I am frustrated, I can't really do much about it. So I came here to vent.

Why in God's name would any woman knowingly go after a guy that is with a woman she knows?

I am NOT speaking of a man flirting with a woman... I am speaking of when a woman that you are aquainted with (she can be a neighbor/friend/sister/cousin) and she KNOWS he's your guy and she STILL goes after him.

WTF???

Why go after someone else's guy? I would NEVER! I never did, never understood why a woman would.

Do you think most women do this? What drives them to this behavior?

There are women who just don't care. I feel there is no true sisterhood amongst women because if there were, there would be no way any of us would go after an attached man and especially a man attached to someone we know.Call it low self-esteem, ho-ishness, etc.

I don't know your guy but I know you. He ain't goin' nowhere.

paintedlady said:

I am frustrated, I can't really do much about it. So I came here to vent.

Why in God's name would any woman knowingly go after a guy that is with a woman she knows?

I am NOT speaking of a man flirting with a woman... I am speaking of when a woman that you are aquainted with (she can be a neighbor/friend/sister/cousin) and she KNOWS he's your guy and she STILL goes after him.

WTF???

Why go after someone else's guy? I would NEVER! I never did, never understood why a woman would.

Do you think most women do this? What drives them to this behavior?

Low self-esteem. Sounds like a loser friend-cut ties with person or limited interactions with person.

Vendetta1 said:

There are women who just don't care. I feel there is no true sisterhood amongst women because if there were, there would be no way any of us would go after an attached man and especially a man attached to someone we know.Call it low self-esteem, ho-ishness, etc.

I don't know your guy but I know you. He ain't goin' nowhere.

He told me my neighbor across the way made a pass at him today.

She has a man that lives with her, he's handsome too.

Why go after my guy if you already got a man? Bitch.

See, V this is why I almost have NO female friends now.... shit even my sister slept with my kid's father.

I just don't understand... she's attractive, why be a ho? She MUST know she can get a man, right? Why bother/mess around with one that she sees with me?

Shit... my upstairs neighbor kept making holes in her wall to break pipes just so my guy could come over to her house.

He's a plumber and does plaster/tile work also... fucking skank.

paintedlady said:

I am frustrated, I can't really do much about it. So I came here to vent.

Why in God's name would any woman knowingly go after a guy that is with a woman she knows?

I am NOT speaking of a man flirting with a woman... I am speaking of when a woman that you are aquainted with (she can be a neighbor/friend/sister/cousin) and she KNOWS he's your guy and she STILL goes after him.

WTF???

Why go after someone else's guy? I would NEVER! I never did, never understood why a woman would.

Do you think most women do this? What drives them to this behavior?

Seems 2 me they are doing u a favor. If they guy can't be trusted.....he has been exposed.

kewlschool said:

paintedlady said:

I am frustrated, I can't really do much about it. So I came here to vent.

Why in God's name would any woman knowingly go after a guy that is with a woman she knows?

I am NOT speaking of a man flirting with a woman... I am speaking of when a woman that you are aquainted with (she can be a neighbor/friend/sister/cousin) and she KNOWS he's your guy and she STILL goes after him.

WTF???

Why go after someone else's guy? I would NEVER! I never did, never understood why a woman would.

Do you think most women do this? What drives them to this behavior?

Low self-esteem. Sounds like a loser friend-cut ties with person or limited interactions with person.

Its TWO women, both are neighbors.

Both these bitches smile up in my face EVERY time they see me. One (upstairs neighbor) even knows me and my guy are together, yet she still tries to throw her skank ass at him.

I wanna beat both their asses ... but I know it would do no good. I am so pissed at the lack of respect. I would never do that to them.

Never having dealt with issues leading to desperation. She could do everything she wants but the oness is on the man.

Oh, dump her ass as a friend!

Graycap23 said:

paintedlady said:

I am frustrated, I can't really do much about it. So I came here to vent.

Why in God's name would any woman knowingly go after a guy that is with a woman she knows?

I am NOT speaking of a man flirting with a woman... I am speaking of when a woman that you are aquainted with (she can be a neighbor/friend/sister/cousin) and she KNOWS he's your guy and she STILL goes after him.

WTF???

Why go after someone else's guy? I would NEVER! I never did, never understood why a woman would.

Do you think most women do this? What drives them to this behavior?

Seems 2 me they are doing u a favor. If they guy can't be trusted.....he has been exposed.

My guy told me what these heffas were up to... he didn't have to tell me a damn thing.

These heffas didn't say not one word to me though. They just keep on smiling and acting like they like me.

paintedlady said:

Graycap23 said:

Seems 2 me they are doing u a favor. If they guy can't be trusted.....he has been exposed.

My guy told me what these heffas were up to... he didn't have to tell me a damn thing.

These heffas didn't say not one word to me though. They just keep on smiling and acting like they like me.

Maybe you could tell them you are just a beard and your man is a flaming homo?

paintedlady said:

kewlschool said:

Low self-esteem. Sounds like a loser friend-cut ties with person or limited interactions with person.

Its TWO women, both are neighbors.

Both these bitches smile up in my face EVERY time they see me. One (upstairs neighbor) even knows me and my guy are together, yet she still tries to throw her skank ass at him.

I wanna beat both their asses ... but I know it would do no good. I am so pissed at the lack of respect. I would never do that to them.

This is why I don't get to involved with neighbors, we wave at each other, we talk about neighborhood issues and that's it. No personal stuff. Talk about who your seeing and that invites them for more involvement (esp ho's). But then again some people view sex as an activity (like tennis) and don't attach anything to it (see swingers).

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Never having dealt with issues leading to desperation. She could do everything she wants but the oness is on the man.

Oh, dump her ass as a friend!

Well I don't have extended conversations anymore with my neighbor upstairs.

She saw me kiss my guy hello and good-by on many occasions.

She KNOWS he's my guy. Why flirt with him? The bitch... I have PROOF of the paperwork, since my guy showed me all the work orders because she keeps making holes in her unit upstairs so she can see him. He sent the other plumber and reported her to the lanlord.

The other lady across the street is new to the neighborhood, been here since the summer and she is pretty, handsome boyfriend, they have a nice car, cute kid..... WTF. She sees he comes over to my place acoss the street daily and she is still flirting???

I hate just being rational... I could see if these women didn't know me and just was flirting with a guy they found attractive. BUT THESE BITCHES KNOW OF ME.

Its worse because it feel like a "personal" attack to me.

I feel like telling her man to tell his bitch to stay away from my man.

kewlschool said:

paintedlady said:

Its TWO women, both are neighbors.

Both these bitches smile up in my face EVERY time they see me. One (upstairs neighbor) even knows me and my guy are together, yet she still tries to throw her skank ass at him.

I wanna beat both their asses ... but I know it would do no good. I am so pissed at the lack of respect. I would never do that to them.

This is why I don't get to involved with neighbors, we wave at each other, we talk about neighborhood issues and that's it. No personal stuff. Talk about who your seeing and that invites them for more involvement (esp ho's). But then again some people view sex as an activity (like tennis) and don't attach anything to it (see swingers).

These are grown women... 40+ years in age. WTH?

The neighbor across the street doesn't really know me, but both act sweet as sugar and are all like..

HI!!!! HOW ARE YOU?

fake azz hos.

paintedlady said:

I am frustrated, I can't really do much about it. So I came here to vent.

Why in God's name would any woman knowingly go after a guy that is with a woman she knows?

I am NOT speaking of a man flirting with a woman... I am speaking of when a woman that you are aquainted with (she can be a neighbor/friend/sister/cousin) and she KNOWS he's your guy and she STILL goes after him.

WTF???

Why go after someone else's guy? I would NEVER! I never did, never understood why a woman would.

Do you think most women do this? What drives them to this behavior?

I have never gotten why women do that either.

Maybe they're intimidated by you, need to prove they can have what you got. Some women are so silly.

kewlschool said:

paintedlady said:

I am frustrated, I can't really do much about it. So I came here to vent.

Why in God's name would any woman knowingly go after a guy that is with a woman she knows?

I am NOT speaking of a man flirting with a woman... I am speaking of when a woman that you are aquainted with (she can be a neighbor/friend/sister/cousin) and she KNOWS he's your guy and she STILL goes after him.

WTF???

Why go after someone else's guy? I would NEVER! I never did, never understood why a woman would.

Do you think most women do this? What drives them to this behavior?

Low self-esteem. Sounds like a loser friend-cut ties with person or limited interactions with person.

Could be low self-esteem but some women do it simply because they can. It can be their inflated sense of confidence coming into play.

morningsong said:

paintedlady said:

I am frustrated, I can't really do much about it. So I came here to vent.

Why in God's name would any woman knowingly go after a guy that is with a woman she knows?

I am NOT speaking of a man flirting with a woman... I am speaking of when a woman that you are aquainted with (she can be a neighbor/friend/sister/cousin) and she KNOWS he's your guy and she STILL goes after him.

WTF???

Why go after someone else's guy? I would NEVER! I never did, never understood why a woman would.

Do you think most women do this? What drives them to this behavior?

I have never gotten why women do that either.

Maybe they're intimidated by you, need to prove they can have what you got. Some women are so silly.

I sooo don't get this...

They both are attractive enough. They seem intelligent and confident.

My sister does this too... she has issues. I don't allow her aorund my men.

paintedlady said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Never having dealt with issues leading to desperation. She could do everything she wants but the oness is on the man.

Oh, dump her ass as a friend!

Well I don't have extended conversations anymore with my neighbor upstairs.

She saw me kiss my guy hello and good-by on many occasions.

She KNOWS he's my guy. Why flirt with him? The bitch... I have PROOF of the paperwork, since my guy showed me all the work orders because she keeps making holes in her unit upstairs so she can see him. He sent the other plumber and reported her to the lanlord.

The other lady across the street is new to the neighborhood, been here since the summer and she is pretty, handsome boyfriend, they have a nice car, cute kid..... WTF. She sees he comes over to my place acoss the street daily and she is still flirting???

I hate just being rational... I could see if these women didn't know me and just was flirting with a guy they found attractive. BUT THESE BITCHES KNOW OF ME.

Its worse because it feel like a "personal" attack to me.

I feel like telling her man to tell his bitch to stay away from my man.

Harmless ORG type flirting or in your face flirting??? I flirt (When I'm in a relationship), but I wont mess with any other lady. Just not for me. Even in high school when the girl I had the biggest crush on finally noticed me and hit on me-only when I was dating someone else? WTF? Some people just want somebody else's person. I think it's a self esteem power play. The same reasons people are just mean to people, because they can.

(sorry for the rambiling)

paintedlady said:

Graycap23 said:

Seems 2 me they are doing u a favor. If they guy can't be trusted.....he has been exposed.

My guy told me what these heffas were up to... he didn't have to tell me a damn thing.

These heffas didn't say not one word to me though. They just keep on smiling and acting like they like me.

What is that song about back stabbers?

Vendetta1 said:

kewlschool said:

Low self-esteem. Sounds like a loser friend-cut ties with person or limited interactions with person.

Could be low self-esteem but some women do it simply because they can. It can be their inflated sense of confidence coming into play.

I think you are on to something here...

Graycap23 said:

paintedlady said:

My guy told me what these heffas were up to... he didn't have to tell me a damn thing.

These heffas didn't say not one word to me though. They just keep on smiling and acting like they like me.

What is that song about back stabbers?

Gray... I am pulling out all types of daggers out my back.

Why pretend to be nice to me then flirt with the man you see me with when I am not around?

I am just thankful my guy's not into agressive women.

I think I would have a really itchy bootay right about now.

kewlschool said:

paintedlady said:

Well I don't have extended conversations anymore with my neighbor upstairs.

She saw me kiss my guy hello and good-by on many occasions.

She KNOWS he's my guy. Why flirt with him? The bitch... I have PROOF of the paperwork, since my guy showed me all the work orders because she keeps making holes in her unit upstairs so she can see him. He sent the other plumber and reported her to the lanlord.

The other lady across the street is new to the neighborhood, been here since the summer and she is pretty, handsome boyfriend, they have a nice car, cute kid..... WTF. She sees he comes over to my place acoss the street daily and she is still flirting???

I hate just being rational... I could see if these women didn't know me and just was flirting with a guy they found attractive. BUT THESE BITCHES KNOW OF ME.

Its worse because it feel like a "personal" attack to me.

I feel like telling her man to tell his bitch to stay away from my man.

Harmless ORG type flirting or in your face flirting??? I flirt (When I'm in a relationship), but I wont mess with any other lady. Just not for me. Even in high school when the girl I had the biggest crush on finally noticed me and hit on me-only when I was dating someone else? WTF? Some people just want somebody else's person. I think it's a self esteem power play. The same reasons people are just mean to people, because they can.

(sorry for the rambiling)

She asked him over to her place (for sex ). She was direct enough.

paintedlady said:

kewlschool said:

Harmless ORG type flirting or in your face flirting??? I flirt (When I'm in a relationship), but I wont mess with any other lady. Just not for me. Even in high school when the girl I had the biggest crush on finally noticed me and hit on me-only when I was dating someone else? WTF? Some people just want somebody else's person. I think it's a self esteem power play. The same reasons people are just mean to people, because they can.

(sorry for the rambiling)

She asked him over to her place (for sex ). She was direct enough.

The cool thing is that he told you. That is character. And character can't be bought, it must be earned.

I think these women must think I a real push-over.

paintedlady said:

I think these women must think I a real push-over.

I don't think these woman even think of you. These kind of women are all about them and what they want. Not thinking about other people's feelings is not a factor in their life plots.

paintedlady said:

I am frustrated, I can't really do much about it. So I came here to vent.

Why in God's name would any woman knowingly go after a guy that is with a woman she knows?

I am NOT speaking of a man flirting with a woman... I am speaking of when a woman that you are aquainted with (she can be a neighbor/friend/sister/cousin) and she KNOWS he's your guy and she STILL goes after him.

WTF???

Why go after someone else's guy? I would NEVER! I never did, never understood why a woman would.

Do you think most women do this? What drives them to this behavior?

Two possible reasons:

1) she is a no good coniving, hating, jealous ass bitch who was waiting for an opportunity to hurt you

or

2) the dude was giving her signals and being the ho that she is, she couldn't help but respond.

kewlschool said:

paintedlady said:

She asked him over to her place (for sex ). She was direct enough.

The cool thing is that he told you. That is character. And character can't be bought, it must be earned.

Yeah, I feel like he's good for telling me, giving me a head's up.

I thought my upstairs neighbor was really cool and he told me what she did.

I wish I didn't have to feel like I was surrounded by phony women.

paintedlady said:

kewlschool said:

The cool thing is that he told you. That is character. And character can't be bought, it must be earned.

Yeah, I feel like he's good for telling me, giving me a head's up.

I thought my upstairs neighbor was really cool and he told me what she did.

I wish I didn't have to feel like I was surrounded by phony women.

Phony men and women are every where. Authentic people are the real endangered species.

paintedlady said:

I am frustrated, I can't really do much about it. So I came here to vent.

Why in God's name would any woman knowingly go after a guy that is with a woman she knows?

I am NOT speaking of a man flirting with a woman... I am speaking of when a woman that you are aquainted with (she can be a neighbor/friend/sister/cousin) and she KNOWS he's your guy and she STILL goes after him.

WTF???

Why go after someone else's guy? I would NEVER! I never did, never understood why a woman would.

Do you think most women do this? What drives them to this behavior?

Most, no.

But a smaller number of sick, selfish women who have no sense of humanity, respect, boundaries, or self worth...yeah, this unfortunately is their MO, sadly.

wow! i don't understand why some women do this at all. but i've seen it happen a few times to people i know. it is very rude, and shows no respect at all.

kewlschool said:

paintedlady said:

I think these women must think I a real push-over.

I don't think these woman even think of you. These kind of women are all about them and what they want. Not thinking about other people's feelings is not a factor in their life plots.

I agree.

HotGritz said:

paintedlady said:

I am frustrated, I can't really do much about it. So I came here to vent.

Why in God's name would any woman knowingly go after a guy that is with a woman she knows?

I am NOT speaking of a man flirting with a woman... I am speaking of when a woman that you are aquainted with (she can be a neighbor/friend/sister/cousin) and she KNOWS he's your guy and she STILL goes after him.

WTF???

Why go after someone else's guy? I would NEVER! I never did, never understood why a woman would.

Do you think most women do this? What drives them to this behavior?

Two possible reasons:

1) she is a no good coniving, hating, jealous ass bitch who was waiting for an opportunity to hurt you

or

2) the dude was giving her signals and being the ho that she is, she couldn't help but respond.

He does attract attention, since he looks good in his work clothes... he has a nice body.

He smiles and says hello.... but I never caught any flirting either way around me.

My upstairs neighbor did tell me she thought my guy was handsome though. That was over a year ago... before she even flirted with him. I never thought anything of it. I tend not to be suspicious of women... I guess I ought to be.