johnart said:

JustErin said:

Wtf.

Sorry I have to make this announcement:

ALL YOU STRAIGHT ORGERS THAT ENJOY HANGING OUT WITH ME (and I do enjoy hanging out with y'all SO too!).

...YOU MIGHT BE GAY

[img:$uid]http://i44.tinypic.com/ao2uxk.gif[/img:$uid]

had to bring that gif outta retirement

bboy87 said:

johnart said:

Sorry I have to make this announcement:

ALL YOU STRAIGHT ORGERS THAT ENJOY HANGING OUT WITH ME (and I do enjoy hanging out with y'all SO too!).

...YOU MIGHT BE GAY

[img:$uid]http://i44.tinypic.com/ao2uxk.gif[/img:$uid]

had to bring that gif outta retirement

OH U GAY TOO NAH!

You'll find ur id card in here:

I just pictured that gif at my house with a bunch of str8 orgers doin the vogueing.

johnart said:

TheFreakerFantastic said:

I think there is some truth to that....I've heard so many stories (not distant stories but friends/tour leaders etc) of gay guys just being so over promiscuous its frightening...

I dont' think there is much difference between gay and straight men when it comes to this sort of thing. I've always felt it was more of a gender diference.

In any case...Frightening to whom? It's their business I'd imagine.

EXACTLY! Its a man thing, not a sexual preference thing... It may 'seem" like straight men aren't as promiscuous because they have a harder time finding a girl who is willing to have one night stands... Gay men understand its just sex and doesnt need to turn into a relationship, so it 'seems" they are more promiscuous but in reality straight guys are just jealous of gay guys!

tinaz said:

johnart said:

I dont' think there is much difference between gay and straight men when it comes to this sort of thing. I've always felt it was more of a gender diference.

In any case...Frightening to whom? It's their business I'd imagine.

EXACTLY! Its a man thing, not a sexual preference thing... It may 'seem" like straight men aren't as promiscuous because they have a harder time finding a girl who is willing to have one night stands... Gay men understand its just sex and doesnt need to turn into a relationship, so it 'seems" they are more promiscuous but in reality straight guys are just jealous of gay guys!

Really? Where do you live? I'm in Michigan and women who are willing to have one night stands are more than plentiful! They grow on trees!

I'm gay and most of my straight male friends have had more sex partners in one month than I've had in my entire lifetime!

kitbradley said:

tinaz said:

EXACTLY! Its a man thing, not a sexual preference thing... It may 'seem" like straight men aren't as promiscuous because they have a harder time finding a girl who is willing to have one night stands... Gay men understand its just sex and doesnt need to turn into a relationship, so it 'seems" they are more promiscuous but in reality straight guys are just jealous of gay guys!

Really? Where do you live? I'm in Michigan and women who are willing to have one night stands are more than plentiful! They grow on trees!

I'm gay and most of my straight male friends have had more sex partners in one month than I've had in my entire lifetime!

There are slutty women out there but they are more secretive about it. They worry about their reputation and they play games and play hard to get and beat around the bush all night. If a man meets a woman that first night he might get it but there's a big chance that he might not get it that night. He's left wondering all night if he's going to get it or not.

With a lot of gay men, there's none of that bullshit. If someone approaches us in a club and simply asks "What's up", we'll tell them from the very first sentence...."Looking for some dick".....We cut right to the chase and ain't got time for all those bullshit games of hanging around a man all night and possibly not getting the dick. If the motherfucker ain't gonna give it up, we want to know right up front from the get go so we can find someone that is going to give it up. All that conversation and small talk all night long is just a waste of time. All that time spent, you could be done got his dick and moved on and got a second or third dick that same night.

kitbradley said:

tinaz said:

EXACTLY! Its a man thing, not a sexual preference thing... It may 'seem" like straight men aren't as promiscuous because they have a harder time finding a girl who is willing to have one night stands... Gay men understand its just sex and doesnt need to turn into a relationship, so it 'seems" they are more promiscuous but in reality straight guys are just jealous of gay guys!

Really? Where do you live? I'm in Michigan and women who are willing to have one night stands are more than plentiful! They grow on trees!

I'm gay and most of my straight male friends have had more sex partners in one month than I've had in my entire lifetime!

For real?? Im in Nebraska, we are all good wholesome girls

Thats my story and im sticking to it!

But vainandy explained it better than i did!

vainandy said:

kitbradley said:

Really? Where do you live? I'm in Michigan and women who are willing to have one night stands are more than plentiful! They grow on trees!

I'm gay and most of my straight male friends have had more sex partners in one month than I've had in my entire lifetime!

There are slutty women out there but they are more secretive about it. They worry about their reputation and they play games and play hard to get and beat around the bush all night. If a man meets a woman that first night he might get it but there's a big chance that he might not get it that night. He's left wondering all night if he's going to get it or not.

With a lot of gay men, there's none of that bullshit. If someone approaches us in a club and simply asks "What's up", we'll tell them from the very first sentence...."Looking for some dick".....We cut right to the chase and ain't got time for all those bullshit games of hanging around a man all night and possibly not getting the dick. If the motherfucker ain't gonna give it up, we want to know right up front from the get go so we can find someone that is going to give it up. All that conversation and small talk all night long is just a waste of time. All that time spent, you could be done got his dick and moved on and got a second or third dick that same night.

I guess I'm a lot like a woman in that respect. When I was out there like that, when a man approached me, it was extremely rare that I wanted to have sex right away. No. I wanted to have long conversations and have lunch because I figured if I'm going to give some guy a blowjob, I should at least know a little bit about him. I guess this is why I can count the number of men I've been with over my lifetime on both hands and I would still have a couple of fingers left over. And it wasn't even about beating around the bush like women do. I was just scared that I was going to catch something or catch a beat-down.

The thing that's funny about straight men is they will spend a lot of time and money (hundreds even thousands of dollars) trying to get into one woman's pants and often times, they fail.

tinaz said:

kitbradley said:

Really? Where do you live? I'm in Michigan and women who are willing to have one night stands are more than plentiful! They grow on trees!

I'm gay and most of my straight male friends have had more sex partners in one month than I've had in my entire lifetime!

For real?? Im in Nebraska, we are all good wholesome girls

Thats my story and im sticking to it!

But vainandy explained it better than i did!

Oh. Isn't Nebraska supposed to be one of those bible-belt states?

kitbradley said:

tinaz said:

For real?? Im in Nebraska, we are all good wholesome girls

Thats my story and im sticking to it!

But vainandy explained it better than i did!

Oh. Isn't Nebraska supposed to be one of those bible-belt states?

[img:$uid]http://www.gifsoup.com/view/106088/ugh-disgusted-o.gif[/img:$uid]

kitbradley said:

Why is it okay for a straight woman to have as many lesbian friends as she wants and her sexuality never comes into question, but if a straight man has just one purely platonic gay male friend, people question or comment on his sexuality? I've noticed this a lot over the years and am curious as to why there is such a double standard where having gay friends is concerned.

It's a double-standard mainly for Men & Women over 30....The 20-somethings of today are not as bad..There are so many Teens in High school that come out as Gay very early. So the next Generation is more excepting...

Like you said Kit, it's fine for a Straight Woman to have Gay friends and even experiement-sexually with another woman..If a Stright-Man EVER admits to having experimented with another guy only ONCE in his lifetime he will be BASHED and called Gay.

It's a crazy double-standard but I find that it mainly applies to people over 30...

tinaz said:

kitbradley said:

Oh. Isn't Nebraska supposed to be one of those bible-belt states?

[img:$uid]http://www.gifsoup.com/view/106088/ugh-disgusted-o.gif[/img:$uid]

vainandy said:

kitbradley said:

Really? Where do you live? I'm in Michigan and women who are willing to have one night stands are more than plentiful! They grow on trees!

I'm gay and most of my straight male friends have had more sex partners in one month than I've had in my entire lifetime!

There are slutty women out there but they are more secretive about it. They worry about their reputation and they play games and play hard to get and beat around the bush all night. If a man meets a woman that first night he might get it but there's a big chance that he might not get it that night. He's left wondering all night if he's going to get it or not.

With a lot of gay men, there's none of that bullshit. If someone approaches us in a club and simply asks "What's up", we'll tell them from the very first sentence...."Looking for some dick".....We cut right to the chase and ain't got time for all those bullshit games of hanging around a man all night and possibly not getting the dick. If the motherfucker ain't gonna give it up, we want to know right up front from the get go so we can find someone that is going to give it up. All that conversation and small talk all night long is just a waste of time. All that time spent, you could be done got his dick and moved on and got a second or third dick that same night.

Yep... definitely jealous!

That's why I just can't get behind chasing/competing for girls. It's degrading in the first place, and then to be 'rewarded' with sex if you 'succeed' is even more degrading. The girls I tend to get with, we just sort of groove off one another and eventually end up in bed, without a great deal being said; two equals, having sex as equals. Way it oughta be.

kitbradley said:

vainandy said:

There are slutty women out there but they are more secretive about it. They worry about their reputation and they play games and play hard to get and beat around the bush all night. If a man meets a woman that first night he might get it but there's a big chance that he might not get it that night. He's left wondering all night if he's going to get it or not.

With a lot of gay men, there's none of that bullshit. If someone approaches us in a club and simply asks "What's up", we'll tell them from the very first sentence...."Looking for some dick".....We cut right to the chase and ain't got time for all those bullshit games of hanging around a man all night and possibly not getting the dick. If the motherfucker ain't gonna give it up, we want to know right up front from the get go so we can find someone that is going to give it up. All that conversation and small talk all night long is just a waste of time. All that time spent, you could be done got his dick and moved on and got a second or third dick that same night.

I guess I'm a lot like a woman in that respect. When I was out there like that, when a man approached me, it was extremely rare that I wanted to have sex right away. No. I wanted to have long conversations and have lunch because I figured if I'm going to give some guy a blowjob, I should at least know a little bit about him. I guess this is why I can count the number of men I've been with over my lifetime on both hands and I would still have a couple of fingers left over. And it wasn't even about beating around the bush like women do. I was just scared that I was going to catch something or catch a beat-down.

The thing that's funny about straight men is they will spend a lot of time and money (hundreds even thousands of dollars) trying to get into one woman's pants and often times, they fail.

I think it is stupid. Shit I had a good couple men give upon me..just ecause..they were too ugly for me to want to do anything with them...nut I wasnt going to say to free food :excited: I am a big flirt, but LIKE YOU..I like to at least know the guy a little bit more...at least hang out for a couple of hours before I have sex with them. It's hard for me to get off with a person I do not know very well unless I am specifically looking for just that.