are a deal breaker.. I mean how am I supposed to get turned on if u repulse me... You cannot tell me u would still have sex w/a crusted mouth yellow teeth girl who cooch smelled like rotten tuna left out in the sun. I dont care how fine she is

Exactly. I have men tell me that if there's a funky smell from a woman down there, especially if they about to hit it, they immediately make up an excuse to either get theirselves or that particular woman the fuck out without sticking their dick in anything. No matter how fine she was. So when that's the case, why should a woman settle for a Jeromey-Rome type man (or even a fine man) with bad breath, bad teeth, poor hygiene, broke with no goals or morals and still fuck him? Umm don't think so.

Also I meant to add as well, eating habits don't matter much to me as far as men go, but if his health is being affected and he knowingly keeps eating the wrong things, then yes that's a problem. Especially if the wrong foods are messing with his erection. I know this happens sometimes with men who take high blood pressure meds. The side effect from the meds can mess with the erection, but the only way to get off the meds is to correct their diet which would, in essence, solve the problem. Now if I'm with a man who has this issue, but knowingly keeps eating the wrong foods which doesn't help the situation then that's a deal breaker. Sorry.

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missfee said:

sunflower7 said:

What she said Bad breath and bad hygiene are a deal breaker.. I mean how am I supposed to get turned on if u repulse me... You cannot tell me u would still have sex w/a crusted mouth yellow teeth girl who cooch smelled like rotten tuna left out in the sun. I dont care how fine she is

Exactly. I have men tell me that if there's a funky smell from a woman down there, especially if they about to hit it, they immediately make up an excuse to either get theirselves or that particular woman the fuck out without sticking their dick in anything. No matter how fine she was. So when that's the case, why should a woman settle for a Jeromey-Rome type man (or even a fine man) with bad breath, bad teeth, poor hygiene, broke with no goals or morals and still fuck him? Umm don't think so.

I feel ya girl!!!

Dewrede said:

I couldn't be with a girl that eats meat , i think

Thankfully my gf doesn't

define "meat" in this situation, please?

BlackAdder7 said:

Dewrede said:

I couldn't be with a girl that eats meat , i think

Thankfully my gf doesn't

define "meat" in this situation, please?

for me too